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Warning over American soldier scam

POLICE say more lonely Plymouth women have been conned by bogus American soldiers who pluck at their heartstrings for cash.
City detectives say they have had further reports of women claiming to have handed over vast sums in the belief the money is going to help their new ‘boyfriends’ who are serving in Afghanistan.
However, investigations go on to uncover a widespread scam by Nigerian fraudsters who have successfully targeted desperate UK women through legitimate internet dating sites.
Det Sgt Rod Nicholls said he had recently dealt with three cases, one where a woman made three payments totalling a five-figure sum and another where around £7,500 was given away.
“These are tragic cases where vulnerable women who have gone looking for love on legitimate sites have been conned by people claiming to be lovesick American soldiers,” he said.
The con-artists quickly move off the website to begin sending personal emails back and forth, developing the relationship and trust.
Once the rapport is built up, with personal information gathered from the woman, appeals for cash begin, with heartbreaking stories to convince her.
The money is invariably paid into a British bank account before being forwarded on to Nigeria. The ‘American soldier’ then disappears.
“In the last three cases I’ve looked at, a substantial amount of money has been lost,” said Det Sgt Nicholls.
“It’s undoubtedly sad that these women are so desperate for love they’re willing to hand over large amounts of money.
“This is a nationwide scam. It begins with a handsome American soldier who’s looking for a nice British woman, usually middle-aged, frequently widowed or divorced.
“The photos, the sob stories and explanations are all bogus and the women are being conned into thinking they’re helping a genuine soldier,” he said.
“Sometimes it’s a sick son or daughter from their previous marriage, or they need the cash so they can fly to England to visit the woman.
“These are cruel and callous conmen who are using vulnerable women and we want to make people aware this method is currently being used and has been very successful in duping females who are using dating agency websites.”
Anyone who believes they or a friend is being duped by a similar scam is advised to call the police on 08452 777444.

February 17, 2010 - Posted by | Uncategorized

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  1. SGT. FRANK DASZ

    Liar, fake military and romance scammer

    Other “fake” names/accomplices used Col. Bryan Watson, “serving” in Iraq

    Claims 47 years old, single/widower with dependent “son” aged 10, “serving” in Iraq

    Mail addresses used;

    sgt.frankd@yahoo.com
    colbryanwatson06@btinternet.com
    mtelecom@consultant.com
    Telecomdept@military.com

    Comment by tied of crying | March 5, 2010 | Reply

    • Hi can anyone tell me if this email address is genuine? natoaghan_usa@asia.com, this is supposed to be who i request short leave for and i pay for transportation fees and military refund on safe arrival?

      Comment by julie blackmore | October 18, 2012 | Reply

      • Do not send any money to anyone for any kind of leave.. !! I got scammed and after that.. I searched a lot of stuff.. and found a legitimate site.. and reported my scam. this officer told me.. all soldiers are entitled to their leaves.. no one can put in special requests for their leaves except them.. and they have money to get in and out.. and in most cases.. their way is covered by the army itself..so don’t fall for any garabage on the internet.. no matter how real the romance seems to you.. if it is a real romance.. they will never never ever request any kind of money from you.. not for transportation for leave, not to help poor sick gramma.. or to help out my family or mom.. most of these scammers he says are out of africa..and if you are finding these guys on dating sites..the dating sites are loaded with them.. they single you out and want you to converse with them in private email.. and is usually yahoo.cause it now has messenger inside it..ask them to do msn.. they can’t..lol.. and I have had several bites since then.. so i let them lead me on.. or let them think they r leading me on..play with them..then they will tell you how disppointed they are in you .. cause you cannot help them.. they will do the guilt trip.. the whole nine yards.. BUT DO NOT SEND MONEY.. EVER!! ASK HIM WHAT TIME IT IS IN AFRICA!!

        the emails.. will speak in broken up english.. not perfect english like we speak.. eg. I like to get to better know you.. not I would like to get to know you better..
        I got my heart torn out..now I can pick them up a mile away!!
        good luck.. wish you the best.. but NEVER send money

        Comment by Debbra | October 18, 2012

    • You are welcome to THE
      >ADMIN, DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE U.S ARMY due to your location THIS IS THE
      >ISTANBUL,TURKEY (EASTERN EUROPE BRANCH). whereby you request for leave for
      >your love one’s in the military. Your request for a leave for Sergent John
      >Jordan Powers was recieved 02:07:2013 23:35:40 PM and as been
      >verified, we are here to inform you that the following Officer is a member
      >of the U.S ARMY which were now stationed at ISTANBUL,TURKEY eligible for a
      >leave and will be pay to which you will claim as his/her beneficiary. So
      >here are the policy and instruction for a leave request in the attachment
      >below. And if you agree to the whole policy and instruction kindly reply to
      >the leave request for the returning officer Sergent John jordan Powers by
      >writing us
      > that you have
      > agree to the policy and instruction then next step follows.
      >
      >
      > PROCESSING OFFICER: Lt. Col. Robert

      Comment by kristin | February 9, 2013 | Reply

    • I too have been scammed by a Sgt. Henrie Mike. He asked me to marry him and to send an urgent request for his leave for which I did to USAarmyleaveoffice@Gmail.com. I received numerous emails in return signed by a Lt. Col. Robert Gonzalez and also the name Venedes Bell was used in the correspondence. All appeared to be genuine forms but I was told I had been approved and made Sgt. Mike’s next of kin but had to send $200.00 for processing prior to his leave request being fulfilled.I am on SSI disability and informed them I did not have the requested money so they made payment arrangements. I sent $70.00 but having found this site I now know to send nothing further by Western Union per their instructions. I have IM and had phone calls from this person since July21, 2013. I fell in love now I am devastated. This would not be my first scam I was scammed in July for 1600.00 but not by a military man. Will this every end are there any good and decent men out there looking for good women to love? Both scammers contacted me thru the website Badoo. Both are from Nigeria. Sgt Henrie Mike is listed on Pig Busters.net and has an account with Netlog ie Twoo.

      Comment by Lori | August 21, 2013 | Reply

      • please dont pay any money they are liars and nigerians fraudsters one australien woman was killed in Nigeria when she visited him and she meet him over the internet it was last week in the australien television.Please do not pay any moneyy any more i was caught in 2010 over years from a scammer called duedo Frienzo lost a lot of money ones but no more

        Comment by Ingeborg Fisdcher | August 21, 2013

      • sorry about your loss.

        Comment by alanprince | August 30, 2013

      • Help, I think I am being scammed by an Australian in Afghanistan! He rang me and had the weirdest accent, I have asked him several times about his accent but reading this I think he is African. So far I have only paid for phone access but now he wants me to pay for transport? Help please

        Comment by Christine | March 16, 2014

    • STG Nicholas Campbel, Along with a Dinlge Phebe scrammed me I guess, did not want to believe because he made me feel so good about myself. I did send money and was hard to get the money. I did everything possible for him. Loss of money and a broken heart what can I do about it.

      Comment by peggy dyck | February 13, 2014 | Reply

      • can anyone here help her out?or maybe you can contact some people with stories similar to yours.

        Comment by alanprince | February 25, 2014

      • Hi I have open my eyes now and realize how stupid I was, I should of know how can it be so good and yet be true. I loss things but hey I guess I am still here that is what is important. I did not report anything cause I feel stupid. Am I doing the right thing.

        Comment by peggy dyck | March 21, 2014

      • Hi peggy he’s fake and not for real just try to text me to my email ryan_brandon01@yahoo.com to put you through ok or drop your phone # God bless America.

        Comment by SFC Ryan Brandon | April 13, 2015

    • a man (who says be a soldier and he is in Afghanistan, he asked me for money (how help) made me believe him , he said me “love you” and ” I´m real” all time…. his e-mail is richard.martins45@yahoo.com……. I had a prejudice in R $ 20,000 reais = USD 4,940 = EUR 4:45 ;; he destroyed lifes … he doesnt like woman but loves money

      Comment by carla B | February 22, 2016 | Reply

  2. watch out for seeker_genthe on okcupid.com
    african pretending to be a real soldier in afghanistan going by the name of Sgt Majo william genthe Jack, genthe Willliams Jack
    wife died giving birth son is 21 living in the UK using a Uk number +447024088944 email address williamtonyjack@yahoo.com
    usarmysalaryunit@accountant.com
    usarmytransitunits@usa.com

    Comment by nancee roundtree | September 21, 2010 | Reply

  3. Can confirm this information. Just go to http://www.datingforparents.com its full of service men searching for love with a dependent child, its not real, all tell the same or similar story. Serving, widowed lost wife through accident or due to cancer, now child is wanting a new mum.
    I was freaked out and left the site immediately. Its not real so many of them lost wife in freak accident and left behind with the child, now intending to come and live in UK.

    sgt.frank67@yahoo.com
    dr.adamsscott@hotmail.com
    captainchrisbabs@yahoo.com

    Comment by Saydee | September 24, 2010 | Reply

  4. hi i can add to ur list Alan sheppherd supposedly posted in Nigeria with the peace keeping force
    Ralph edwards
    supposedly in iraq
    Richard smith supposedly in iraq – been targeted three times
    have the photos saved if required including photos of richard smiths injured ‘son’ luckily im not desperate enough to part with any cash to a complete stranger- spoke to an officer at leicester police who was fantastic and supportive

    Comment by mary madden | October 19, 2010 | Reply

    • hi can you send me photo o ralph edwards as i have a capt ralph e reynolds at the moment asking me for money thankyou

      Comment by angela brown | June 9, 2011 | Reply

      • Hi Angela

        I am in contact with a captain Ralph Reynolds is his email by any chance capt.reynoldsralph@live.com or capt.reynoldsralph@yahoo.com

        There is no Edward as his middle name.

        He says he is from Harrogate in North Yorkshire. If you send me your email address I will send you the photos of him and see if the is the same one as I also fail to trust these men on the dating website. he says he is in Kabul (Afghanistan) right now on deployment.

        So I really appreciate what you are going through specially when they start telling their sob stories and ask for money.

        Regards

        Mina

        Comment by Mina Davis | July 13, 2011

      • Hi Angela

        I think I caught Captain Ralph Reynolds at his own again after his email of begging me to set up satellite connections so he can send and recieve emails.

        When I refused to do it he has stopped sending me emails whether he has genuinely lost connection in Kabul or not that is really questionable as I suggested he can always go to internet cafe out there and read emails from me.

        Do you feel it is true that they suddenly get disconnected from the internet and the only way to get connection is via this satellite connection.

        Kind regards

        Mina

        Comment by Mina Davis | July 15, 2011

      • Hi… I hate to admit it, but I think I was almost scammed by a man wearing a army uniform with the name Edwards on it…supposedly an american from michigan. He and his platoon had apparently come across a stash of gold during a ground search in Tripoli, Libya (with an apparent value of approx. 8 million USD)…he supposedly sent it to me without disclosing the contents to the shipping company and claimed that I was his wife here in Canada. The box was then stopped by Netherlands Customs Office at the Amsterdam airport with a fee of over $4,000.00 to be paid for a customs clearance certificate. I didn’t pay a cent but did phone CSIS in montreal Canada and had them check into it. They said that the package indeed was in the Customs Office but was probably filled with dirt/rocks….I also contacted interpol and sent the photos of the soldier and his son to the Department of Defense at the Pentagon in Washington DC as I was advised by the local police that somebody could’ve hacked into the soldier’s email site.

        Comment by Kathryn Mayer | July 19, 2011

    • Hi Mary

      Thanks for sharing this with all of us who is trying to find the love of their lives on the internet.

      There is a captain Ralph Reynolds who is based in Afghanistan from Yorkshire whom I am communicating with right now and has fallen head over heels for me. If I forwarded his photo to you would you be able to tell me if that is the same one or not. I found him through Girls Date Free dating website.

      many thanks

      Mina

      Comment by Mina Davis | July 13, 2011 | Reply

      • Hi Mary,
        I received an interest from a Capt. Ralph Edwards on Speed Date website. He claims he is retired and is
        loving in Colorado. Yes, please send a photo as soon as we ccan so tat if this person is impersonating a soldier.
        they have to be stopped. He claims he has a business in palm oil and travels to Malaysia.
        Please respond and thanks for posting your information.

        Bernie

        Comment by Bernardine Bedell | January 25, 2012

      • Hi Mina and Mary,

        How can I check if the person I am chatting with in the internet is a true one? I can’t find him in people search because I am in China right now. I am chatting with an American soldier from Nevada but serving in Afghanistan too. His name is Fred Latoy, a general in position. As of now, we just chat twice…I am a bit curious because he said he can used his connection to get me out here in China going to the USA. Is that really easy? I am not familiar with Military benefits inside and outside the US. I am just pretending that I am on to it. I know that there are lots of scam on the net.

        I also chatted with a man last year from UK, he said he was a business man and he also get my phone number here in China and when we chat in video call, I’ve notice that it was like fake. I am a keen observer. I give him time to chat with me. After three consecutive chats, suddenly, he was trying to borrow some money to me, then I realize that I think he is an scammer. I said I can’t lend him money. Why on earth is a business man borrow some amount of money to a woman like me. He said he need to go to the US to see his daughter. So there, I said I’m sorry to him. I cannot lend him money because I am a single mom, and then after that incident, he disappear, no chat, nothing at all. At least I am not trap to those sweet tongue from that guy.

        So now, I am chatting again with other man name “Fred Latoy” an american soldier in Afghanistan, but right now no money issue yet. I am waiting for the time and observing if he is also the one. He didn’t even asked my real name but he said he want to meet me now. I said, that can wait. I notice that his net is on and off….. I don’t know if this is a true person or maybe he is just one of the scammers on the net…just waiting for the next chat…..By the way, I met this man in Christianet.com. He said he is a Baptist. I also notice he already removed his account in Cnet.com….

        Keeping in touch,
        Aida

        Comment by Aida | November 10, 2012

  5. Man asking for money Marvin Ramos sergeant in peace keeping at Badhdad componud. Sent me 7 pictures of “him” 2 in uniform. Meet on dating site, friendship,love,marriage, requesting money for 15 year son. Bacame angry when money not given and since no further contact.This all happened inside of 3 weeks. Have his email address for what it is worth.

    Comment by Gaynor | January 9, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi

      How can you check and see if they are really captain in the NATO in Afghanistan. Is there a number you can contact and ask these kinds of questions just to see if these crooks are telling us the truth about their real jobs/

      Any kind of information from anyone will be really useful.

      Many thanks

      Mina

      Comment by Mina Davis | July 14, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi Gaynor

      I am going to paste something this guy has sent me who is a captain in Afghanistan.

      Please let me have your opnion as to how true this is.

      Ralph Reynolds” Add sender to ContactsTo: mina_davis@yahoo.co.ukHi sweetie,

      I want you to know I’m really depressed today and I’m not happy at all… today i got the notice that i will be cut out of the internet cause of the new upgraded secured connection which i think is the best for us too babe, now I’m afraid when I’m cut out of here soon i wont be able to come online to send you mails or read from you too .

      I got really depressed babe and don’t know what to do ..when i went to the Secured Connection Department this morning to see the Processing Officer then he tried to explain things to me .. he said if i want to get connected back ..its very simple and I wish you could get this for us cos i can’t afford to miss you and missed reading your wonderful mails..

      Honey, all you have to do is for you to contact the Secured Connection Department, by sending them a mail asking them that you want a secured satellite mobile/Internet Connection for your fiancee, Honey, I want you to know with this satellite connection, It will enable me to connect to the Internet and i can be able to reach you at anytime send you mails which i think it make you happy.. The important part of it is that i will have the access to voice call and video call cos we have no access to call or web cam due our security purpose and i think this service will be good for us cos i can hear the sound of your lovely voice anytime, any day, before i went to sleep babe .. Honey, that’s the only chance we got as soon as possible.. But babe, little amount will be spent for the processing of the service which will be refund back to you after 48hours of the completion of the Sevice.

      Babe, Please let me hear your Opinion on this okay and I will be very happy if you can get this for us cos i really believe in good communication in a relationship..Hoping to hear from you if you have interest in the service so that i can get you the address to write from the Admin..

      Hoping to read from you soon..

      Your Man

      Ralph…xxx

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      Comment by Mina Davis | July 14, 2011 | Reply

      • OK Mina, hate to say it but the story sounds familiar – it was not an internet connection with me, it was a broken laptop yet still managed to connect most of the day before going out on patrol. I know my ‘fiancee’ is active on a number of sites, Babe sounds a bit familiar and sending some money probably via Western Union to Nigeria alledgely stationed in Iraq!

        Comment by Fiona | July 15, 2011

    • Hi Gaynor

      I’m also a victim, emotionally but not financially, of an internet scam. I sent the printed up photos and a letter briefly explaining the situation, to Dept. of Defense, 1400 Pentagon, Washington, DC…look up the address on the internet…I’m sure if we all started sending our complaints there that they would have to review their policies and procedures for these kinds of behaviours as the supposed soldiers whose Identities have been possibly stolen by nigerians have had their photo on a dating site or facebook, etc….and perhaps as a respectable soldier they should not have anything to do with those sites….Kathryn

      Comment by Kathryn Mayer | July 19, 2011 | Reply

  6. Interesting that this scam has been running for a while. I thought this was something that had only just started. There’s a story about a British woman defrauded in exactly this manner that’s getting a lot of media attention lately.

    Comment by Matt | February 3, 2011 | Reply

  7. peter harmstrong add this name to the list

    Comment by barbara mitchell | February 10, 2011 | Reply

  8. Another one to look out for Dennis Gray Alledged American Soldier in Afghanistan Also known as mrsimple on a couple of dating sites.

    Comment by j | February 13, 2011 | Reply

  9. Colonel Maxwel Howard, met on dating site, has got into my head and made me ill. Lost 10lbs in weight in 2 weeks

    Comment by Susan Dickson | February 19, 2011 | Reply

  10. ANOTHER NAME TO ADD IS,
    STAVEN BRIAN ROY,
    CLAIMING TO BE STATIONED IN NIGERIA, PEACECORPS ,US MILITARY… REQUESTED THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS FOR AIRFARE. PLAYSTATION, MOBILE PHONE ETC ALL WITHIN A MTH.STILL ON LINE.
    EMAIL ADDRESS= stavbra_01@yahoo.com, staven%20brian. date of birth ,may, 6th, 1965. WATCH OUT FOR THIS ONE, PURE EVIL! %20 this is virtually a logo for the scammers.

    Comment by DONNA WRIGHT | March 2, 2011 | Reply

  11. Sad to think that these poor soliers are being used as pawns in such circumstances! Yes I was naive, but thankfully saw through the low life for what he was! The scammers name is LT.COL. ROBERT GONZALEZ OR LT.COL.ROBERT FRIEDMAN…. Lt Chen Johnson or whoever his real name is, I feel sad to think your profile is posted on such sites at FB, Netlog, and so many more. May these scammers be put away for good!

    Comment by Frankie | March 27, 2011 | Reply

    • Frankie

      I believe I am being scammed as well my soldier said I need to send my request for his leave to a Lt Col Robert Freidman.

      What can we do about this?

      Tiffani

      Comment by Tiffani | August 20, 2011 | Reply

    • i have been talking to a Allan Lott and he has asked me to send a leave request to
      Lt. Col. Robert Gonzalez Processing Officer. So these people are scammers?
      They really are conviencing and im glad now that my son told me to check then out. Everything looks so official, and real,and i fell for it.

      Comment by mary clark | June 9, 2012 | Reply

  12. well, well what a coincidence LT.COL.ROBERT GONZALEZ the processing officer of one Trevio Roland Maccain who is claiming to be serving in Afghanistan and has a daughter Monica who is in Nigeria and supposedly got robbed scammed money from us and thought it very odd when she was unable to leave Nigeria because she had no BTA basic travelling allowance, this is not a requirement so i found out. I will never allow myself vulnerable to anyone ever again be aware of this name.

    Comment by Cathy | April 9, 2011 | Reply

    • ok so I kinda new what was going on here, I am still talking to my soldier, but I know he is trying to work me over. So Im playing him for a while letting him think he’s got me. My soldier claims to be Sgt. Alex Zerio Mark, email Zeriomark@yahoo.com. I have been researching him every since he fell in love with me on day three. His parents were killed in a plane crash years ago leaving him to raise his two young siblings and his wife Karen died three years ago from lung cancer. He claims to be serving in Kabul Afganistan at Camp Phoenix. My, My he also sent me a leavetransit form signed by Lt. Col.Robert Gonzales, asking me to remit $5000.00 US dollars for his release from the war zone.Claims his commander is Gen. Ricky Edwards with a gmail email address. Officers in the millitary have an email address issued to them by whatever branch of military they are in. And would have to use am official email address to process any kind of official paper work. Funny thing is, is that I found the real soldier on Facebook. I have sent him a message asking if its him that Ive been talking to, knowing its not, but I want him to be aware of whats going on. Gosh I might be wiiling to hook up, but my soldier is 44 and the real soldier is 28. In my research I also found two more facebok pages that the imposter must have set up because there were only a few women as friends and only a few pictures posted. Pictures taken from Alex Zerio’s facebook page because I looked through them and they are all there, all the pictures that this guy has sent me so far. Oh and another thing is that both of his parents are in his friends on Facebook, neither one of them are dead. Oh my letters are getting really good at this point its like I am in a movie. Anyway this guy calls me love and honey. By Gods grace, I will catch this guy, good luck to all of you and God bless, Ill bee praying that these guys get all they deserve. And one more thing, this guy know I am a Pentacostal Holy Roller and he is trying to play into my spirituallity, please beware.

      Comment by Juli Smith | August 28, 2012 | Reply

      • I think I am in the middle of a scam right now… I cant find anything on this person who has contacted me. He has asked me for a phone…I would like 2 chat with u about this…

        Comment by Billie Lister | September 9, 2012

      • my ex wife has been conned by one of these fraudsters,he liked her name 3 week’s later he wanted to marry her even put it on his facebook site, my wife is also pentacostal and this was the common demonitor, he states he is going to buy her a house in australia i have sent info to the fbi, he has my ex in the palm of his hand and ask’s for momey to release fund’s so she can buy their love nest, surely some one can make these fraudsters burn in hell

        Comment by peter | December 7, 2012

      • can you send his photo,is he decorated in his photo??? trying to get information from the military as to the identy of the real soldier is impossible i contacted the american embassy in australia to be told that photos of american servicemen are fradulently used 10 times a week ive got the photo it’s on his facebook site under the name of AIR VICE MARSHAL HEIKE.DUFFY.PAULSON anybody recognise this GENUINE SOLDIER,so i can make contact,he has promised to marry her and has boxes of money waiting she just has to pay to receive them this scam is still going on and she is still paying

        Comment by seawolf | January 15, 2013

      • Juli, the same guy but using David Zerio as a name tried to scam me and thanks to my friends we cought it on time. thanks for your comment, it opened my eyes.

        Comment by Isabel Martin | November 22, 2013

      • Wow! Sounds so familiar. My “generals” name is paulson dave aka Bouziane Mohammed. Anyone come across that one?

        Comment by Lorraine Knife | September 12, 2015

  13. I am so glad I cameacross your site. I have been msn messaging with a man in the US Army in Afganistan. I also was asked to apply for leave for him an received a Policy and Instruction For Leave Request Form signed by Lt. Col. Robert Gonzalez. What got my attention was item no. 9 Spouse or family of employee who is requesting for leave must pay all necessary charges accordingly. Upon asking my male friend how much his reply was $920.00 US dollars. I have not returned the form agreeing or handed over any money and have no plans to. I received pictures of the service and his daughters. He also claimed ot have lsot his wife to cancer 4 years ago.
    Ladies beware

    Comment by Sharon Douglas | April 9, 2011 | Reply

    • Dear sharon i am interested in seeing a photo of the soldier you have and i can also send you photo’s i have

      Comment by Cathy | April 9, 2011 | Reply

    • Sharon

      My name is Tiffani and I too believed to be scammed and his is claiming to be a soldier in the Army Stationed in Bagram…His name is Sgt Major David Burnt …he sent me pics as well

      Can you please share yours as well

      Comment by Tiffani | August 20, 2011 | Reply

    • hello,
      I’m German and do not speak English well.
      I think I’m fallen to the same fraudsters. until now I have sent no money. but he has called on the same routes and vacation for a while by the army in afghanistan.
      Perhaps you want to communicate with me get in touch. I do not know how to get out of the case “healing”.
      Greeting r.

      Comment by R.H. | January 19, 2012 | Reply

      • hi. pls rea through the posts on this site.you’ll be informed as to how you can get over this case.

        Comment by alanprince | January 24, 2012

    • my name is kathleen sprague i think im beeing scamed by a solider in afganistan
      sent him money for air fair now he needs more for pastport and medical papers dont want to send asked him for more personal info dont want to give it

      Comment by kathleen sprague | February 18, 2013 | Reply

      • YoU have just been scammed hunnie.. do NOT send anymore..NO AMERICAN OR CANADIAN SOLDIERS ASK FOR MONEY! Only Scammers do.. and the dating sites are loaded with them.. No real american soldier would ask for money to get out and get home.. i got scammed also.. so not send more.

        Comment by Debbra | February 19, 2013

      • I have just be scrammed hate to day but I did send money what can I do about that now just a lost iI guess and and broken heart.

        Comment by peggy mackinaw | February 13, 2014

      • Hi Peggy, I have said many times if someone asks for money they are a scammer. All military have access to their bank accounts and get paid well. Please donot sent any more money.

        Comment by Irene Smith | February 14, 2014

    • I think I am being scammed, in fact the more I read the surer I am, this guy said his wife died of cancer, sad thing is that my husband died of cancer but I kept asking him about his accent. Now I realise he is african, I have not lost too much, just a piece of my heart. I paid to go on a dating site to meet widowers in Australia –

      Comment by Christine | March 16, 2014 | Reply

      • Hi Christine they seem to be catching a lot of aussies lately, at least you are seeing it for what it is , my ex has been conned for 15 months we have told her but they keep coming back at her . Every time we think we have finally broken through to her , she get’s conned again she think’s she will be receiving 12 million dollars and the air vice marshal is coming to aus to marry her she is in for $60,000 so far

        Comment by seawolf612009seawolf | March 17, 2014

  14. To Donna that %20 was in Trevio’s email and i really wish i had known, his email is bonesboi@yahoo.com but once his name comes up its trevio%20maccain and the hotmail email is bonesboi@hotmail.com so be careful not stupid as i was. This has been a real eye opener i lost money but others have lost far more, i was lucky i woke up in time.

    Comment by Cathy | April 9, 2011 | Reply

  15. Yes I was fed the same story. Wife died, daughter back in the US.Wanting to get out and begin his new life with me!!! Yeah right and my money. I am sick of these low lifes! The name Ramos is a quite a familiar one too. He is on the Netlog site and FB. But what I really want to know is, do the real soldiers ever know that their identity has been stolen? It is them I feel sorry for!

    Comment by Frankie | April 9, 2011 | Reply

    • I have recently asked the same question about the soldiers identity and have forwarded photo’s passports and leave papers and names and addresses relating to where i sent money to the us embassy i also want this information to go to the federal police, they need to get these scum bags.

      Comment by Cathy | April 9, 2011 | Reply

  16. STAVEN ROY HAS NOW CHANGED HIS NAME TO STEVE,HE CURRENTLY USES GMAIL, IMESH MUSIC SITE, STILL NAGGNG ME FOR THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS. I KEEP PUTTING HIM OFF, GETTING STRESSFUL FOR ME. I HAVE PICTURES ,LEAVE FORMS ETC EVERY THING, I NEED HELP HERE. ANY HELP GETTING THIS SCUM TO LEAVE ME ALONE WOULD BE SO SO APPRECIATED. IM TIRED OF IT. DOSENT SEEM THE RIGHT AUTHORITYS WANT TO HELP. IVE RANG EVERYONE I CAN THINK OF. BEEN TOLD BY AUSTRALIAN AUTHORITYS NOTHING CAN BE DONE BOUT THIS GUY. IM AT MY WITS END. THREATENED TO KILL A GUY I WAS SEEING HERE IN MY HOME TOWN. FEEL LOST N TRAPPED IN THIS SITUATION. IM POLITE TO THIS GUY, YET I WISH HE,D DISAPEAR. HELP ME PLEASE.

    Comment by DONNA WRIGHT | April 9, 2011 | Reply

  17. Imesh is where i met this so called Trevio, 1. uninstall imesh 2. block him from all chats and send everything you have to the federal police and yes they probably cannot do anything about it because its Nigeria they are working from, and its out of their jurisdiction, i am working on getting his ip address need my friend who is good with this he is going to find out from emails sent.

    Comment by Cathy | April 9, 2011 | Reply

    • you can add some more to it
      henry cody senior sergeant
      robert wood
      william brigadier rapp
      major chris miller
      general stephen.r lanza
      general loyd austin james
      general carsten jacobs and as i ask him how it comes he is online and the same time was interviewed by television he didnt answer and disappeared

      Comment by ingeborg | February 23, 2012 | Reply

  18. HI, ADD I ANOTHER TO THE LIST
    DSGT JAMES MELTZ, WHO I FELL IN LOVE WITH.
    DIVORCE HIS WIFE.
    SSGT NICHOLAS MARCC
    CAPTAIN CHRIS ANOLD
    ALL LIVE IN NIGERIA.
    SOMEONE MUST CATCH THESE SCAMMED, PLEASE.
    I HAVE THREE KIDS AND I AM GOING TO BE HOMELESSES IN THREE WEEKS TIME.

    Comment by kerry nice | April 28, 2011 | Reply

    • Is this because you gave money you didn’t really have to give, this is so sad, i gave money i didn’t have and had to borrow money just to feed my family, these scammers need to be stopped, i see my so called soldier friend has been removed from facebook yay about time.

      Comment by Cathy | May 1, 2011 | Reply

    • well we must get FBI CIA INTERPOL POLICE to look at that and report everyone even the mallest little thing to the side where you meet him and we have to get together and write to president obama and all the politician get on the road with banners there are thousand of woman and men around australia europe america which where betrayed this way too and the have to listen the biggest problem is western union this bank have the details of everyone who cheat us with money then they all have bankaccounts where they are belief me when we can get western union moneygramm to give out there details to police around the world then we will be okay and the scammers wouldnt have a chance. then many are in the same country where e live belief me.
      so we get together and look to keep the datingsides clean.

      Comment by ingeborg | February 27, 2012 | Reply

  19. Also the name of Trevio Roland Maccain’s Daughter is Monica Roland she too is on facebook and should be removed she is a scammer if infact she is a she it could be a he pretending to be female who knows these scammers always seem to have their bases covered.

    Comment by Cathy | May 1, 2011 | Reply

  20. I too almost fell victum to this. I met Sgt Matthew E Williams on FB. First thing I thought was odd was his wording. He did not type like an American. Then living 5 hours from his duty station with a 7 year old daughter with a nanny in Dallas. Made no sence. Fortunately, I have a friend who was stationed at the Pentagon before he retired 6 months ago and started asking him questions after I played along with Matthew for a while to see how far this would go when I would not send the money. Needless to say when I told Sgt Williams about my friend working on his transportation for us, we became angry and told me to stop. It was then that I told him I knew what he was doing was a scam and reported it to the CID at Ft Hood. I feel sorry for the real Sgt Williams. Tried to get intouch with his National Guard Unit so that I could tell him. Not only are these people taking advantage of women, they are taking advantage of the soliders that are working so hard to keep use safe. I wish there was more I could do.

    Comment by Tonye Rogoski | May 5, 2011 | Reply

    • Looks like we found the same Matthew Williams. He had me hook line and sinker except I am a single mum with 2 kids and he had no chance getting my money. Fortunatly for him I was talked out of it by the people at the travelex place.. It was the same guy Matthew Williams but he was from Texas and his 7 yr old was with a nanny and he asked for $3380 for travel and replacement on his deployment in Afganistan. He was pretty convincing, or shoulf I say the photos were. It took me a few weeks but I worked it out. Really had no intention of sending the money but the USA paperwork was very real looking.When I told him I knew it was fake he went off his brain saying he was in trouble now etc. I reported it to the site and in a matter of minutes he changed where he lived but the photo stayed the same. What a tosser. He tried to talk to me for a while but I blocked and deleted him from everything he was on.

      Comment by Linda Roelake | June 6, 2011 | Reply

    • Do U Still Have Pics Of This williams person. Right now I’m falling to someone claiming to be matthew edgar williams

      Comment by tanya | May 3, 2015 | Reply

      • Does anyone have pictures of this man, as Matthew Edgar Williams on deployment Afghanistan is contacting me.

        Comment by trish | April 27, 2019

  21. The slime bag Trevio Roland Maccain is still on face book changed his name to Trevio bones and he added a military academy to his places of employment they just don’t give up.

    Comment by Cathy | May 12, 2011 | Reply

  22. Someone man tried this crap with me on fb lucky for me 2 thing am selfish with my hard earn money on I already have the love of my life but remember ladies his name was stg donnie wells don’t fall for this crap

    Comment by Darlene | May 12, 2011 | Reply

  23. Honestly I fell madly in love after weeks of internet chatting.. Was planning a wedding with Sgt Joe Handy.. currently serving in Afghanistan. Not only did I pay an initial fee to apply for a leave request I got my heart completely broken.
    Feel so stupid … Fell for it big time

    Comment by Marnie | May 18, 2011 | Reply

    • Don’t feel bad Marnie, Everyone on this site and thousands more not on this site have fallen for guys through scams at least we can say we have learned from our mistake and we don’t plan on being taken in again. Chin up you will be ok, take care

      Comment by Cathy | May 19, 2011 | Reply

    • Don’t feel bad. It’s a lesson learnt for everyone of us on here. I was organising my life around this guy. They are professionals and don’t forget that. Look at how many people they have fooled. Just be more aware of these sleeze bags in future.

      Comment by Linda Roelake | June 8, 2011 | Reply

      • Linda,that’s good advice.

        Comment by alanprince | June 20, 2011

    • sorry about this.

      Comment by alanprince | June 20, 2011 | Reply

    • i wonder if thats the same person i know but his name is robinson handy, he is military too supposedly and he has asked for a phone and has just asked for 250 well i didn’t give him any of it because i have a cousin in the military and there is no reason why he couldn’t get these things himself they get paid twice a month if he was really in the military he has now gotten off facebook says that he was ordered to but then he got a nother page on facebook with no friends and activities so be ware he has a daughter about 10 yrs old she is staying with the sister of the lady that raised him. he says he was from uk there for 18 yrs but yet his profile has a local high school that he is saying he attended, then he been in military for 18 yrs so i am trying to figure out how and when he came to live in the states

      Comment by angel | August 30, 2011 | Reply

      • Yes it must be the same guy cos he said the same thing to me. He does have a dughter about 10 years old too! Says he lived in England for a while but moved to Florida when his father died and took his mother with him. They are so disgusting! He call himself Joe Handy!

        Comment by Veronica | October 29, 2011

    • Hi Marnie

      I am so sorry for what happened with you and this so called Joe Handy. He has been writing to me lately and I knew it was too good to be true. Thank you for confirmingh my fears.

      Veronica

      Comment by Veronica | October 29, 2011 | Reply

    • Marnie. . . Is this Joe Handy about 6’5, and has apparently moved to London before he was redeployed to afghanistan for 9 months. . . he says his Mom is sick and is 75 years old?? please contact me chick. . . ASAP . My email address is savvijonson@gmail.com I need to talk to you from Sav xx

      Comment by Sav Jonson | November 15, 2011 | Reply

  24. please ladies watch out for kelven boggs an andrew smith almost had me fake fake army men

    Comment by nellie | May 20, 2011 | Reply

  25. RANK E-5 SGT.MIKE HORN ASKED ME A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL LAST WEEK,THEN HE ASKED ME AGAIN TO PAY THE LEAVE PROCESSING CHARGES AMOUTING OF $750,THEY NEED ME TO SEND TO JOANNE DRAPER,IN LONDON.AND I REALIZE THAT HE IS A USER,,,,PLS. AWARE THIS MAN.

    Comment by ,laura faller | May 27, 2011 | Reply

  26. yes kelven boggs has been writing to me online he said he is in iraq been there for two yrs has a son in boarding school. he sent me pictures of himself in his uniform. i dont fall for there lies. i had to learn the hard way.

    Comment by catherine | May 28, 2011 | Reply

    • I got a kelvin boggs emailing me,saying he’s a engineer currently in Afghanistan….. If he’s a scammer,I’m going to have fun with this guy

      Comment by Linda moore | April 3, 2015 | Reply

    • Hi my Linda would you be able to send photos..I need to know if it the same Kevlin Boggs

      Comment by linda | May 15, 2015 | Reply

      • lindakelvin29: Don’t worry to send money then
        lindakelvin29: Let wait for 24 hours and see what will happen
        linda.bugden: what
        lindakelvin29: Homes what
        linda.bugden: you ok
        linda.bugden: you go to america
        lindakelvin29: You take William money to pay for Andrewa
        lindakelvin29: I’m still here
        lindakelvin29: I can’t go to America for now
        linda.bugden: so what do you give phone nu,mber so i can talk to you
        lindakelvin29: Go to the bank now before they shut
        linda.bugden: on land line
        linda.bugden: ok going
        linda.bugden: by
        lindakelvin29: Make sure you send 200 or 150
        lindakelvin29: Ok
        lindakelvin29: I will be waitinng again and if you like don’t talk ok
        linda.bugden: how can i give you 200 if there is only 120
        lindakelvin29: Go get 150 then
        lindakelvin29: William don’t joke about this is
        lindakelvin29: He has sent me 3 difference fruad agancy
        lindakelvin29: And I don’t want you to go to jail
        lindakelvin29: Are you there
        lindakelvin29: You can lying
        linda.bugden: just bloody going ok
        linda.bugden: got 30 mins before shut
        lindakelvin29: Ok
        lindakelvin29: Be going then
        lindakelvin29: and make sure you send money to popoola
        lindakelvin29: They have contacted Michelle about thiss too
        lindakelvin29: hello
        lindakelvin29: You are online again and you didn’t talk
        lindakelvin29:
        lindakelvin29: Hello
        lindakelvin29: You let my son died
        lindakelvin29: Curtis just give up right noe
        lindakelvin29: I will let you pay for this
        lindakelvin29: William is filing your papers right now
        lindakelvin29: Your picture and chloe picture would be posted on google tomorrow morning
        lindakelvin29: And your house address would be blacklisted
        lindakelvin29: I’m giving william order to take action on this matter
        lindakelvin29: I think we will see each other when you got back from 18 years in perison
        lindakelvin29: William just sent address email address to the general and itd fake
        lindakelvin29: You are going to take Andrews responsibility is jail
        lindakelvin29: Oops
        lindakelvin29: I don’t know Andrews details but all your details is with me both picture your work address and Steven details and bank accounts
        lindakelvin29: I’m sending everything to them right now
        lindakelvin29: Is already with them and I will take my own action from here
        lindakelvin29: You will see your self I’m just pitty Chloe
        lindakelvin29: William is already contacted London Police’s National Fraud Intelligence Bureau (NFIB), National Crime Agency (NCA) and Financial Fraud Action (FFA UK)
        lindakelvin29: Well let see what we happened tomorrow morning
        lindakelvin29: I’m advance you not to go to work tomorrow
        lindakelvin29: Ook
        lindakelvin29: Ok
        lindakelvin29: I know you are reading my text
        lindakelvin29: You killed my son because of your whore Andrews you will pay for this Linda
        lindakelvin29: You will pay for this
        lindakelvin29: Hello
        lindakelvin29: hello
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        Comment by linda | March 8, 2016

  27. hey ladies i meet twice some soldier who are in iraq and afgnanistan
    one was sergeant major henry cody the other was seargent robert wood both in the army and after weeks they ask for money.But i found out through a mistake from both sending me the picture of a boy with curly hairs who already had the photo in romance scams.Anyone knew someone who is an belgum engineer who works in nigeria on pipelines meet him 5 weeks ago and now he ask for money then he burnt his leg can anyone recall this name have photos too his email is
    drclayton55@yahoo.com
    hope anyone can recall his name
    julia

    Comment by julia | May 30, 2011 | Reply

    • i’ve been contacted by drclayton and was asked for money. his full name is felix clayton, phd.

      and he got all of my money and I’m disabled.

      Comment by clayton | July 24, 2011 | Reply

      • Mr. Prince, Please remove this comment asap. –

        Comment by DB | September 29, 2011

      • Mr. Prince,

        Please remove this comment! The name is wrong.

        Comment by DB | September 30, 2011

      • well he is mr felix clayton he waas even identyfied by police from villach when i reported him dont belief him sorry i saw that comment now dont remove him he is the biggest scammer i knew

        Comment by ingeborg fischer dvorsky | January 15, 2013

      • Ingeborg, Can you tell me if he has been charged .. is there a way that I can do the same?
        I have reported it to many US agencies but never heard back from them after a year and a half!
        This man is pure scum and I have no way to fight him.

        Comment by db | January 15, 2013

  28. i need to know if sgtmarkmardigan is a scammer e_mail if anybody can find out for me

    Comment by birgit | June 2, 2011 | Reply

  29. Please be aware of this name Curtis Miller – i have been scammed under his name. The scammer claims that he is a Major in Afghanestan. Don’t fall for their story.

    Comment by nancy | June 8, 2011 | Reply

  30. can anyone tell me if they heard of a capt ralph e reynolds serving in afgan

    Comment by angela brown | June 9, 2011 | Reply

  31. hi; kathy here i have also fell for these scumbags and their lies. one andrew mcbride structual engineer claims lives in derby midlands went to nigeria to work had car accident needed money to get back; had 750 pounds; never came back. staff sgt michael.p.raymond flys the blackhawk helicopters in afganistan;on deployment divorced;asks for money to come on leave even uses benefit addresses to email you from st.louis to make it genuine; first it was 1;397;40p then liberty pass to secure safe passage out of terain was 6;000.yes i was an idiot and paid it all out;played his part right up to departure.;even found someone else hed spoke to day before his departure;also uses a mobile phone to txt you. email is xxblackhawkxx@live.combe aware he is very covincing and good at what he does. also uses the army family support in america .kathy

    Comment by kathleen | June 13, 2011 | Reply

    • here are some other u can add to the list of scammers. peter williams,,,gary coleman,,,,mark martain,,, all liers

      Comment by catherine henry | June 20, 2011 | Reply

  32. My girlfriends mum nearly fell for this scam, but i inspected one of the pictures he sent her and it was clearly a fake. Claiming he needs money (£400) to get leave from Iraq which will be refunded as soon as he lands and is confirmed as “being safe”

    this is his email sgt.monroy10@hotmail.com

    thank god i found out before she sent him any money and thanks to this site it re-affirmed my belief that he is a fake.

    Comment by Tony Corcoran | June 28, 2011 | Reply

    • goes by the names ” sgt eddy/eddie monroy”

      Comment by Tony Corcoran | June 28, 2011 | Reply

      • hi Tony , you can add to the list of names as Richard Ramos & Rich Ramos. yeah he loves me too blah,blah blah lol…..said he was retiring in july coming home for us to get married lol… which i never said yes anyway but he loved me during the 1st week of messages , called me on the phone alot. I’ve been hurt so much by men i have serious trust issues, he started saying things that didnt add up so i checked the soldier scammers list & pictures there he was, no suprise really to me b/c of my lack of trust in men & have found that when they say trust them or stress how important trust is in a relationship , don’t trust them they will burn you quickly with lies , deciet & betrayal, us army uniform , claimed to be a colonel, he wants to marry me as soon as he retires in july , we are going to the Bahamas for the holidays , he is from Idaho , 8 year old son died of cancer, wife left him for another man when kevin died, his mom died giving birth to him , his dad raised him till he was 16 then his dad died , went in the army at 19 yrs old, had wanted to die serving our country until he found me, but wanted to retire & live a normal life loving me forever, i told him i have serious trust issues about men because i had been hurt & used so much……its not my first rodeo lol….i’ve been thrown by the bull before lol…so i not only look for red warning flags , i look for warning signs with a tinge of pink lol…he got me out of $102.25 to mail packages he had ordered off ebay & sent to my house but thats all he got before i decided to look up soldier scams his picture was there, lots of them & lots of names & different ranks. when i told him on messanger i had nothing to say to him except:GAME OVER that i knew he was a scammer & how badly he had hurt so many women emotionally & finacially he denied it of course then had the nerve to tell me it was a shame he i didnt trust him as much as he loves me lol…. watch for him ladies , he is out to lie , betray, steal your hearts & your money & to hurt each & everyone of the ladies he comes in contact with. God bless each of you

        Comment by Sharon | June 3, 2012

    • Go to the FB profiles and type the word Monroy, Monroy tribe and Monroy, Army. You will see all his face there. Abt 63 profiles with his face. He is also0m black listed in most dating sites. Go to Pig Busters and u can see him there also.

      Comment by Esther Choo | October 14, 2013 | Reply

  33. Fell for it big time too now using Alex Ramos on Facebook, searched others Aaron Shaun Ramos, Aaaron Ramos, Paul Ramos, George Ramos and numerous others. All Fake.

    Same story, been chatting for months. Feel head over heals, wanted to marry, leave form request (Fake). Stupid stupid me $400 via Western Union to a Debra Lucas, Chillco, Ohio ZIP 45601. Stupidly haven’t bene very well which has added to the problems but now I can see how stupid I have been. Gets cross when you have no money. Wanted me to pay the flight for a guy I haven’t met! Leave form is signed by General Gonzalez and Lt Col Anderton.

    Nigerian friends just happened to join facebook when I paid the money.

    Trying to convince me that he has the evidence that he is ‘real” if I pay more money £1000 for his flight!

    Would have flown to York. Now fly to York? His English is bad as is spelling is. Same photos over the web. Convinces you that he is madly in love with you from day one. In Iraq allegedly.

    Comment by Fiona | July 3, 2011 | Reply

  34. Wanted me to open a bank account in my name so that the beneficiary money could be transferred to me as financee. Fortunately bank said it was scam..

    I feel such a fool for falling for that but I am left out of pocket of $400. I would have cottoned on earlier if I hadn’t been ill and that he really convinced me that he truly loved me (which is rubbish).

    Tried to tell me last night that he truly loved me. On Facebook profile still but trying to keep some sort of dialogue open at minute. Not parting with any more money!!! And we would be on our way to Idaho soon as he was leaving the army.

    Didn’t give my mobile fortunately. Also sends love poems that are really quite sweet and lovely. Says my queen a lot and baby (irritates) but doesn’t answer any questions that you put to him. I think he is sitting next to other spammers in the same room having another conversation. There are more women his list of friends that he is probably targeting.

    Comment by Fiona | July 3, 2011 | Reply

  35. Aaron Shuan Ramos on Facebook has a list of his black friends who are into this and Gonazlez is one of them.

    I hope that this is stopped by Facebook and that you catch them as I want my money back as sure as hell don’t think will be 😦

    Comment by Fiona | July 3, 2011 | Reply

    • hi fiona..
      i really feel for you and dont feel bad about yourself… all it means is that you are a genuine person,looking for happiness and ‘they’ target women like ‘us’! it is so easy to believe everything they tell you….im still torn as to whether ‘my guy’ is for real or not ?! deep down i know hes scamming but its still hard to accept that ive been taken in by his lies…. i always thought i had my head screwed on but i guess not!
      take care and im sure you will eventually find your man 🙂 xx

      Comment by mary-lou | July 5, 2011 | Reply

  36. hi…. im new to all this online dating scene,i thought id met the man ive been looking for but ive had a niggly feeling that something isnt quite right so i googled scams and found myself here…..and now,im starting to believe that im currently being scammed ( i dont want to believe its a scam but its looking that way).
    i dont know what to do?

    he’s an american,in the military but is currently working for his community hospital.weve been constantly sending messages back and forth via private email (he very quickly said we should come off of the dating site)…he has been so full of compliments etc and now says that he loves me and wants to be with me forever (this is all in a matter of just over a week). he has promised to fly to the uk to see me but has had to fly to nigeria first as he has connections with his job out there?!
    he asked me to phone him … i did,very expensive phone call! my first suspiscions were the fact that his spelling and how he words things dont ‘sound’ american and then when i spoke to him….he has an accent but its not american and he finds some things difficult to understand! also,his voice doesnt seem to match his photos…if you know what i mean?

    am i right to be worried? i was pushing all this aside because i wanted to be loved but after reading comments from here… im now not so sure….?

    does any one have any suggestions on how i should handle this… he may be a genuine guy but it might all be a scam!

    Comment by mary-lou | July 5, 2011 | Reply

    • You have the same situation I have now. Alot of the things you say about his voice not matching the pictures…I said that exact same sentence. ..I dont want to believe it’s lies but i think it is. I dont know what to do either. I’ve looked his email up on spokeo and found a couple things with his photo. Or the same guy in the photos he sent me. …don’t know what to think about that. Why does he try so hard to convince me he’s real if he’s not? Even sent me a picture of his passport but I dont know how to verify if its real. Any ideas?

      Comment by Ann | March 12, 2016 | Reply

  37. * update* i put it to him that i needed proof of who is,so i asked if we could chat via a web cam – his reply was that i have upset him and there was no way that he would talk to me like that now that ive hurt his feelings by not trusting him! he said he would organise a flight to meet me in person and he would log back on to tell me when……im still waiting?!
    mmm,does this mean i caught him out and he’s run a mile ??? lets see what happens……

    Comment by mary-lou | July 5, 2011 | Reply

    • Mary-lou. I was talking to an american soldier in Afghanistan and he asked me to send like neary $4000.00 dollars. If I ever said I wasn’t going to send the money or I said something he use to say I have upset him. He toldme he loved me and he was so excited about making a life together here in Australia. I have heard all what u have said on your update!!!!! He won’t run a mile. What mine did was told me I got him in trouble with his commander etc. These people are good! Love take some advice from me. There are so many single men in the world. In Australia everywhere! Ditch this guy before he breaks your bank and breaks your heart. Delete him now. Don’t give him any notice just hit the delete button. If you havn’t worked it out by now he is doing a really really good job on u. They are professionals trust me and they know the words to say to get you and make you feel like u are in the wrong! Do it for yourself and for the rest of the poor suckers they have already scammed! Linda

      Comment by Linda Roelake | July 5, 2011 | Reply

      • Mary-lou, please listen to Linda she know’s what she is talking about, i upset the guy i was talking to also by asking for same proof, he isn’t what u think he is he is a scammer and they are very very experienced in manipulating womans hearts. take care love, tread carefully.

        Comment by Cathy | July 6, 2011

  38. hi linda,
    thank-you for your reply…its actually nice to hear from someone else who’s had similar experiences,ive not known who to talk to about it!
    well,youre right,he didnt run a mile…he was back online last night and i found myself apologising! it turns out,well so he says…that he has no connection with the army in any way,he was just using the dating site where i found him (or should i say,he found me!)… anyway,i ended up apologising and he has forgiven me so apparantly things are back on track! he still wont use a web cam so that i can see him……that says it all to me and im still very suspiscious of the whole thing…..hes not asked for any money – yet! so im going to see how things go….he still wants to come and see me but STILL hasnt booked a flight or anything,mmm…dodgy!
    youre right about him breaking my heart…he could do that quite easily but im not so easy with my money….he wont get a penny if he asks! as soon as that conversation comes up…i’ll be gone,no excuses….gone! ive had a wake up call from you and the comments on this site so ive got my defences well and truly up…..if he wants to mess with me….i’ll mess with him!

    as for single guys in australia…my flights booked and im on my way….hes gotta be out there for me somewhere lol 🙂 if only !!

    i’ll pop an update on here as and when things happen….it might help someone else along the way! take care x

    Comment by mary-lou | July 6, 2011 | Reply

  39. Thanks awfully mary-lou. I am still torn whether this guy is real or not. I don’t feel bad but actually I can’t believe that I was taken in by this stupid stuff, I kept telling myself this is a dream and not real and all he had. All those poems! Now I find those forms on the American Embassy website, truly fake and came from “Admin”. Now do I believe. He convinces me that he has been set up by the army and that he will go to the FBI and I am not after your money. Don’t fall for these stupid lies because he is trying to con out of more money but not helped by not being well and my head not straight. I actually said – not sending money to Nigeria!!! And that’s a Nigerian name that I am sending it to! So came up with Debra Lucas instead. The whole thing is a con….

    Comment by Fiona | July 7, 2011 | Reply

  40. hi guys,thank-you for your comments…all appreciated! 🙂

    *update no:2*

    he’s now given me a date of when hes coming over to the uk to see me – 5th august,although he says he hasnt got round to booking anything yet! we shall see….
    i didnt hear a single thing from him yesterday,highly unusual but do you know what (i even surprised myself!), i wasnt that bothered! oh dear…do you think ive put up my defence barriers so high that ive cracked down on my feelings? its looking that way!! all this might just fizzle out all on its own…….

    if anything drastic or meaningful happens… then i’ll let you know……

    take care everyone and keep smiling 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | July 8, 2011 | Reply

    • Update from me – mary-lou u surprised me that he didn’t message yesterday! He didn’t either to me LOL. I thought he was coming to the UK pretty soon to see me in York – fly to York – one problem there isn’t an airport here! I am surprised though he hasn’t asked for £1000 for his flight to the UK on the 5th August. However, someone might like to set up sting operation. I pointed out the American Embassy website statement to him yesterday and no doubt knows I am on to him!!

      In Iraq allegedly at the minute.

      I bit the bullet on this one yesterday and thought, I think I need to tell somebody about this like my partner for 20 years! He was very sympathetic. I have my man and rock and knows I have not been very well. But can not believe I fell for this man and wonder why – that poetry and a fake dream!!

      I am laughing now as to how I could be taken in by a spammer on Facebook.

      Comment by Fiona | July 8, 2011 | Reply

      • hi fiona,
        aww dont feel bad that you fell for a guy that made you feel special…we all want that and if youre anything like me,i trust people! i find it quite difficult not to trust and believe what others say to me but there comes a time when you know things arent right! it might just take time to realise this but in the end youve got your head screwed on and know when to stop believing the lies…..
        they are so convincing and when youre fairly vulnerable and low its all too easy to be swept away by the romance of it…. its so so easy and they know that!

        ive also been chatting to a different guy and we were like the bestest buddies ever…having such a laugh online…nothing sexual just having a really good connection about most things…then…he asked to meet me (lives in UK) and i said yes ok that would be fun…. and…..now…. hes disappeared? gone,completely gone…vanished….gone from the dating site,just disappeared and i have no idea why??????? huh? so what was that all about? lol,im discovering people are such strange creatures and you never quite know who you are talking to online.!!

        for me the golden rule now is…yeh chat to people (mainly guys im talking about here,you know the guys we want to fall in love with…those ones that dont really exsist lol)…chat to them,be fun,be friendly but be very aware that things might not be as they first seem and never ever give out your personal details! but im sure you and everyone else on this site knows that for themselves 🙂

        take care and keep an eye out for your mr.right…hes around somewhere 😉

        Comment by mary-lou | July 8, 2011

  41. update no: 3 !!

    hey,guess what guys….. he’s been online this morning but not very chatty so i asked whats wrong? get this lol……. he’s had some bad news…his sister is ill,shes got a tumour on her kidney and was about to have surgery but found out her insurance doesnt cover it! thats awful if its true but i very much doubt it….im not being sucked into this one!!

    now let me guess.?….can we all guess whats gonna come next?….i bet you know what im thinking…..

    I think hes going to ask……ME….to lend them the money,am i right or am i right lol? he hasnt actually asked for it yet but the conversation was heading that way,until i had to go because my daughter came round to see me!!
    we’re going to chat tonight….. i’ll let you know what happens 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | July 8, 2011 | Reply

    • Well. Mary-lou I guess he hasn’t been on line today as bet he has been chatting to you!! I didn’t know he had a sister LOL I guess I know what you are thinking could he pay for it!! I guess I won’t be chatting to him tonight as you will be 🙂

      Comment by Fiona | July 8, 2011 | Reply

      • Well the guy is real now! Now wants me to go to Iraq next week as I can’t afford to pay his fares! Got cross with me last night. I was not allowed to research the Internet!! I guess he is real then. 🙂

        Comment by Fiona | July 10, 2011

      • hi fiona,
        so off to Iraq you go?? why did he get cross with you,was it because you wouldnt pay for his flight?
        ive just been chatting to my guy….. remember he said about his sister that needs an op and they didnt have the money ( i was waiting for him to ask me for the money),well, now his parents have raised the money and the op can go ahead!?
        he also said he is still coming to see me in august although he hasnt booked a flight yet AND he still hasnt asked me for any money for the flight?
        im really confused as ive been waiting for him to ask me for money one way or another but he hasn’t so far?? do you think he’s building up to it or is there a chance that he’s real (i know he’s not but i cant help wishing!) ??????

        take care everyone x 🙂

        Comment by mary-lou | July 10, 2011

  42. The guy I was talking to didn’t directly come out and ask for the money at first he made it sound like it was all my idea that for him to be released from his deployment in the army I had to pay for his airfares and for some one to replace him. Wow he was so convincing. He had me fooled. I use to sleep with my lap top and keep it on 24/7 just incase I missed him being online. He sounded so convincing. I did start to get feelings as he said the nicest words to me and also I had broken up with my partner of 6 yrs only a short time earlier so I was so vunerable and this guy was going to make it all better. It was just the fact I was trying the shit my ex off so I told him and showed him the pictures he had emailed me and my ex decided to do some research and he rang me and said he had found this site. I thought he was just being jealous as I was moving on! First time ever I trusted him judgement and I am so glad I did. I am so glad he was looking out for me.As it is due to all this we decided to get back together and try again for our 1 yr old daughter. ! Ladies do u know what I think honestly, we need each other. We need to make friendships on here and let these losers go bite our arses. Unfortuantly when we feel lonely and vunerable we do silly things, dont I know it. I nearly sold my kids out for $4000.00. Bugger that. Anyone want to talk and start a friendship just let me know as I am here for u….Linda

    Comment by Linda Roelake | July 8, 2011 | Reply

    • hi linda,

      reading everyones comments on their experiences definately gets us all thinking! (sensibly i hope). im happy to chat to you and anyone else that is or has gone through similar stuff! as you said we need to unite,be friends and expose these scammers!
      take care 🙂

      Comment by mary-lou | July 10, 2011 | Reply

    • yes my story sounds similar to yours also except i didn’t send any money, but i am heartbroke because i really fell for him..if i would have had the money i probably would have sent it also……it is so sad oh there names are robinson handy and jeff fred, and kofi- alfred ben i only fell for the one i am just sending the names of others who tried

      Comment by angel | August 30, 2011 | Reply

    • yes Linda, i did the same thing i slept with the laptop i had fell for this guy who claims he is in the military and on deployment in qater now pakistan, he asked for a blackberry phone to better communicate and he now just asked for 250 but i didn’t give it to him but i think it was only because i didn’t have it, but he comes on the yahoo messenger and he is invisible so if he feel like chatting with you he will he claims he don’t have access to a computer that he was using his friend phone, so i am wondering what is you doing with your money if you are on deployment..you get paid twice a month according to my cousin who is in the military told me, he has a 10 yr old daughter who lives in florida, but he is from the UK he don’t have no family as his mom gave him away and his daughter is now with the sister of the lady that raised him who is now deceased…then he says that he was in the UK the first 18 yrs of his life then he has been in the military for 18 yrs and he has change his age from his profile he is 44, and his profile states that he attended a high school in florida which when did you graduate if you came here after 18 yrs of age. well i still chat with him off and on when he sees me on yahoo he has canceled his fb page but has another one that is no activity on it because i think he forgot the password to that one….his name is robinson handy and there are a few more names i would like to put out there because they tried me also but didn’t get anywhere because mr handy had already schooled me on scams….Jeff fred, and kofi-alfred ben

      Comment by angel | August 30, 2011 | Reply

  43. I’ve been chatting with a Sgt. Steven Bowel (s.bowel1977@yahoo.com)also stationed in Afghanistan. Same BS as many of you have written. I notived right away his terrible grammer. I was constantly correcting him. He also began saying how much he loved me. I didnt believe him. So I went with the flow, just to see what would happen. I come froma military family and my brother just recently returned from his 2nd tour in Iraq. My family kept in contact with him pretty much on a daily basis. This guy could never proivide his mil email address. Couldnt send current pics of himself. He copy pasted some love letters and forgot to take out the feme parts. I could read it was a letter from a woman to a man. All these things just kept the flags going. Then the money request. He wants me to send $250 USD to get some phoning program so he can hear my voice. He even sent me his “commander’s” email (commd.thsley90@yahoo.com)and of course it’s another yahoo account.At one point I had stopped writing to him and he actually had a “friend” a female soldier email me and then IM me to ask why I was avoiding him. She was telling me how much he loved me, blah, blah, blah. He’s still asking for me to send the $ for phoning services. He rarely has access to his email yet he can IM everyday? Emailed him today leting him know I thought it was all bull and not to contact me.
    last message from him:
    From: Steven Bowel
    Subject: HI
    Date: Thursday, July 7, 2011, 12:24 PM

    Hello my Darling

    How are my kids doing over there and you my honnie?Hope everything is going on well?Have missed you alot hun……I told you haven’t have much time here babe,i was bussy all day hun……I hate missing you,so please hun pay for the phoning so that we gonna call each other whenever we want ok……Have comfirmed how much is it from my commander and he said is gonna cost $200 USD………….Or you can email my commander for more detail.This is my commd email commd.thsley90@yahoo.com……….Have a wonderful day long hun…Bye

    Thinking about you

    Steve

    Comment by Marie | July 10, 2011 | Reply

    • Marie, I have been having a similar conversation with this Sgt. Steven Bowel for past few weeks. He wanted me to send $800 for him to come home on leave. I found this very strange so I started researching and even called my local recruiting office. Learned the idiot was a big time scammer and I confronted him on it. Of course he tells me I am just crazy and all that crap. Ugh and he ALMOST had me fooled.

      Comment by Anna | October 24, 2013 | Reply

      • glad you didn’t fall for the scams.have you cut off all contact with him?

        Comment by alanprince | October 31, 2013

  44. hi guys…quick update for you……

    my guy hasn’t mentioned his sister being ill anymore,the last thing he said about it,was that the money had been raised for her op!?

    he says he has now told his company that he needs time off in august – flight not booked yet!

    he sent me a couple of pics of himself as soon as i asked him too 🙂 but,of course these could be of anyone?!

    he still says he loves me etc… but has never asked for any money (well he hasnt yet) so im slightly confused…..is he real or is he fake?

    ive tried to find him on the scamming photo sites but havent come across him yet… does that mean he might be real or is it that no one has exposed him as a fake yet?

    mmmm…lets see what happens next?

    hope everyones ok and take care x :))

    Comment by mary-lou | July 12, 2011 | Reply

    • Tread carefully, you never can tell, my guy had said to me at one stage that someone else had covered his daughters expenses when he knew i just simply couldn’t do it and he still turned out to be a scammer. take care keep us updated.

      Comment by Cathy | July 12, 2011 | Reply

      • thank-you cathy…. will do! im going to go with the flow and not allow myself to be ‘swept off my feet’….. only time will tell if he’s real or not !

        Comment by mary-lou | July 13, 2011

  45. lol,yet another update guys (i dont know if anyones actually interested in what i write,but im just trying to ‘show’ it ,as things happen!)

    anyway, the conversation this evening was very lovely,very romantic so i thought i would mention to him again about flights…asking if hes looked at any?!

    his response was he hasnt because he didnt know the name of the airport that he would be flying to….. that was quickly solved lol…..he then said he would log back on in an hour after he had looked at flights!
    an hour and a half later….he was back….said he’d looked at flights and wants to come here on 2nd august for 2 weeks…2 whole weeks! originally he was only coming over for 3 days but its now 2 weeks …..so that he can get to know me properly! i had already told him that we couldnt stay in my home (way too early to bring someone to my home,my space!) so it would be a hotel….i can afford 3 days in a hotel but not 2 weeks so i told him that……
    he asked how much it would cost and said that i wasnt to worry about it?

    so…… apparently he is booking the flight on friday and im not to worry about the money????
    he hasnt asked for a penny……yet?! which only leaves tomorrow or friday for him to ask for any…… i just dont know?! is he real or is he going to ask very soon….i guess,only time will tell!!
    my heart is racing just thinking about it! lol

    take care and of course,i’ll let you know what happens…. fingers crossed he’s real ! 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | July 13, 2011 | Reply

    • If something seems too good to be true then it generally isn`t true at all. Why do all Military scams include flights and time os of flights. Anyone with any brain can look up the details of a flight and say they`re not it. Don`t be fooled girls. Men think we`re air heads, let`s prove different!!!!

      Comment by Shadeylady | August 23, 2011 | Reply

  46. Ok update from me, I do not know if this guy is real fake or whatever but he has a number of profiles on Facebook which I have sent to him 🙂 But one thing is for sure he looks like he is in Iraq, answer is no I am not going over to Iraq to see him but it is rather strange these stories on here so similar :). There is a site on Stop US American International Dating scam – see you all in there! I am currently winding him up but I am not going to pay for his flights, or go over to see him in Iraq. He has to come over to see me without me paying any more money! Didn’t speak to him last night but I knew he was on briefly. Just doesn’t answer my questions.

    Mary-Lou and others – just be careful, please don’t part with any money for whatever reason!

    Comment by Fiona | July 14, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi Fiona

      Thanks for getting back to me. The crook hasn’t sent me any more emails as I didn’t agree to pay for this satellite connection so he can send me emails and hear my voice every morning and night acording to himself.

      So my suspicions were correct and now he knows I have worked him out I am not getting any emails and yet there are internet cafes in Afghanistan.

      I must have had a blessing in disguise as I have been reading this website.

      Kind regards

      Mina

      Comment by mina Davis | July 15, 2011 | Reply

  47. *update* *update*…..

    hi guys….MY guy might be real !!! he’s booked his flight ! he booked it yesterday and sent me the confirmation email…..omg! i think he might be for real 🙂 …me still being suspicious,thought i would check with the airline etc if the flight number was real…..it IS! he’s coming over for a week on 2nd august….omg omg….someone bring me back down to earth! he didnt ask for any money whatsoever…. has anyone heard of a scam done in this way at all? im still trying to be logical and not get carried away but its getting difficult as it’s looking more and more that he’s a genuine guy !!

    take care everyone x 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | July 17, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi Mary-lou

      How is your romance going. Is this guy genuine I have found a someone similar to yours who is coming over in Christmas from Afghanistan.

      He told me how much it costs him to come over if I want to meet him now otherwise I will have to wait till Christmas and he has agreed to that.

      He also knows that I doubt him due to scams that has been done to women on dating websites and he understands my doubts. Does he seem genuine or not.

      Regards

      Mina

      Comment by Mina Davis | August 1, 2011 | Reply

  48. * UPDATE – ALERT! *

    hi everyone…hope you are all safe and well….

    MY guy is NOT for real……he has finally done it !! just a minute or so ago….he asked for money !!!!!! f-kin shit head….sorry ladies but at this minute im feeling really really angry… i knew it… i just knew he was a scammer and i am so pleased with myself for spotting it way earlier than now…its just took all this time for him to ask!!
    i have no idea if he has any intention on coming over on the supposedly flight that hes booked but i couldnt care less now! i did exactly as i said i would….as soon as he asks for money then i go and thats what ive done…. i do NOT want to talk to him again – finished!! O-V-E-R !!

    please be careful who you talk to and i say… trust your gut instincts…. us girls know when somethings not right so questions any doubts that you might have….

    take care,love to all xxx 😦

    Comment by mary-lou | July 18, 2011 | Reply

    • Mary-Lou – I thought that there was going to be a catch, never mind. At least you didn’t loose any money! Anyway contact me on Facebook if you need a chat as there is a group on there now called Stop the American Soldier scam and we are having a good laugh at them! Photos of course are always welcome on the Group so we know who we are talking about but the same ones keep coming up!

      Comment by Fiona M. Woollard | July 18, 2011 | Reply

      • Dear Mr Prince

        Could you please delete my comment above on made on July 18, 2011.

        I did not realise that when you signed in on Facebook that this would be searchable by Google. I do not want the comment above made by myself on this page.

        Please delete.

        Fiona

        Comment by Fiona Scambuster | April 5, 2012

  49. My mum is currently being scammed by someone calling themselves Major Chales Brayan (he also has a friend called Col Richard Dixon who e-mailed my mum telling her Chales had been shot..).
    They said they’re based in Kabul and have asked for a leave request which she had to pay for.
    I have now convinved her this is a scam and have asked her not to have any further contact with him.
    It makes me so angry seeing these pieces of shit fooling trusting, lonely women.
    Please be aware of these scams and DO NOT pay money to anyone.

    Comment by T | July 18, 2011 | Reply

    • hi T

      well done you for helping your mum to not trust and believe this guy any longer! please be there for her as she may well find she has a need to ‘talk’ to him again…. the longer she has no contact with him,the easier it will get but im sure you know all this already!
      i just wanted to offer my support and be a friend…if your mum would like to talk about it then im more than happy to listen! if youve read any of my comments then you’ll know that ive just ended my so called ‘relationship’ with a guy i would have loved forever but was indeed a scammer!

      take care,wishing you and your mum well….. x 🙂

      Comment by mary-lou | July 18, 2011 | Reply

  50. another update….

    he’s emailed me to say im not to worry about the money and that he’s still coming to see me!? i havent replied!!!

    * fiona *, i couldnt find the facebook page you said about?

    Comment by mary-lou | July 19, 2011 | Reply

  51. Hi Mary-Lou

    That is great news at this day and age where men are always after women for money. I really pray this can happen for you like some fairy tale romance.

    Good luck with that.

    Mina

    Comment by Mina Davis | July 19, 2011 | Reply

  52. Why can’t…. Jason Knudson .. Jason Knudson33@yahoo…..or as he is not known
    Jay_Knud50@yahoo.com .. he is using ….currently …be found.??

    Matilda is the only one.. besides myself …who had the courage… to admit …being scammed
    by this Old Professional Scammer. !!!!!!!!!

    Who contacted me on Be.2.com.au.. and ………………………………………………..
    they raped me…… the same as Jason Knudson…,by taking my money… but not doing anything about all the Scammers ..,.on there Dating Site… Are they getting a percentage of the profits and spoils????

    Jason is suppossed to be In Scotland.. Edinburough.. or Malaysia is also his favourite
    haunt. being the largest Place for Scammers besides Africa.

    Some body… out there must be able…. to help us..He is living a life of luxury.. on our Scammed Money.. while we are struggling to make ends meet..

    Ladies be aware …and don”t fall for there Sweet Words,…… they are there to Con… and Scam.. Us. Women…. It is just a Business for them…. nothing less… just to Take Our Money

    .

    Good Luck and Happy Hunting

    Forever00900.

    Comment by neonila kontek.. please use forever00900 | July 29, 2011 | Reply

  53. Ok guys I found another one. His name is David Milner. He is on a fb application. He is apparently from Sydney but in US for 4 weeks with work bla bla. He wasn’t able to msg me but I was able to msg him bla bla. He insisted I went onto yahoo chat which I did and straight away I knew he was a scammer. I can spot one from a mile now. So ladies be very very wary..He was just an average looking guy and looked very normal, would have been no need to even think he was anything but a guy looking for love but I am able to spot them these days. Got to screwed over last time. All is well now! Love is grand u just have to make sure you don’t get a poisoned apple!.

    Comment by Linda Roelake | August 1, 2011 | Reply

  54. Hi Linda

    I am happy to hear that you have found the love of your life finally. I have an American seargent in Afghanistan too.

    He mentioned how much he needs to be released now if I want to meet him immediately otherwise I will have to wait till Christmas as I explained to him I simply don’t have the money.

    At first he got really annoyed that if I love him so much why don’t I send for him and when I explained I am totally penniless he understoond and said he will have to wait till Christmas to see me.

    Is it true they are not allowed any cash out there except credit cards or not. I am not sure how much of what he tells me is true. He also told me that he lost love of his life 6 months ago through cancer. She also lent him the money to be come back and when he did she died few moths later and as a way of repaying her he buys things for her kids online and repays her this way.

    I am not sure what I can believe of all this he tells me. He told me he has a house in the UK where I live. He wanted my address to send flowers but I refused to give it to him and he got annoyed about that but he still sends me loving ecards and chats with me and tells how much he is longing to be with me.

    Your advice will be highly appreciated.

    Kind regards

    Mina

    Comment by Mina Davis | August 1, 2011 | Reply

    • please dont belief what he writes i met 2 of so caled sergeants of afghanistan and irak one was henry cody the other one robert thomson and the next brian coper and robert wood
      All this men did fall in love with me only solong they did find out i didndt send money only henry cody played it that perfect i got 800 euros out.and al the packages which should arive didnt there was always something happen.
      please dont believe anything what he writes i wish you all the luck please take god care

      Comment by julia | August 21, 2011 | Reply

  55. hi mina,

    i really dont know if my guy is real or not…he had booked his flight but then his sister needed an operation and he had to cancel the flight to pay for it?! he asked me for money for the operation but i said i didnt have it,which i dont…and even if i did,i wouldnt have given it to him or anyone i dont really know! anyway,he said he didnt believe that i didnt have the money so i told him theres nothing i can do to help him,so thats when he cancelled the flight to pay for the op!
    he still wants to come and see me and there are so many promises being made…. i dont know what to believe…im going along with it all and enjoying the romance but i wont believe hes real until hes here..so if and when that happens i’ll leave an update on here.

    all i can say is…enjoy it for what it is,go along with it all but be safe and dont give out any personal details,like bank details,your address or anything where he can trace you…just be wary and see what happens…if he turns up and hes paid for it all then things could be real for you…just dont part with any money,please!

    let me know how you get on…take care x

    Comment by mary-lou | August 1, 2011 | Reply

  56. Hi Mary-lou

    Thanks for the advice. I am lost right now as he said he understands my horrible predicament with money and he knows that I doubt him because of all these dating scams that has gone on.

    On that note he is prepared to wait till Christmas to see me and then he will be retired to spend the rest of his life with me. Again I am not sure what to believe with his romantic poems and ecards.

    I also have two men interested in London which are more tangible than him so I don’t know what to do.

    Mina

    Comment by Mina Davis | August 1, 2011 | Reply

  57. Mina – don’t fall for it, i would be more interested in the London ones! The same old story, the romantic poems, the sister etc etc etc! Do NOT under any circumstances send him any money via Western Union or whatever.

    Comment by Fiona | August 1, 2011 | Reply

  58. Hi Fiona

    Although he says he understands I have absolutely no money and he will wait till Christmas he hasn’t sent me any emails for two days or been on the chatline at all for us to chat.

    So maybe he is after all losing interest because I have no money to send him who knows.
    He used to shower me with ecards without fail every single morning and now for two days there is no sign of any ecards.

    I don’t have any money to send him in the first place and even if I did I wouldn’t send him any.
    I will keep you updated and thanks for the advice. How can you check whether soldiers are allowed to have any cash on them or not.

    Many thanks

    Mina

    Comment by Mina Davis | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  59. hi again mina,

    it does sound as though he has disappeared now that he has realised you have no money to send to him….but it could be that he is trying to make you feel as though youve lost him and he could be hoping for you to change your mind and suddenly offer him money! or he could be just biding his time and them come up with some sad story about a relative,a friend or himself and then ‘beg’ for help,meaning money!! just be cautious and of course dont send him money (even if you had it!)…you dont know this guy,youve never met and he could be literally anyone!
    i understand how you must be missing his mail,cards etc but tell yourself that he isnt real,he’s a fake and the pics that hes probably sent you are not even him. dont fall for the image that you see…that guy will have no idea that his ID is being used in this way!
    i know it hurts to face up to the fact that he may not be real but safeguard yourself and keep your feet firmly on the ground… just try and be fully aware that what youre being told by him…is in fact all lies! and if he did turn out to be genuine…well….thats great! but please just be careful….

    take care xx

    Comment by mary-lou | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  60. Hi Mary-lou

    Thanks for your advice I just have to forget about him like I had to do with the other one.

    Minaxxx

    Comment by Mina Davis | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  61. aww mina…its hard i know… i do know how youre feeling and its so unfair. we are genuine women with alot of love to give and all were looking for is an honest man who will love us unconditionally…. why do they do it to us?!

    if you feel like chatting …about anything,i dont mind listening 🙂 heres my email….. isitmeorisitnot@gmail.com

    🙂 xx

    Comment by mary-lou | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  62. Hi Mina, if he asks you to set up a bank account etc don’t because what he wants to do is wire his money across (dirty money) that he has collected.
    He says it is his ‘benefits’ from the army. There is no way that that is the case!! Essentially, then you would be handling stolen money and don’t give him any bank details either.

    Good luck

    Fiona

    Comment by Fiona | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  63. Hi Fiona

    He has stopped communicating with me as he has realised that I honetly don’t have any money to give him.

    Yet he has warned me about the scammers on the dating websites and I should report them to the police and now he has behaved like one himself.

    Thanks for your advice. I don’t have any money to give him any way.

    Mina

    Comment by Mina Davis | August 2, 2011 | Reply

  64. Could you remove my comment that I made via Facebook. Thank you.

    Comment by Fiona M. Woollard | August 18, 2011 | Reply

    • To the blog owner, could you please remove the above comment by me i..e post 61 and 62 as I do not want my name appearing on here as I unfortunately logged on using Facebook. It is searchable by google.

      Comment by Fiona | October 23, 2011 | Reply

  65. And that one too.

    Comment by Fiona M. Woollard | August 18, 2011 | Reply

  66. hello ladies :)))
    my names carol…
    up until afew months ago i’d never come across a scammer… until a
    sgt clark patrick came along…
    he says he’s from california and stationed in afghanistan… i met him on who’s thinking of you on facebook… he is not what he says to be… sent photos and wrote everyday, which was nice… but…
    within a week he was declaring his love for me with poetry lol.. which i found very strange as i was just there for friendship…he asked for an ipod and a football shirt…
    neither i sent…..
    i rumbled him on fb as i saw a post from another girl saying she was fed up of his little harem..
    i contacted her and asked what was up… found out he was doing to her what he was trying to do to me…. we both them contacted the other girls on fb and it was the same for them… i’ve reported him and he’s been removed as a scammer but i’ve been told that he is on other dating sites… so be careful..
    his email is sgt.clarke_patrick@yahoo.com
    he’s tried to contact me since i told him to do one… usual crap lol
    that he loves me wants to come over to see me… and could i pay for his leave so he can do so lmao… have’nt replied….
    since coming across him on who’s thinking of you on fb i have found an influx of other guys saying there in the forces.. wanting to have your email straight away…
    i have the names writen down must find them and post them on here… take care ladies x

    Comment by carol | August 23, 2011 | Reply

  67. hi carol,
    sorry to hear that youve been caught up in all this as well…there are so many of us unsuspecting ladies out there! BUT…good for you that you were wise and thought things through and beat him at his own game so to speak… Yay! one up for us lol !!
    dont let him and the others scammers put you off looking for that man of yours…he will be out there for you..its just a matter of working out whos genuine and who’s not…. and i dont think you’ll be easily fooled by any of them!

    take care and keep us all posted how things go for you… x 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | August 23, 2011 | Reply

  68. I just recently ran into a couple myself – going by the name Sgt. Jimmy McGregor in Afghanistan and Sgt. Jeff Robles says he is in Iraq. Seems like there are more scammers on the dating sites than there are legitimate guys. It has gotten to the point that if I run into a legitamate guy, it will take a good while for me to trust him. Just about given up on any of the dating sites. Good luck to you all!

    Comment by Brenda | August 23, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi Brenda
      my name is cindy and I was also messaging/chatting with Ssgt Robles can you send me pictures of him to my email. he totally broke my heart. I fell hard for this guy and he still claims he is for real. I finally realized after readying all these stories from these women same. this. bad writting skills, asking for money. sending beautiful peoms. I am going to cut an email Jeff wrote me. please Brenda get back to me.

      Message bodyI will never..I didt twice , go to meet the Brenda that told u I collect money from her to give u a proof if I date her or not or ask her what I told her before she told me I was playing with her heart…silly..I left the innocent woman cos of u..fuck u..u ask me never to talk to you and I will never reply to any of your email..note: this is my last email to you…if u like listen or not…

      ARMY WIRELESS NETWORK

      please email me at mendoza.cindy61@yahoo.com
      ——————————————————————————–

      Comment by Cindy | September 16, 2011 | Reply

    • brenda did you ever receive any phone calls from jeff. i did 3 times. he has an accent, I believe it is nigerian. i traced the number is was international coming from nigeria and Jeff claimed he was in germany getting ready to come home to me. when i quesitoned him about the nigerian number he stated the calls are routed everywhere for security purposes.

      Comment by Cindy | September 16, 2011 | Reply

  69. I have just run into an American soldier in Kabul. A sgt Steven Berry. I have been talking to this man for months and he has just asked me to contact a Colonel Robert Coffey to request him some leave so he can fly here to the UK to meet me. I did as he asked, thinking there was no harm in doing as he asked me I received an email back acknowledging my email and was told I owuld be contacted for further information within 24 hours. That email didn`t come within the the time I was told, and so I contacted the Colonel again. This time I was told that he had to sign the consent for the leave to go ahead and I must be patient. I replied to that email with a simple thank you for his consideration. I Immediately received a reply from Mobile device in Afghanistan saying I should set aside £1000GBP for entry permit into the country. I have constantly requested that Sgt Berry 5564 telephone me but he seemed reluctant to do so. I asked to view his webcam to see who I was talking to but conveniently it wouldn`t connect to allow me to view him. I have since discovered that one email I was sent long ago had an IP Address in Ireland. I knew this to be a proxy server. When I questioned over this I was told it was due to the enemy!! Can anyone shed any light on this as I have just been pressured by Sgt Berry to help him get the money so he can travel to see me. I have paid nothing due to a previous experience but am wondering if he being truthful or not as I am completely naive about Military Matters I would appreciate some advice.

    Comment by Shadeylady | August 23, 2011 | Reply

  70. hi,

    i would say,in my opinion…..do not send any money whatsover…no matter how genuine your guy seems…just dont do it! if he really wants to see you and be with you,he will find a way and if that means waiting until he has leave then so be it….. ive no idea how we can check on these guys,maybe one of the others on the site will know but when it comes to money… i say leave well alone and dont commit to anything!! they are so so clever….. ive just noticed you commented on my guy regarding the flights etc…that was a little while ago now and the flight he booked was cancelled!! im still in touch with him on a regular basis but he know that i do not and will not have any money to help him in any way….hes still around and says he wants to come and meet me,so all i say to him is if he can arrange it..then i would love to meet him but its got to come from him. im just waiting to see what happens as im still not sure if hes real or not….time will tell lol !!!!

    take care and stay safe and sensible…please dont send anyone any money xx 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | August 23, 2011 | Reply

    • Thanks for your reply. He has usually logged into Yahoo at htis time of night but he hasn`t, so maybe he was just after cash. Thanks for the advice though. I`ve had a few like this before, although not Military, but the stories are all the same. So far I`ve noticed a pattern with these scams. All seem to be soul parents of one or two children.

      Comment by Shadeylady | August 24, 2011 | Reply

  71. i have a chat mate in skype he’sname is major general robert c. kane ,he’s fake soldier too ?

    Comment by tess | August 24, 2011 | Reply

  72. Watch out for these two names girls. Sgt Steven Berry 5564, who says he`s serving in Kabul (Load of Bull of you ask me)!
    Has two daughters Jenny (12) and Karen(10) also has a very good friend called James serving out there with him.
    He asked me to email a Colonel Robert Coffey to request he be given leave. Steven Berry first asked me to send him a mobile phone, then later asked me to help financially send his girls on a school trip to Malta. I refused and he accepted that after weeks of silence. Also watch out for an Anthony Akinlabi of 20 Fanibi Layout, Ondo Road, Akure Nigeria. I believe the three of these names are linked together, but if you put the name Anthony Akinlabi with the address into your search engine you will discover what I have. Anthony Akinlabi is a well known scam artist!!!!!!It would seem my instinct was serving me well when Colonel Robert Coffey told me I would have to pay £1000GBP to pay for an entry permit. This was the last straw for me. Quite obviously a scam.

    Comment by Shadeylady | August 25, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi all. Just another update on the Steven Berry saga. He opened the yahoo chat page on me the other week and began chatting as though nothing had ever happened between us, no trace of the harsh words we spat at each other in instant messenger at all.
      I began to chat as I normally would to see what he was up to, and he had totally forgotten the names of his own children. Jayne and Katie this time. I asked what happened to Jenny and Karen. He quickly told me those were the names his ex wife called them and he changed them. Yes???? I think not!

      Comment by Shadeylady | October 19, 2011 | Reply

  73. I have to wonder having read through all the details of experiences we ladies are having. Why do the stories sound so alike???? There was a TV programme here in the UK about scams and one lady lost nearly£60,000. She didn`t just pay the swine once, but twice!!!!!
    I left a post on a Military gear website with a link page containing stories just like ours here and one lady contacted me about a name I left there. Together we played him and tracked the IP Address to Massey Street, Lagos, Nigeria.
    Probably from some Internet Cafe or Con man call centre. He wasn`t claiming to be military though.
    Sgt Steven Berry 5564 however is using an Irish Proxy server. I questioned him about this and he seemed quite taken back that I knew. He claimed it was because of the enemy!!!! Does anyone know or can find out how a serving soldier in Afghanistan can be allowed to use a laptop if security is supposed to be so high???? This is a question I keep asking myself but I have no military knowledge.

    Comment by Shadeylady | August 26, 2011 | Reply

    • This sending either mobile phones or sim cards topped up with credit sounds too much like the same as my experience. Read my post about Anthony Akinlabi at 20 Fanibi Layout, Ondo Road, Akure, Nigeria. It all sounds too much like the same man.

      Comment by Shadeylady | August 28, 2011 | Reply

      • hi
        yes i agree,it does sound like your experience…. its a scam..theres no doubt about it !! he’s been messaging me asking where i am and if ive posted the sim etc but ive ignored it all.. i dont want to know and if he carrys on sending messages,i’ll just block or delete him for good!
        i havent fallen for it and i hope no one else does..hence why i comment on this site,just so other ladies can have an idea of what goes on….if we all leave tips and comments then im sure we can all wise up to these con artists!

        best of luck to everyone…dont let these guys get you down…theyre so not worth it lol !!!

        Comment by mary-lou | August 28, 2011

      • Hi Mary-Lou have you any photos of the guys you`ve been talking to? If so would you mind emailing them to me so I can compare them and seeif it`s the same person? elainec2010@live.co.uk
        I would appreciate this and I will send you the ones I have. Thanks.

        Comment by Shadeylady | August 30, 2011

  74. has anyone heard of FRANCIS DESMOND,supposedly currently serving in Afghan? ive been chatting to this guy for a few weeks and a week or so ago he asked me to buy him a mobile phone with sim and top and then send it to him cause he was desperate to talk to me. i point blankly refused…i will not part with any money whatsover,not that i have spare money lol…..he was liivid and we had a huge arguement online lol…funny really when you think about it!!
    anyway we didnt speak for a few days…but today he apologised and asked if i could send him just a sim with top up instead….. nope,i cant ! at that point he said he no longer wanted to talk to me…yaaay i thought….but then i thought again, i wanted to see how far he would go with this so i said yeh ok,i’ll send it tomorrow………hes given me an address for somwhere in south africa and ‘they’ will pass it on to him. hes now all lovey dovey with me….yeah right..does he really think im that stupid…no way am i going to send him anything but i am going to investigate the address hes given me !!!!
    just thought i’d let you all know his name cause as far as im concerned,hes a SCAMMER!!

    Comment by mary-lou | August 26, 2011 | Reply

  75. I talking to a Sgt James Hurdle he has asked for money for the same old things I asked him to send me a photo of himself in Afghanistan holding paper with date on to prove he actually there he sent me a fake put together one. I don’t know if you can accept photos but I have checked on alot of military scam sites and the pictures of the poor soldier has not appeared on one yet.

    Comment by Teresa Kinahan | August 28, 2011 | Reply

  76. Hello Teresa. Would you send me that photo of you still have it to elainec2010@live.co.uk I will send you the ones of Sgt Steven Berry so you can either see if this is the same guy you`ve been talking to to or at least watch out for him.
    I would appreciate a collection of photos of these men so If I get any the same I will know they are fakers.

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 1, 2011 | Reply

  77. hello mary-lou :)))
    think i’ve become an expert now lol at spotting em… nah they wont be put off on finding someone me darling :)))) quite enjoying winding these bastards up… they so trying to get me lol… making my mission to fuck em up… 😉
    found the names of the other scammers on fb…
    aramis caring…
    patrick boven..
    johnson bennett…
    and he reverses his name also to bennett johnson…
    also found the email address of a so called general that, that clarke patrick gave me…
    general raymond01@usa.com
    this one wants the money for leave lol…
    got pics of clarke patrick so if any one wants to have a look let me know and i will send them to you…
    also lol got at the mo a john rich talking to me.. a friend of the johnson bennett!!! got pics of him too… been waiting for him to bring money into the conversation and he did the other day… needed for a secure line lol so we can talk on the phone! bloody idiot does’nt realise i have real soldier friends i know in the flesh and i know you dont pay for that you dont pay for leave… got pics of him too!
    also lol if any of you ladies are on forcespenpals they are getting in there too but quickly found out..
    a nathan garnett posing as singledad01 and as singleman01
    says he’s from new york.. serving in libya!!!!! lmfao… theres no americans in libya or any other forces!
    will keep you all posted if i find anymore…
    take care everyone x

    Comment by carol | September 2, 2011 | Reply

    • Hello Carol Would you mind emailing the photos you have to me at elainec2010@live.co.uk I would be most grateful.
      I am still using dating sites in the hope of finding someone decent but I am only using the free dating ones because I am not prepared to pay to be conned!!! I`m sure you will understand my request as being a kind of ` Fore warned being fore armed. I would really appreciate it.

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 2, 2011 | Reply

    • Hey Carol sounds like we were talking to the same guy.The raymond thing was his commander. The one I was emailing and he was sending through all the army issue paperwork for his release, fuking arsehole. Man they are are smug bastards. Just need to find that room there sitting in over there and all the pple they screw up and spat out..Man that would be a shit fest lol. I got pics too of Matthew Williams if anyone is interested. I’d really like to find him he is one hot mumma lol..

      Comment by Linda | September 20, 2011 | Reply

  78. Can anyone tell me what a ts2 Satellite phone provider is and is it going to cost me? I have been asked by a British serviceman to email somewhere and set it up so he can call me direct from Iraq. He didn`t seem like a scam but now alarm bells are ringing. Also has anyone heard of a cpt Bill Willson in Afghanistan? Kabul to be exact. I guess I won`t get a reply as quickly as I need it, but will log in here after work to check. Helppppp!!!!!!!!!

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 13, 2011 | Reply

  79. hi…nope not her heard of him,sorry! have you tried googling the satellite provider thingy,you might get an answer that way? good luck! xx :))

    Comment by mary-lou | September 13, 2011 | Reply

  80. Kabul, that’s where they all say there from. It’s a scam no doubt. There are no real men in the war in the USA, Afganistan…The sooner everyone realises the better. Come on satelites etc….It’s a scam 150%

    Comment by Linda | September 13, 2011 | Reply

  81. Just looked up Ts2 satellite connections on line. the name is actually the provider not a satellite connection type. It could be genuine but TS2 also warn that many scams exist using their name and anybody asked to set up such a connection should be aware that they do not use Western Union Money gram or money transfer. They use a company account and only their own domain email to contact you on. Either ts.pl or support.ts.pl Just in case the info is useful to someone.

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 13, 2011 | Reply

  82. DON’T FALL FOR SSGT JEFFREY D. ROBLES US ARMY ENGINEER SERVING IN IRAQ. FUCKER TOOK ME FOR $2270.OO. I ALMOST SENT ANOTHER $2600.00 WHAT A FOOL I WAS.

    Comment by CINDY | September 15, 2011 | Reply

    • FORGOT TO MENTION HE USED COL. GONZALEZ AS THE PROCESSING OFFICER. AND THEN SEND ME ANOTHER MESSAGE USING A RETIRED LTN.COL JAMES HELMLY.

      Comment by CINDY | September 15, 2011 | Reply

      • hi i think i am being scamed by sgt stephen gonzalez based in afghanistan he says to pay for his leave to come and see me, he is wanting me to send $385.000 i am not given this fucker any of my money they are so convincing it makes you sick, i have read all about us ladies getting scamed, and us ladies take it all in, no more for me i have had enough

        Comment by mary | April 25, 2012

  83. oh cindy…im so sorry that you got caught out by one of these so called men,i really feel for you but im also so glad that you didnt send him any more money!!!
    you take care and dont give up…..dont let this guy ruin your life! all the best to you xx 🙂

    Comment by mary-lou | September 15, 2011 | Reply

  84. shadeylady sent you an email with the pics of the two scammers.. sorry its late
    take care x

    Comment by carol | September 15, 2011 | Reply

  85. Hi Carol, I didn’t get any pics can you resend?
    the messages I received actually said sent from (satelite army wireless) These guys are good at what they do.

    Comment by Cindy | September 15, 2011 | Reply

  86. give me your email cindy..
    i’ll send them to you x

    Comment by carol | September 15, 2011 | Reply

    • carol my email address is mendoza.cindy61@yahoo.com, I need to let this shit go I have cried for two day over this guy. but then i usually will beat an dead horse. too hard on myself. I found a posting from brenda saying she was dubbed my “guy” so I cut and pasted the email to him he states he left her for me and broke her heart.

      Comment by Cindy | September 16, 2011 | Reply

  87. There guys are professionals. I have come across so many scammers now and most are from AYI. I came across one the other day. I was talking to this guy on email and he was soooooooo full on about love bla bla bla that I stopped talking to him, about 2 months later I met this other guy, different photo but you wouldn’t believe it it iwas the same story to a T. I blasted the hell out of him on email and as you can imagine I havn’t heard back from him. I sit here now and think how close I was to just about loosing $3000.00 to these loosers. I would have been so angry at myself for selling my kids out. I am a single mum raising 2 kids the best I can, I work full time just to survive and even tho I told Matthew Williams my gorgeous scammer they just didn’t care hey, they just wanted my money. If it wasn’t for the guy at the place I was trying to send the money thro money gram saying no this is not right I would have sent it. How close. Come on ladies, are we that desperate for a man????? Sit back and smell the roses and life is good, it really is. We have our health and our families. There ar elots of men out there waiting to meet us lovely ladies. The ones in the army or not in the army in our cases can go and screw themselves. They are low lives taking advantage of poor unsuspecting lonely hearts. Man up girls and stop being VICTIMS. Love Linda…

    Comment by Linda | September 15, 2011 | Reply

    • linda, i love your comments. I went to 2 western unions because the first one wouldn’t do the tranaction. I wish I would of been such a fool and listened ot my gut. I totally told my guy off calling him every name in the book and he came back then I send the rest of the money to get him home. I feel like such a fool, i wish I had seen this sight before i became a victim.
      Cindy

      Comment by Cindy | September 16, 2011 | Reply

  88. Jeff Robles is scum, I stopped talking with him when he sent a picture that I know was photo shopped. Sorry I don’t have any pictures, deleted all when I figured out he was a scammer. Thank god I didn’t send any money to him.

    Comment by Brenda | September 16, 2011 | Reply

  89. Ladies, I have found this website and it has several of the guys that I have chatted with on line – very helpful in identifing some of the scammers.
    http://www.youreittoday.com/scammer.php?scammerid=543787

    Comment by Brenda | September 16, 2011 | Reply

  90. Cindy Love. Just keep in mind your not the only one that has been screwed out of money from these pple. They are good, really good. I am a person in higher management and deal with pple daily and there is no way I thought any sucker would get 5c out of me but there I was off to the shops to send $3g to some man, apparently. Was probably some tranny siting behind a desk wear Cher’s bandaid. Sorry darlin, u have to find some homour in all this. If u ever want to email me feel free. Just ask and u will recieve honey..lol…Sorry more humour. Anyway this site was the best thing I could have ever found. I researched and researched scams etc when I fisrt met this tool and they are that good even I culdn’t find anything. Bloody Nigerian tranny a holes. Anyway like I said we have out health and our families and friends, just a couple of less bucks inthe bank and a broken heart, but Cindy all that is ok. Broken hearts can be mended. I am off to meet a man today for the first time, holy crap batman, I am so nervous. Feel like a school kid. BUt honey I got over my fling that I thought I was having with Matthew Williams from the army. U will be ok sweetheart I promise…

    Comment by Linda | September 16, 2011 | Reply

    • Oh Linda YOUR a sweet heart, thanks for the pep talk. You made me smile, girl. I wish I had done more research in the beginning. But I will be alright. I went out of town for the weekend cleared my head and I’m looking again.Good luck with your date. Isn’t awesome to feel like a school girl again, just means we are ALIVE. God Bless you and have fun

      Comment by CINDY | September 20, 2011 | Reply

  91. I`ve just had another email from my old friend Steven Berry 5564. He seems rather upset at the title I gave him of Scammer!!!! Oh Dear! He says he was doing it for love. Yes I replied `Love of money, preferably some naive woman who would send it you it too!” Blimey Steven, Anthony, Robert, whoever you are, Don`t take someone who has much experience of this for a fool!!!! Col. Robert Coffey, Mr Anthony Akinlabi, also three non military under my belt by the names of cassie_w61@yahoo.com, Robert who used to be Daniel from Bristol, Bradford Vancole from Massey Street, Lagos Nigeria. You all think I`m so thick headed. Think again Boys!!!! I should be working for the FBI or Scotland yard. I smell them within two email.

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 17, 2011 | Reply

  92. Oh Dear Ladies. I think I have uncovered another of these criminals!!!! He`s too full on far too soon. The pattern is there already and i `ve only spoken to him once. Only parent of a child, mother deceased, Will post the name as soon as I am sure.

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 17, 2011 | Reply

    • Hi Again Ladies; Not sure about the latest man I am chatting to. He has totally thrown me by telling me he will be home next week and wants to meet me in my own city. He wants me to travel to Glasgow with him first to pick up his daughter from family living there. He then wants me to travel down to Luton in London to spend a few days with him there so we can get to know each other properly. I told him I can`t possibly afford to do all that travelling, but he has said he will take care of that. The only thing I am waiting for now is for him to announce there is some kind of problem with his flight out and could I help pay for it. I`m holding my breath waiting for the bubble to burst. I have already told him that if there is one mention of me handing over money I will disappear from his Radar. I`ve been here before so cannot get excited about this. It could be true, I suppose and he could just be excited to have met someone, but I don`t know.

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 20, 2011 | Reply

      • A friend of mine has pointed out, and I would always listen to friends due to the Rose coloured glasses I seem to be wearing so maybe I `m not seeing things as they are, That the man I am chatting too is again too full on too soon. My friend thinks he is some kind of control freak, or is scam waiting for the right moment.

        Comment by Shadeylady | September 21, 2011

  93. They are everywhere, they are like a rash. I am so weary now I can spot them in a second. I give it everything I got and 99% of the time I don’t hear back from them .The site AYI is the place where most of them are. I give up now. If they can’t text, talk and appear within a week they can go back lol…The motto is just be aware and don’t fall for them…..

    Comment by Linda | September 17, 2011 | Reply

  94. How can my Soldier be in tow places at once? Says he wants to see me on Tuesday 27th when he gets back from Afghanistan but doesn`t fly out until Tuesday????? Reality check is in order guy!! Scam? Still waiting for the big bang!!!!!

    Comment by Shadeylady | September 21, 2011 | Reply

    • Well another update ladies. The current Soldier I am talking to has so far asked me for nothing but love. He does seem to be taking it for granted that things are going to go well, and is behaving as though we are in a relationship now. Tomorrow (that is Sunday 25th Sept) is his deadline for asking me for money. He is supposed to fly back to the UK Monday at the latest. I will only post his name if he makes the request. Although some things have been too much scam like, I have waited and waited for the request that so far has not arrived. Could it be that this man is just too excited to have found someone? who knows but I will post here what the final result is. Take care all and stay scam free and safe. x

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 24, 2011 | Reply

      • Ladies I said I would update you on the current Soldier I was chatting to. Yes he`s a fake too. Richardaron65@yahoo.com asked for £210 by email this morning. Have gone from his Radar as I said I would. It`s sad because he seemed lovely but due to past experience, knew this was coming. Why would a British Soldier need money to get back from America? Swine!!!!!

        Comment by Shadeylady | September 25, 2011

      • This scammer known as Richardaron65@yahoo.com is still trying to hold conversation asking me for £100GBP now. I deleted him from Yahoo in my temper but should have thought more clearly before doing so because now he knows I am on line but I don`t know if he is. That was a bad move on my part. I should have just left him on my contacts but set stealth to Appear Permanently off line. I hate the swine now I know what he is!!!!

        Comment by Shadeylady | September 28, 2011

  95. hello my name its yazmin i been having contact by a soldier in irak of name king anthony clowers at facebook, he said he its divorce whit a 14 year old son from palm beach. florida and he its been sweet and sending me pictures whit military uniforms and his las name on it. i ask him to call me and he said the omly way it is asking for a contact call to his superior smith anderson , i did just to see what is like and this “anderson ” send me a recuest for ts2 satellite comunication, wonder for personal information about myself and asking for $250 american dollars payment that has to be send to Name of Agent:Roselina G Ortega City:Glendale Arizona Country:U.S.A Zip Code:85301 Security question:best Answer:Blue.. all this was waaayyy to wear and i just bloqued from every where … but if some one now how soldier have contact will be great to spreed the info for all those woman who can be scam

    Comment by yazmin | September 23, 2011 | Reply

    • Please Yazmin, Don`t not fall for this scam. I contacted Ts2 and they told me I would be asked to pay for this by Western Union Money transfer or money Gram. You will be asked to do it too. They only use a company account. I hope you will trust someone who had to sense to check things out before being so silly. Please don`t do it, your Soldier isn`t real. He will take your money and never call you. Please don`t send any money. Ts2 told mw they get many stories like ours. Stay safe and stay within your local area when dating. x

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 23, 2011 | Reply

    • i am sorry about that i know abut this person he thld me hes name was DAN fish and his sis going to send him some money tru me but i blok him cus i find he is a lier i dont want to help people likei this to still money ti good people i am not agent i am divorced mom i love my kids never belive in people lik ths pleas i told to somany woman abot him

      Comment by roselina | November 1, 2011 | Reply

    • look you know what he told you and how this is one of kis emails ok

      Dan Fish

      Hi honey,how’s your health?Hope u are now fully alright.I have really missed ya and your thought is always on my mind.When I say, “I love you,” it’s not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me.I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You’re a hell of a woman.I love ya so freaking much babe

      Comment by roselina | November 1, 2011 | Reply

    • September 22
      Dan Fish

      I am fucking real as a military man and I will prove that to u

      I never said u stole

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      do werever you want

      ..

      September 22
      Dan Fish

      All I said is that the mistake is from u

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ind ask to your friend Cliff to helping you too

      ..

      September 22
      Dan Fish

      Cliff brown?

      i elso got in a figth wit this fake solder cus he tol me some one name Erica heres send him 238.00 dollars and i stold that money from him

      Comment by roselina | November 1, 2011 | Reply

    • i insist wit your coment look this is an oter email from him and you can contac to the woman he still money and how i contact her to talk her about this man and tell her dont belibe him we stop him to stold money to some other women LyndaGreenwood

      September 7
      Dan Fish

      Hello honey,thanks so much for ya message…I just wanna tell ya that I love ya so freaking much and I can’t wait to be with ya.
      A cousin sent a $100. To u through western union for my business form,I want u to pick the money up and send it to my agent in nigeria…
      The information is as follow.
      Name:rebecca billings
      Amount:$100
      Mtcn number:8524100205
      Zip code:42301
      Street:3123 wandering avenue,owensboro,kentucky
      Security question:best color
      Answer:blue
      I want u to sent it to my agent in ,nigeria with the following info.
      Name of agent:Folayan Adekunle Tunde
      Country:Nigeria
      State:Ekiti state
      Street:number 104,ilawe road beside sadiat hotel
      Zip code:23403
      Thanks so much for doing this for us.I want you to do the payment immediately,if u need money to send it and u don’t have money for the cost u can remove it from the $100 and send the rest.I love ya baby…kisses.mwaah.

      .and this is the info he give to me to send any money he going to recive cus his fammily going to help him with alot more money

      Comment by roselina | November 1, 2011 | Reply

      • Hi, I have had recent dealings with Dan fish, I agree with everything you said was about right.. he told me he loved me after three days and then for money after five.. when I said no!
        he got very angry and sent me all sorts of shit messages, hence alarms bells rang very loudly.. I did not send any money and told him to get knotted!
        It sounds like this guy makes a living out of doing this to women, luckly I checked everything he told me, which he didn’t like very much.. is there nothing that can be done to stop this slime ball!!

        Comment by Delphine | November 8, 2013

      • Hey Delphine
        Please dont get to worry about this scammers hey are all the biggest freakes what you cam knew be careful for a lots of names which has to do with army they use stolen photos and identities please keep up your head you are a good woman thats why scammers try to get us scammed i learned the hard way but now i can smell a scammer in the first minute. have a great week

        Comment by Ingeborg Fischer | November 9, 2013

  96. hello yazmin…
    dont under any circumstances send any money or give your contact details to anyone…
    THIS IS A SCAM……
    babe you can write to soldiers send them letters, not call them…
    you can contact there regiment and they will explain how you can do this how your letters are sent…
    there not allowed phone calls not in places like that….
    you never send anything… a real soldier would not ask for anything and a real soldier would tell you to write him…
    i’ve been a penpal to soldiers since i was 16 and let me tell you they dont write the romantic shit that these scammers are chugging out lol … they dont declare there love for you in the first week!
    they like the banter and a giggle a rude pic lmao from ya… they have a proper conversation with you…. none of this whats ya fav color and give me ya money lol..
    test him out lol ask him to give you his regiment and tell him you want to write him… and you’ll contact them yourself, guarenteed he’ll say why….. and
    try and fob you off… pushing you to do the secure line thing! and send the money to that address…. these scammers take awhile to reply to you when you ask the questions and challenge them… good luck babe hope i’ve helped alittle.. REMEMBER DONT GIVE ANY MONEY TO ANYONE EXCEPT YOU AND YOURS
    LOOK AFTER YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND NO ONE ELSE…
    CAUSE IF SOMEONE CARED FOR YOU AS THEY SAY THEY WOULD, THEY’D NEVER ASK AND NEVER PRESSURE YOU…
    x

    Comment by carol | September 23, 2011 | Reply

    • carol you are right they wouldnt ask for money and this rats are in thousands and they only thing we can do is to let the datingsides knew report them for ones and all.e all what where scammed we have to be awar nd report them but i cant understand why fbi cia dont want to help .

      Comment by ingeborg | February 24, 2012 | Reply

      • keep trying to get the FBI.in some cases, they have secured convictions.never give up, although it’s not easy.cheers

        Comment by alanprince | March 1, 2012

  97. Cindy, here is an email that I received from Jeffrey Robles – total scum, will try anything, even threatening e-mails!

    – what ever is your name, did i ever ask u money that u call me scam, i will make sure u die, i will kill the heal out of u, my woman told me everything, why will u have to distroy my relationship with cindy, she my love and i do love her, u re a big time fool and u can never find a man in your life, i will go to harbalist and distroy your life and u die within some days, i bet it with u if u can like talk to her and make her love back, unless, bad things will continue to happen to u unless u ask me for forginess, i am going to use all my power to hurt ur life

    Comment by Brenda | September 24, 2011 | Reply

    • Brenda, I`ve never had one reply like that. I `ve had the words ` Big Fool!” and `Go To Hell!” To which I usually reply ` Not before you sweetheart!” but never have I been threatened to that extent. Clearly telling someone you chat to roughly where you live is safe enough, but I would urge all Ladies and Men who are chatting via chat rooms or Dating Websites never to give exact locations or other personal details. This scam situation is big business and who knows the size of the teams working these scams? I`ve also had
      ` Why so Mad? You think you stand a chance with a handsome man? if you are so lovely, why are you needing to pay to find men? Just ignore all these comments Ladies or Gents. You have clearly upset the criminal because he or she has wasted valuable time trying to con you and got nothing. I like the final insulting email because it always tells me that you realised they weren`t for real and it has angered them.

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 24, 2011 | Reply

    • BRENDA, OMG I HAVEN’T CHECKED THIS SITE IN A WHILE. I ACTUALLY CHATTING WIHT JEFF TODAY. IT WAS JUST BY COINSIDENCE AND HE TOLD ME YOU HAD EMAILED HIM. HE IS STILL TRYING. MY LAST EMAIL TO HIM WAS IF YOU ARE FOR REAL WHEN YOU GET BACK TO THE STATES CONTACT ME WE WILL GO FROM THERE. ALL HE SAID WAS BYE/////BRENDA KEEP ME INFORMED @ MENDOZA.CINDY61@YAHOO.COM

      Comment by Cindy | September 27, 2011 | Reply

  98. hey ladies did anyone here of a men called felix clayton his yahoo adress is drclayton55@yahoo.com .would love to hear from you met him on metrodate he said he comes from belgium.

    Comment by julia | September 24, 2011 | Reply

    • Julia, Felix Clayton, Phd is a scammer. Dont give him any money. Add his name to the list please!

      He’s doesn’t have a military sob story, but one of being imprisoned due to lack of funds to pay his workers in nigeria where he was contracted to do an oil pipeline project. Besides that he is very smooth and poetic. But is just like ther rest of the stories here. He’s full on before you know it. wants to marry you , cant live without you, you have changed life. … on and on. He was able to persuade me to give him everything and now I’m left with nothing but my disability income. pitiful. but true.

      Ladies, i think we should band together and share as many resources and tool as we can. It seems like no one cares about our monetary losses but ourselves.

      The IP lookup is a great idea, but seems like might need some tweaking to be able to rule out the internet providers. We need to think about our safety.

      There is a couple places to report these guys. One is the IC3.gov (IC3 is the Federal Internet crime department and the other is a nigerian reporting agency – http://www.efccnigeria.org/

      Comment by DB | September 27, 2011 | Reply

      • Alan Prince, Please remove my comments. DB

        Comment by DB | September 29, 2011

      • Mr. Prince,

        Please remove my comment! I had the name is wrong.

        Comment by DB | September 30, 2011

  99. did anyone hear of a man on myspace captain william anderson yahoo address colandreson01@yahoo.com same story hitting me up for money to pay for a leave. Love letters the whole she-bang! Send me a us navy in uniform photo. IP address says he is in Reston, Va. not Afghanistan we he claims to be deployed at Camp Victory till march. Asked the canadian military recruitment officer and they said there is never a fee to pay for a leave. Is it different for US soldiers or is he a scammer or is he for real? Maybe he really is deployed, maybe not.Could just be a guy sitting in a room in a boarding house,somewhere in the US jerking off and playing on the computer all day. How many other chicks does he send his f’n bullshit sob story to. How many other women has he strung along? No wonder he only emails once in a while too, busy talking to all the other chicks online.It creeps me out. Of course you want to believe that you’ve met some honest, loving,caring guy who thinks the world of you . You look at his photo and think there is no way he’s that kind of guy, but common sense tells you to be wary of anything online. I am in suspended animation not knowing what to believe about him.

    Comment by laura manning | September 24, 2011 | Reply

  100. Hi Laura, How do you get the IP number from the email address?

    Thanks

    Comment by Diane | September 24, 2011 | Reply

    • If you right click the message header, a drop down box will appear with Properties, click on details that it gives you the ip address (a series of numbers)says sends ip is…. copy and paste it into http://www.ip-address.org/lookup/ip-locator.php You’d be amazed at where the ip address is coming from. Test it out on your own email address. In your inbox right click on the sender name to get your ip address from anyone you’ve sent an email to. It is not always foolproof, but it is interesting .

      Comment by laura manning | September 25, 2011 | Reply

      • I just did my ip and it came up as redmond washington. I have never been there. It could be the ip address of the computer manufacturer. Internet service provider will explain it to you

        Comment by laura manning | September 25, 2011

      • This man could be using a proxy server to talk to you seemingly from any where. If you use you r search engine and ask it to find free proxy servers it will bring up sites for few you can choose to use. I have a scam using an Irish one when he had told me he was in Kabul. Any IP address beginning with the number 41. is Nigerian.

        Comment by Shadeylady | September 26, 2011

      • That is very interesting. I’ve kept a file of all communication and should check the ip addresses from each email.

        Comment by laura manning | September 27, 2011

  101. hey girls this is the las mail that i receive

    Hello Erika,how are you doing today?l just wanna tell you that l love you so freaking much and l can never do without you.You are my world,you are my everything and l will never do anything to hurt you.Forget about what anybody tells you about me.l am real and l love you for real.l can’t do without you Erika,l have been very sick since we had our last chat.l want you to come back into my life even better and closer than we used to do.l am so much in love with you and l can never be or live without you.You have been my happiness and my inspiration for long,if you are no more in my life,it’s really gonna affect me here and l am losing concentration because l am thinking that l am losing you.Please baby,come back to my life,prove to me that you love me genuinely and l swear l will never let you down.l have no reason to wanna lie or deceive you because of money cos l have them in excess.All my income and traveling allowances goes directly into my account while here,l never wanted to disturb you concerning the call contact but l have gat no choice since l am not allowed access to cash while here and the your payment is refundable.Think about this honey and realize that l love you and will never hurt you,l have conscience.Conscience is a wound only truth can heal.l can never lie to you or toy with your emotions for any reason.l believe in law of karma and l will never hurt you cos l love you.l want you to know that l will always love you till my dying days.

    King Clowers.
    isnt he so cute lol .. carefull out there

    Comment by yazmin | September 25, 2011 | Reply

    • Why do they all use the same words? I will never do anything to hurt you? You are my world! Emotional leverage all of it. This has to be organised scamming. This is way too freaky to be coincidence.

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 26, 2011 | Reply

    • I am heartbroken as I read this and I learn I have just been scammed,his name was kingsley edwards.

      Comment by Carla | October 31, 2011 | Reply

  102. Does anyone know what the ip address would start with if it actually came from Afghanistan/Iraq?

    Comment by laura manning | September 27, 2011 | Reply

    • hey does anyone know an Alfred Barrera, he says he is a sgt serving in Afghanistan, his mobile actually is in Afghanistan. He asked me to collect some money from the Alfred has now asked me to pay for his plane ticket to come here and he be coming for 3 months and will pay me back. need to know if this name is familiar to anyone he sent photo’s of i assume is himself and his daughter!

      Comment by Nikki HUlican | September 27, 2011 | Reply

  103. hi nikki,
    please…whatever you do….DO NOT send him any money whatsoever or pay for a ticket or anything at all regarding you paying out money! this will be a scam..it really will and the pics hes sent to you of himself and his daughter… i would say…are FAKE! dont believe a word he says,,,hes trying to scam money from you in whatever way he can…..
    LADIES….back me up here…give your advice to nikki before its too late!! i would hate to see you hurt in any way…same goes for all of us on this site…you take care and please listen to what we all say….
    stay safe xx

    Comment by mary-lou | September 27, 2011 | Reply

    • I agree with mary-lou.
      Nikki please believe us. The only reason none of these men have managed to scam me is that I do not have to kind of money they are asking for, so there fore cannot send it to them anyway, they are so convincing, and use emotional blackmail to get what they want. Ts2 satellite connections so they can phone you, always asking you to pay for this via Western Union or send them money for whatever reason via Western Union. They as you to do this because they don`t want to be traced. I would of course never send anyone I have never met cash for any reason because you have no guarantee they are telling you the truth. If this man respects you and loves you as much as he is say, he would never put you in such a position to begin with. xxx

      Comment by Shadeylady | September 28, 2011 | Reply

      • I agree, all a scam, do NOT send any money whatsoever to these men in Iraq, Afghan or whatever, it is all a scam.

        You will loose money and if you still do then more fool you after reading these posts.

        Comment by Fiona | October 2, 2011

  104. hey nikki am adding some of their mensage for to wide open your eyes and closed your heart to those scammers
    King Clowers
    ..l love you so freaking much and l can’t do without you.You are everything to me and my everything is you.l don’t ever wanna lose you honey.l have been very sick with a severe headache that l couldn’t come online for days.l am real and l will never lie to you for any reason.
    l love you so much baby and l will do anything to make you happy,you are my world and all l ever wanna be with.l can’t do without you and l want you baby…l am gonna give you my best friend’s i.d so that you can always contact him and get to know more things about me….Won’t you mind if l give him your i.d too cos he sometimes come on messenger too.His i.d is dan.fish36@yahoo.com…Have a lovely night rest honey and always remember that l care.Missing you.

    Comment by yazmin | September 28, 2011 | Reply

    • omg how many womans going to be scam from this man he is the mos facke man

      September 7
      Dan Fish

      Hello honey,thanks so much for ya message…I just wanna tell ya that I love ya so freaking much and I can’t wait to be with ya.
      A cousin sent a $100. To u through western union for my business form,I want u to pick the money up and send it to my agent in nigeria…
      The information is as follow.
      Name:rebecca billings
      Amount:$100
      Mtcn number:8524100205
      Zip code:42301
      Street:3123 wandering avenue,owensboro,kentucky
      Security question:best color
      Answer:blue
      I want u to sent it to my agent in ,nigeria with the following info.
      Name of agent:Folayan Adekunle Tunde
      Country:Nigeria
      State:Ekiti state
      Street:number 104,ilawe road beside sadiat hotel
      Zip code:23403
      Thanks so much for doing this for us.I want you to do the payment immediately,if u need money to send it and u don’t have money for the cost u can remove it from the $100 and send the rest.I love ya baby…kisses.mwaah.

      .this is the real info about him he contact me and ask this women to send his siter 200 dallars she tol him she cant cus she only have 100 but he told her its ok send to my sis that 100 and she can send me the others and she send that i dont feel good with this situathion i contact her she said to me you are Dan’s sis i told her not he said me i am his fiance cus he want merry me but i ready know he was lie to me and her we help to an other woman name Lynda Greenwood he ask her to be his gfrend becca told her pleas block him do not give any chance to ask her 4 money if you want to contact her name in fb is Becky Billings

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      shi is so cool

      too

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok

      but what is the man’ name

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i ready told her that thing he do to you

      and she was so angry with him

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok

      well it is the true you know

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know and i still feel sory cus i help him

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      thats ok

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      that is why i ask my friend to help me whit him

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      thats good

      i sent your sister a friend requests

      she can help us to so tell her who i am

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok thanks she is so young only 20 years

      ok i do that

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok she may be can help us ,does she talk english

      we need all the help we can get

      to stop these cons

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes we need help

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      and from letting some other woman get hurt or used

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes that is why i ask her help

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      thanks

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      a told her now ready

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok that good

      tell her about the rest of them that i told you about

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      she ready know that

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i send a pic of Massimo Fernando you know he cancel all his profils in my space and open others in yahoo and hotmail

      and i can acces in any one cus he block me

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok

      is he a nother con

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i told you he ask me for nacked pics and my cheking account with my devit card and pin number

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      thats right i forgot

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ha ha ha but i did’t

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      i bet will you have not lost everything thank god for that

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      September 18
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you are my friend and i know what i told you cus of that friendship betwin as

      i dont

      thanks god

      I had almost all them emails

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      September 18
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good morning how are you today?

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      good moring ,i am fine . how about you

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      great thanks

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      kmool

      kool

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i will bether wen we faind something more

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      ok

      is he still talking to you

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ho yes you know how much he love me ja ja ja i just kidding

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      he has blocked me i can’t see anything any more

      ha haaa yes i knoe he loves you a lot

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hum he just know he cant get any mor from you

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      i know

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes you know that you are my wittness

      cus you love me like your best friend

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      thats right

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      cus i am your best friend

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      thats true

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok thnks

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      thank you

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but you know i just can see hes pics and nothing more

      i think so he love me alot then he dont want to hurt me with the comments of the others i am so shure about that?

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      good luck you will need it with him … i don’t want to look at his ugle picture

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ha ha ha i know but i think if we dont faind any more i going to blok him soon

      i am happy cus i got some one I liked and he call me 3 or4 times a day

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      will all i can can tell you he is a cheat and lier and a con and a thief

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know all that ha ha ha and i dont want any with that caind of mans

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      i hope not

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i like my other friend he is nice and he work evry day never can ask a woman for help him with money cus he is a man

      a real man

      and hi is only 33 years old

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      i am glag that you found someone ,hope someday i will to

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i hpoe so too cus you deserve to had a good man with you

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      thank you if you know of any let me know ok

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok my frienn i will

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      kool

      do you and your sister had the same dad

      your sister maria

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      not she is my sis only in facebook sis of heart she is frem spain and i am fron Mexico

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my real sis her Name is Marleth Ortega in my friends list

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      ok

      i didn’t know she is really pretty

      she better watch out for all this men

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know but you talk about Maria or Marleth?

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      maria

      i have not seen your sister marleth’s picture

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      look thi is my real sis Marleth 23 years and Cynthia 42

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      they are my youngest sis from the same dad and mom

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      they are very good looking

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      kool

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      love them

      they are wanderful sis

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      kool

      i don’t have any sister’s

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      sorry about that… i had 2 sis and 2 bros

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      all of them younger cus i am the oldest in my family

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      thats kool

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      September 19
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes it si i am blessed cus of that family i had

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      September 19
      Becky Billings

      yes you are

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hei i send a messege to Lynda and she send me afriend recuest

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      i know i am glad that you are friend with her

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thanks taking about some thing else wwwwaaawwwwwwwww your friend Mike he is so so wwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwww

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      who is mike

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i dont know he is in your friends list Mike Chaney

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      he is married just friends thats all

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      its ok i jut said i like him thats it

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      kool he is real nice person

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and his wife is your friend too?

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      nope just him

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hooo ok his eyes are so wanderful

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      kool

      yep he is nice looking

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good and taking about trash hi send me a email he wam

      want to talk in yahoo

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      did you go

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      not i am buzy

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i cant

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      bet he didn’t like that

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      so i am free

      thanks tiGod

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      yep

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but i chek and he dont left any messege so he cant tell nothing

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      ok

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but i bet you wen he see i am frien with Lynda he dont want to be with me

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      i would not care

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      me neader

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      kool

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i cares mor for my friends then that pice of trash

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      September 20
      Becky Billings

      thats good

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      September 20
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know

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      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi my dear i want to sho you sonthing about that pice of trash look this What have u been busy with sweetheart?I need you to get some amount of money to me during this week $250 would be sent to ya and I need you to send $200 to my agent and use the remaining $50 for sending it and your transport.I love ya so freaking much baby.Sweet dreams.I am missing ya.

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      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa good luck please sent me my $100.00

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      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes my friend is one of my prayoritis that iswhy i still his grifrend

      cus of you my friend

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      September 21
      Becky Billings

      oh

      ok

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      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes cus i sill feel bad but i have to do that agen to some body else and ifevry thing go in that way you cann get your monay back and i get the rest

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      thanks that would be so kool of you

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes i know cus i need that i live in my mom houe but i had to pay rent and i owne 50.00dalars from this month

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      so my dear frien we need to be here i hop so he can get that money ok

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      hi

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      it is elizabeth

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      how are you

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good

      how are u?????

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      fine ,i saw your picture you are very pretty

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thank u

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      you are welcome ,did you have a good day in school

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes a boy is talking a lot

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ha haaaa

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      l am not lol

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ha haaaaaa

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      y u :0

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      r u here

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      yes

      what are you doing

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi Becky i am talk with a friend

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      about my ded boy friend

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he wen i meet him was with an other gril and he left her for mr

      me

      and i have a pic in fb with all the kids and she was angry cus that pic

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      oki

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thi is nothing bad cus that pic is in my flashdrive in my loptop

      but she was so mad cus he left her

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      hi

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am play on i-dressup it is fun for little kids

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi is in line

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ha ha ha we wot your money let me go get that we won

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      kool

      what did he say

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      yes what

      what all did he have to say to you

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      alot cus like he love me so friken much you know that

      ha ha ha

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      for real

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes you dont belive in his love for me

      ha ha ha

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      nope

      he told me the same thing

      he is so full of shit

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know my friend you know i just kidding i dont belive in him hell not

      i have to go to get are money

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      i know i wish you good luck

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i will cus he trust me

      ..

      September 21
      Becky Billings

      i know

      ..

      September 21
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey i went to the western union but he dont give to her mi midle namr

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi how are you today?

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i am fine …. how are you ?

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      happy cus i know your monay is ther

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes i know

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      thank you

      brb

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you know i am your friend

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      thanks

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      your welcome

      and wen i get that money in my handsi going to need your help

      with that women ok

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      you are so nice thank you

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      we need to tell her about that pice of trash

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      yep you are right

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey can you give me your opinion in the pic a post in my wall please

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i don’t see anything wrong with it

      i like it

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes but 2 of the stepsons of my boyfriend’s ex it was in ther thas is wyh i ask 4 U opinion

      she told 2 a friend of me to tell me dont used that pic in my wall

      in facebook

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i like it …why not

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i love this pic cus is mine it is in my computer

      if she was in the hospital cus she used Druags

      she is adicted to it

      and they come in to my house 4 3 days

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey my dear friend look this

      27 minutes ago
      Dan Fish

      Hello honey,how are u doing today?I have really missed you.Hope u are good.I love you so freaking much baby.

      I tried chatting with you on yahoo but u never responded,hope everything is fine.I will be waiting for the payment info. On here.Love ya so freaking much baby,You are my world.

      .

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      thats a bunch of bull shit

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that

      is cus he want that money

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i know

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but he dont know now then he cant going to get any thing cus 100 is yours

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      thats true

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i told him i need to go at the time my son come back from colageg arawnd 3:30 but he is ready in home i take care of a friend little kids

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and them come to pik up the babys at 3:15

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i bet he did not like that

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      not

      16 minutes ago
      Dan Fish

      Alright,thanks so much my wife…I will always love you.

      look this

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      that is crazy

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ha ha ha he is yessssssssssssss but we wone

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      i hope so

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes Becky cus i chek and that money is in there

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he talk to that women and ask her to fixed that in the western union

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      she send the money to Roselina Ortega but my ID had Gonzalez too

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      that is why i cant pikup that yesterday

      but today i will

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok thats kool

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes yes yes and this is for you and me

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      yep so kool

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok my friend i need to chek up in the kids cus now i have 4 mine 2 and my friends babys

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok talk later

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      becky you know that peolpe i thin so she faind who is Dan and she pike up her money and now he is so angry with me cus he said i steel or stold hes money
      Dan Fish

      That’s not important,it’s a small money to me,it’s just that I wanna help a friend for his own investment here with the money..Thanks for breaking my heart,I thought u love me.

      Rossy,tell me it’s not what I am thinking and prove to me that u still love me by sending the money down for it’s purpose..

      ..

      about an hour ago
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok you dont want to give me any oportunity its ok cus i dont know you in reality i think you’ve lied to me

      ..

      about an hour ago
      Dan Fish

      I never lied to you cos l love you geninely and I actually wanna be with u

      You are the one that’s lying to me now and I am giving u a second

      look this

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i never ever in my life stold or steel any thing and you acused me i feel so bad God know me cus i am one of his dougthers

      16 minutes ago
      Dan Fish
      I am fucking real as a military man and I will prove that to u
      I never said u stole
      16 minutes ago
      Rossy Gonzalez
      do werever you want
      15 minutes ago
      Dan Fish
      All I said is that the mistake is from u
      15 minutes ago
      Rossy Gonzalez
      ind ask to your friend Cliff to helping you too

      my dear frend can you belive that he trueth to me!!!

      ..

      September 22
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i block that man he was so angy with me but i dont have any money

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      DON’T SENT HIM ANYTHING , HOW CAN YOU BRECK HIS HEART HE DON’T HAVE A HEART . , I DON’T CARE ABOUT THE MONEY ,HE CAN KEEP IT IF IT MAKES HIM HAPPY . I AM GLAD YOU BLOCK HIM

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and the gril her name is Erika Heres can you send a friend recuest to her? and talk to her about Dan

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thanks

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      can you tell anything about her

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      she is from Canada

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i serch her name and shi was the frist in the list

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok i found her . sent her a massage hope it will help

      yhanks

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok thanks you know i look tru her frend but Dan isent in there but i see 3 mans with out pic if she accepting you ask her if some one ast to her to help him with money and lest see what do she told you can you start for that cuestion?

      i Faind a man named Dun Drum fuuny name dont you thin k?

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep its is him i bet

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      FarmVille Sheep, FarmVille Cows, completed the Collection any time In 24×7 Hours, Learn how to get Unlimited Chicken Coops, Zoo World, Happy Aquarium, FarmVille, YoVille, Snickers’s Farm, Donna’s Farm, Dum’s Farm, Mafia Wars, Gagaville Planet, Ankit Anand, Farmville Sharing Planetand 27 more

      look this is the info i faund of that trash

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      oh may god

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      can you chek on him?

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yes be back

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      i found a name golden fish ,i bet that is him

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      maybe he can

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      never mean its a woman

      there was nothing in his

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      rou aer all rigth

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i hope so she acepting you

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      me to thanks for your help

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      wewelcome

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      hoe come you block him

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i ready do it but i cant in yahoo yet but i faind the way

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      i bet he is pissed off

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he cant trueth on me if he is the one to stold to womens

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      thats true

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and you see i told if he goibg to ask for help to Cliff and he got so angry haha haha

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      they are all working to gether

      cliff is a con to

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that he is

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      look this from Dan Dan Fish

      U asked us to correct it and we corrected it

      And if there’s any problem u should have called the number they gave u to rectify or correct it

      Cos u know the money was there before and u went and left without collecting the money and doing anything about it

      I am not gonna take this lightly

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      i guess he will have to get over it

      pay back is hell

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that is why i ask to contact to that gril erika

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      i know , and i am going to get him every time i can he is going to wish he never meat me

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahaha and now he going to hop dont be like that wit me let me show you some thing i told him ok

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      9 hours ago
      Dan Fish

      I never lied to you cos l love you geninely and I actually wanna be with u

      You are the one that’s lying to me now and I am giving u a second chance now

      I never knew u could do this,how much is $263 that I trusted u with

      If u know my worth and my plans for us,I swear u wouldn’t have done this

      ..

      9 hours ago
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you never tell me that if I let go almost a million dollars because I have not wanted to fight my property I do not care about money because I just wanted nothing nesecito help do not understand why you accuse me of something that never aria and if you truth you’ve checked the path of the money show me if you feel something for me

      ..

      9 hours ago
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am a reach b ut all is in the court proces

      ..

      9 hours ago
      Dan Fish
      Rossy,I swear I love you and l can never hurt you

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      thats bull shit he is not rich ,or he would not be asking woman for money .. dam lier

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      nesecito is needed….aria is do…

      not i told him i am reach

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and i send him a pic pf the carr i was had

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      now he be sorry cos i am a reach women and he felt

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but evrithing is in court

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      true

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i ready told you all the things i ben tru

      with all my kids

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yes

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i have but i dont want that but may be soon i go to court to ask for evrithing not chance to come back

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yes that is true

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my ex dont have chance to come back

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      Rossy Gonzalez

      did you see thi si my carr a chevy Suburban 2001 pay off and i had a ford expedition pay off too did you think i need stold some money from you?

      Picture0014.jpg

      ..

      8 hours ago
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hell no i help you cus you ask me but not cus i need steell nothing

      ..

      8 hours ago
      Dan Fish

      I never said you stole money,type western union tracking on google,click on the first of all the suggestions and u will write the info and send the name of sender and the mtcn,u will see that the money has been picked up by receiver.

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he chench wen i send the pic of the suburban but he got angry cos i cant send any money cus i never got that

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thanks God that is it with him

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you know i open my yahoo mail and i faind this
      Hey

      dan.fish36 (Sep 23 12:40 AM): If u wanna make me happy again and love u like I used to,go back to the western union and lodge complain and try to get the money back to my agent

      Emoticons
      Format

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      can you belive this?

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yes i can he will try anything

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that but i just had to ignore him

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep i thionk that is the best thing you can do

      as long as you talk to him he is going to keep on with his bull shit

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ho yea but i dont want to talk to him

      any more

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      then all i can tell you is don’t

      just block him

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what did you want me to do?

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      you said you did not want to talk to him anymore

      do what every you want to

      i can ‘t tell you what to do it’s up to you

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i need to know how i blok him in yahoo

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      that i don’t know just don’t talk to him up there

      if you sends you a massage just don’t answer

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      that is i be do

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      because joshua ken is always sending me a massage i just don’t anser him

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      cus he is friken crazy

      that is an other one

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep he is

      yep

      just don’t go up on yahoo

      even if you are on there you don’t have to talk to him

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that and i realy dont want to

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      then all i can tell you is do what ever you have to

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thanks Backy for your suport

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      you are welcome

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      love you my friend

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      love you to friend always

      we have to watch for each other and all the other women he is after so he want hurt them to

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      can we do a anuncement in face book about them all in Nigeria?

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      can you do it in englesh and i di it in spanish

      ..

      September 23
      Becky Billings

      i will tomorrow i have to go to the hosipial today for some test ok

      you can put it on there if you want to .i will be back tomorrow love ya

      ..

      September 23
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok be seaft good luck in your test

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi how are you today?

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      brb

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi how are you today?

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      fine ,how arte you

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am good but i still with tha problem can you see in my profilo the thing that Fu*** Bit** said about me Her name is AMY

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      who is amy

      i will go look

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      My Baby’s daddy’ ex grilfriend’s

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      i was just reading it ,that is bull shit

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know i had 2 truets now 1 from Dan and 1 from Amy’s

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      what does dan have to do with amy

      what did he say

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      nothing

      just i said

      i am had 2 truets

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he is going to ask to the military to help with me cus i stold hes money

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      thats is crazy

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahaha yes

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      he is crazy

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa ant that sad

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes he is but how stold your money me or?

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      ..yep thats right he is just trying to make you fell sorry for him

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but i not

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      good

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i told yoy i am free i am my owne me

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      thats right ,you need to tell him to lieave you alone

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i ready lock him he cant do nothing in face book

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok it is Elizabeth

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      hi sweetheart

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      how r u?

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      i am fine what about you

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kkkkkkkkkkkkkkoooooooooooooolllllllllllllll

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my litter sister are so FUNNY

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      lol

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov color

      ????????????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      blue whats your

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      all the riandow color

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      thats kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ???????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov book

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      don’t have one

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is the raindow godin

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov move ??????????????????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      the green mile

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is how to tain your drogon????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      thats kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov t.v. show??????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      everybody loves raymond

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is the simons

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov art person

      ?????????????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      don’t have one

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is my borther….i his art

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov shoes???????????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      don’t have one

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      me ether

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov sport?????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      football

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      which is ur football tame?????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      dallas cowboys

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov hallday

      ??????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      christmas

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is all

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov flower?????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      roses

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my is all

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur fov friend me or my mom or both of us?????????????????????????????????????????

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      both of you

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      thanks my dear friend you know i love you thanks for talk too my dougther

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      she is so sweet

      ..

      September 24
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know all of my kids are just like that

      ..

      September 24
      Becky Billings

      thats kool

      going to bed talk tomorrow love ya have a good night

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      good moring

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey good morning

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      how are you this morning ?

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good how about you?

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      fine

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good i am glad to heard that

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      kool

      how is all the kids

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ues it is

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      ok

      thats good

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am post pic of my grand sons

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and 1 of my 2nd son

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am so happy

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      cus i got them in my life

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      hay

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      it is Elizabeth

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      hi sweetheart how are you today

      ..

      September 25
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good

      hi i going to the cemantery with hes mom mshe come to take my and my babys tlk ltr

      ..

      September 25
      Becky Billings

      ok

      love you

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      what did you say about me

      tell me please

      i can’t read or speak spanish

      ..

      September 26
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi my friend nothing bad i told him you dont spek spanish only english he told me to tel you hi

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 26
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and thanks cus you add him

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      ok thats kool is he a friend for your’s

      ..

      September 26
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes hi is cus we born in the same City

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      September 26
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i told him you said he is handsome

      hi liks that

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      i did not mean anything by that just talking ok

      so bored

      ..

      September 26
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know that but he cant speak any inglesh

      only spanish

      ..

      September 26
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi dear friend who is this wanderful man?

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      what man

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i see in your wall pics

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      he is a friend of mine , he is sexy

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes he is

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      he is my pool boy

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good i happy 4 that

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      hey me to

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahaha i beth you gggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      just found him

      makes dan look sick

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      why?

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      why what

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      just cus this have great looking

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      ha haaa he is more a man then dan will ever be

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      congrats yes he look more menly

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey i tell you the name of the other gril Erico heres from Dan’s?

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      ok

      whats her last name

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      Erika Heres

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      ok

      i am looking

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok thanks i need to go my older dougther is going to get a reward

      in the school

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      ok talk later

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok see you take care of you

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      you to

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok thanks

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      kool

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi It Is Elizabeth

      u their

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      yes how are you

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      GOOD ;D

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      fine

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      I did not go school today becase I have a fever

      what is ur faverit game?????????????????????

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      diamond dash

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      my n is siro

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      k

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      what is ur faverit singer???????????????????? mine is selena gomez

      bey

      dye

      i men

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey Becky look this
      Hello honey
      Sep 29 7:25 AM
      dan.fish36:I have really missed u

      Sep 29 7:26 AM

      dan.fish36:I can’t afford to lose u just because of money cos l love u

      Sep 29 7:26 AM

      dan.fish36:And I can’t do without u

      Sep 29 7:26 AM

      dan.fish36:I have been very sick with headache when I didn’t hear from you

      Sep 29 7:26 AM

      dan.fish36:I want u to know that I will always love you no matter what happens

      Sep 29 7:33 AM

      dan.fish36:

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      ha haa right

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i know he lie so bad hahahaha

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      yep sure is

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      like i dont lisen to him he is going crazy

      he dont find no body too help him

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      i know poor baby whats he going to with out you

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahahaha can you help that poor baby?

      hell no i jus kidding

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      i would not give him a penny

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      not like that just sid hi mather fu***

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      yep

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      i can’t stand him

      after what he did to both of us he sucks

      he is a sissy baby grow up

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      look wen he see i dont said nothing …… It’s okay if u don’t wanna talk to me anymore bye

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      thats good

      he needs to grow up and be a man

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ho yes

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      yep he is runing out of women

      ..

      September 29
      Rossy Gonzalez

      that is why he looking 4 me

      ..

      September 29
      Becky Billings

      i know

      tell him to kiss your ass

      you are to pretty ,nice and a wondering person you don’t need that bastard. you can get anyone you want

      don’t let him get to you he is no good

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      that stuped man ask me to fogived him cus he cant live with out me

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      oh please

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you know he need some one who can help him

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      i know he wants money

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      but i dont be that person

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      good for you

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am mom i need my time for my kids not for some liers

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      that is so true

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you know he chench his profil pic

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      oh really

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      now he had a wanderful carr

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      wonder who payed for that

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i ask him 4 a pic of him

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      ok

      i would like to see

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and hi told me but i ready send you one i told him mmmm i dont reememver

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i wnt one please

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i need one cus i want to post that in facebook with a adbertence 4 all womens about him

      ..

      October 3
      Becky Billings

      kool

      share it with everyone

      ..

      October 3
      Rossy Gonzalez

      if he send me that can you help me with the pubished?

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      what have you been doing

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i going to start sale Mary Kay

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      next week

      and how about you

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      thats great i am doing fine .. what about you ?

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      good friend of mine looking the messeges of are lier friend

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he looking for me agen today that’s crazy but he want me belive in that fake love

      i have to go to take my grils to the church cus them whant to do there frist comunion

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      oh thats nice . yes he is fake

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes i know he need some one who can help him with his grilfriends money

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      what girlfriend

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i dont know with the next one dont you think?

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      oh ok

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      we know that lier man

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      yep sure do very well

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes

      we know that

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      there is a nother one named john smith i neet he 4 days ago watch out

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      see you letre ok and thanks my dear 4 that info and he ready ask you 4 help?

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      not yep

      he is getting there

      ok have a good night

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahaha careful with that

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      ok

      love ya

      tell elizabeth love her to

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok love you 2

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      ok talk later

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      and she ask me 4 U evry day

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      thats nice tell her i am thinking about her

      she is so sweet

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok good and thanks

      ..

      October 4
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 4
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ltr

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      hi

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      how r u?????????????????:X

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      fine how are you ?

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      GOOD♥

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      good

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      how odd are you?????O:-)

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      55

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      do u want to video cate

      ??????????????????????????????

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      i don’t know

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i do

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      so do u

      Rossy Gonzalez wants to video chat with you. Go to http://www.socialbox.com to download the app and accept.

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      i can’t right now i have company

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      Rossy Gonzalez wants to video chat with you. Go to http://www.socialbox.com to download the app and accept.

      Sent at 4:25PM via http://www.socialbox.com

      how r u?????????????

      Sent at 4:27PM via http://www.socialbox.com

      Rossy Gonzalez wants to video chat with you. Go to http://www.socialbox.com to download the app and accept.

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      i can’t right now what wrong

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      is something wrong

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      no

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i am aso playing

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      with who

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      nobody

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      whe r u doing

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      talking with my company

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      bey

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      bye talk later

      love ya

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok

      i will be back

      !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :X

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      bey

      ..

      October 6
      Becky Billings

      bye

      ..

      October 6
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i will miss u

      Rossy Gonzalez wants to video chat with you. Go to http://www.socialbox.com to download the app and accept.

      Sent at 4:40PM via http://www.socialbox.com

      my mom will still be on lilin but we r gone

      dye

      :X

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hi

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      hii

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      how r u?

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      fine

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i’m good

      o by the way i am Elizabeth

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hey friend you want to see somethig?

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      sure

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      did you get that?

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      no

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      ok letme try agen

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      Message body

      The place we live in is conflicting,
      And we know different manner of living.
      However, I do not bother anymore.
      However, I am willing to discover more.

      Truly! You are out of my sight,
      Yet, when I close my eyes, it is you I see.
      Indeed! You are beyond my reach,
      Yet, when I dream, I can caress you like so real.

      These yearnings are my inspirations.
      Because these things prove me that…
      Each day, my love for you grows quicker.
      Each day, my longing for you goes deeper.

      I wish for your warm and sweet kisses,
      I wish for your tender and gentle hugs.
      I want you near beside me; and
      I want you make love with me.

      I will give anything for you!
      I will do everything for you!
      I am not perfect and neither superman
      However, if for you, I will do the best that I can!

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      I want you to know what is in my mind,
      I want you to see what is inside my heart.
      Please listen to the words you will hear,
      Please to listen to the voice of my heart.

      “You are my everything!
      You complete every fiber of my being!
      You are the reason why I breathe!
      You are the woman of my dream!
      You are the world to me!
      You are the one who completes me!
      I love you super duper!
      And I will not stop loving you forever!”

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      you know who send this to me?

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      thats sads poor baby

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      hahaha you know who

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      yep that ass hole

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      yes it is sad poor baby

      he still looking 4 me

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      ha haaaa

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      he send me the pics i ask

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      Some of my pics for you honey,l love you so freaking much….

      Photos
      Download All

      sgt dan 1.jpg

      sgt dan 2.jpg

      sgt dan 5.jpg

      sgt dan.jpg

      Me beside my car.jpg

      von boy.jpg

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      ok

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      i got one did you want to see?

      ..

      October 8
      Becky Billings

      sure

      ..

      October 8
      Rossy Gonzalez

      look this is your ex boy fu***ing

      Me beside my car.jpg

      sgt dan.jpg

      sgt dan 1.jpg

      Comment by roselina | November 1, 2011 | Reply

  105. and after this i told him to leave me alone and that he doesn gonna have a penny from me and see what he answer
    10 hours ago
    King Clowers

    I can’t believe u just said this to me,thanks for breaking my heart,I never expected this from you,afterall,I have been appealing to u and telling you how much I love ya to the extent that I was having a severe headache because of you…I am really disappointed in you..You can type my yahoo I.d on google,you will know I am real and everything about me exists…Thanks for making me cry,I thought u love me,how much is $250 that u couldn’t spare when l told ya the money is refundable…You could have tested me with it and let me prove to ya I am real by calling u and actually being with u on leave…..You are pussylanimous…..Thanks for making me feel this bad.Good day.

    Comment by yazmin | September 28, 2011 | Reply

    • who is this guy cos i need to know as i have been talkin to him over the last 17 weeks, i have not sent money to him but we have built up a close friendship, he seemed genuine to me as he has never asked for any money just friendship. well keep me posted

      Comment by karen | November 10, 2011 | Reply

  106. and finally its seems like am getting a challenge for those cause i have a new one today

    Tedd Kammer

    Hi,
    My name is ted kammer,I am 45 years old.I live in verona new jersey,U.S Army but i am presently in kabul,afghanistan for peace keeping.i am single and i was just on here searching and you caught my eyes and i was wondering if we could get to know each other.
    Teddy

    Comment by yazmin | September 28, 2011 | Reply

  107. so updating their names girls … take care you all, we r so powerfull, so pretty and we do not need this shit….

    Comment by yazmin | September 28, 2011 | Reply

  108. What a coincidence – Ted Kammer – oh, that sounds like Ramos to me in peacekeeping.

    Don’t send any money to him just warming up for the sting. If you can’t get it reading these posts, then you’re a fool!

    I told you the money is totally refundable. What bullshit, the man is nothing more than a frigging lier and when pointing to posts on the internet “What’s this got to do with me?”. The man is a crook, criminal and nothing out other than to break your heart and get your money.

    Comment by Fiona | October 2, 2011 | Reply

    • BE CAREFUL WITH WILSON SCOTT BROWN,Email wilsonscottbrown@yahoo.com.He told me that he is from TEXAS.Now,he diploid in Afganistan for peace mission.He has to help his friends to AFRICA,NIGERIA,coz they have kidnapped.He asked me money to buy ticket,coz he will die in africa.His wife is passed away,his daughter lives in texas with his maid.HE IS A LIER,HE IS NOT AN ARMY!!!! HE IS ONLY FUCK NIGERIAN SCAMMER!!!! He always send me a love letter and chat !!! DONT BELIEVE WITH SOMEONE IF THEY ASK MONEY FOR YOU!! LEAVE HIM!!!

      Comment by EFFI | October 20, 2011 | Reply

      • That’s interesting, Scott Wilson told me he was on a Peace Keeping missing in Afghanistan, then he went to Pakistan for 3 months. He was 35, told my friend he was a Colonel! He is from Nigeria. He speaks about God all the time! Wanted to send me a package of 3 stone of Gold bars in a military box! This wouldn’t cost me anything! Yet I was to e-mail a travels online co and the e-mail address came up with a scam! He says that’s a lie, actually it is him that is a liar as my friend found out that he was from Nigeria and 27!

        Comment by Fiona | October 22, 2011

      • could you get in touch with me please i need to speak to you

        Comment by jackie | November 8, 2011

    • I stumbled on this site and am so very glad, I have been emailing back and forth with wilsonscottbrown@yahoo.com, he was telling me he has a daughter, is from austin, texas has been in kabul city for 6 months. Is looking for a woman that he can be serious with and will love him back. His wife had died in a auto accident and left him with a 15 year old daughter. I will be deleting him from my friends list and emails. I wonder who all the people are he has sent me in the photos?

      Comment by deb | December 2, 2011 | Reply

  109. i keep working for you girls

    Please be careful. Note that all TS2 messages that come from a different e-mail address than contact@support.ts2.pl are not from our company but from people trying to scam you. There are people out there trying to use our name to scam people like you. We do not have any representatives outside Poland.

    See http://www.ts2.pl/en/Scam-Warning for more information.

    I’m glad you have contacted us and we hope it was before you’ve sent them anything. We are unfortunately not able to do much to stop these people from creating more and more such e-mail accounts and scamming people by using our name.

    If you did send them money, then I’m afraid only the police will be able to help. The person who you send the money to was probably a victim of identity theft, but this is your only trace.

    Let us know if you are interested in hearing about our real offer of satellite phones and Internet access for soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. It is not possible to just provide a satellite phone connection to anybody in Iraq or Afghanistan – there is no such service. They would first need to purchase a special satellite phone and appropriate SIM card from us. Or you could purchase one and have us send it to him (we need his full military address).

    Best regards,

    Piotr Kubiak
    TS2

    Comment by yazmin | October 4, 2011 | Reply

  110. “WILSON” told me to refund my money after he came to my country!!! he wanted to stay in my country for 2 months.We always chat but he always ask me money for 500$.He hopes i sent the money to AKURE,ONDO,NIGERIA!!!he told me many his friends died in afria like dogs.But he is a BIG MOUTH !!!!!he never love you,he only love your money!!!!BE CAREFUL WITH SCAMMER!!!!

    Comment by EFFI | October 20, 2011 | Reply

    • Ondo Road, Akure Nigeria. Real name Anthony Akinlabi. Scam!!!!!

      Comment by Shadeylady | December 10, 2011 | Reply

  111. hi everyone…remember me!,mary-lou ? lol….

    ive just been looking through all the comments and i do believe i didnt let you all know what happened to my romance.. well except for mina,hi mina!!

    my guy disappeared on me and stopped talking for a few weeks,he’d asked for money in several ways and because i said no..i thought he’d gone for good…. well…get this….

    he emailed me a week or so ago,saying Hi… i was really surprised to hear from him,so said hi back… he said he needed to tell me something… and to cut a longish story a bit shorter…. he confessed,he actually confessed that he was a part of a scam thingy with a friend of his. he says he wasnt ever the one to ask for money (he would wouldnt he lol) but that was always his friend…apparantly i would be having a conversation with both him and his friend (which fits,as id always said to myself it feels like im talking to two different guys!). he said that he’d been thinking about me alot and wanted to own up and say how sorry he was,he never meant to hurt me… he said it was my last email to him that made him think and want to come clean?!
    anyway,hes told me the lot (or so i think,could all be lies again lol).
    they used photos from other websites,made up the familys and where he lives and works…basically everything he told me,was a lie…. all except one thing,he says….. he says he loves me,really loves me and wants to get to know me and me know him for who he really is??? hes given me his facebook details of who he is and other details etc…
    ladies…. its weird cos it felt like the man i fell for had ‘died’ when he stopped talking and i cried my tears for him then and now…here he is but another man altogether and yet he sounds like the guy i fell for…so so weird!!!
    dont worry,nothing will ever happen between us…theres no chance of that but i just wanted to let you all know that its so easy to fall for someone who isnt real and isnt genuine…please be careful and trust your gut feelings !!!!
    my guy who was supposed to be 33,living in new york but working abroad…is now a 25 year old YOUNG muslim man from nigeria,studying computer technology or is he??? lol… i will never know for sure…… take care xx :))))

    Comment by mary-lou | October 20, 2011 | Reply

  112. wilsonscottbrown asked me for his flight money to England . I didnt trust him and checked him out, Thank you ladies i have found out from all of you he a scam

    Comment by jackie | October 31, 2011 | Reply

  113. Hi there
    I hope someone can help me out .I am an Australian male who has found a female on a dating site.
    she is an American soldier deployed in Afghanistan.Our emails have been to go to be true, and I dont know if this a scam or not an have no way of finding out. I have details an photos of her I have her ISAF number her Battalion and a copy of her passport. The name Colonel Bryanwataon@usa .com has come up .
    Can anyone help me out please.
    Email me at brettdoran1@hotmail.com
    B Doran

    Comment by Brett doran | November 1, 2011 | Reply

  114. mary-lou, don`t fall for that trick either please. This has happened to a woman in the UK and he still managed to try scam her again. He admitted what he was up tp got her to trust him again and took her cash anyway. They really are the lowest of the low no morals at all. x

    Comment by Shadeylady | November 1, 2011 | Reply

  115. hi can any lady tell me about wilsonscottbrown i have read things on this site about him as he asked me for his flight money to England wanted to spend 4 months here with me really thought it was dodgy and ask him if he was a scammer he denied this to me and say it is all lies. he say the taliban using his id which i dont believe. i went bak on line and he keep getting in touch with me say please babe believe me i am a honest soldier and once i get to England we will prove to people i am not a scammer . still asking me for money for flight. Also states this is hurting him so much it breaking his heart and he cant stop crying. He states i the only girl he wants to be with, I really dont know what to think so can anybody give me some advice please before i make a big mistake. i am a single mum and really dont want to send him money if he is a scammer. please get in touch and let me know thank you

    Comment by jackie | November 2, 2011 | Reply

    • Never ever send the money to him. My friend was so badly tricked by a similar person.
      All these scammers are very sweet and are proffesional at telling lies.
      My fiend also got the sweetest letters ever.
      In fact all alrmy people can leave the place for free and the army never sends personal letters.Only sad that neither my friend nor me knew about it in advance.

      Comment by Lisa | November 3, 2011 | Reply

      • thank you for that information i also got another soldier want my passport id licence number and other details when i ask why he say needs them to give to army to let them no i his spouse and i feel this is false

        Comment by jackie | November 4, 2011

    • Jackie;
      The Golden Rule to chatting and using on line dating sites is just common sense really. Any man who asks you for money really has no moral fibre. They would understand that you cannot possibly send money to someone you have never met, and should not make you feel bad for not doing so. Always remember until you meet the man face to face it is a virtual relationship nothing but in person is for real. Do not feel bad about refusing financial help because if the man cares for you he will understand and should nevr asked you in the begining. Take care and please do not fall victim to these opportunists.

      Comment by Shadeylady | December 11, 2011 | Reply

  116. Hi,

    I am writing to all single women wishing to date to warn you from a ‘widowed’ American soldier Donald Muel stationed in Afganistan..My friend was badly scammed by this person.He pretended to be seriously interested in her, his promises were outstanding.The only ‘problem’ was lack of money to leave the army.As soon as got it, he quickly disappeared.These people do not care about anyone or anything.
    Must say that his profile is on Facebook too. It is completely fake so be aware of this person, mind the trap.

    Comment by Lisa | November 3, 2011 | Reply

  117. Hi All;
    Just thought I would share some good news with you all and someone else to watch for.
    First, I must congratulate Interpol for apprehending a well known and prolific scammer by the name of Alex Carter. I was contacted by Interpol about Alex and was told he was now in custody, and was arrested in Nigeria. I had to reply tot he email informing them that the Alex Carter I am in contact with is very much still at large and there fore cannot be the same one they had contacted me about. I had checked the telephone number Alex Carter had phoned from and it was most definitely not a Nigerian number, he was phoning from Ghana, which is where he said he was.
    The other thing I want to share with you is please take care and watch out for sgt David Royce. Again I was asked to take out a satellite telephone connection Blah Blah Blah! Sgt David Skyler using msn, a Jack Grift and a David 5564 using yahoo. Take care ladies these men think we are stupid.

    Comment by Shadeylady | November 6, 2011 | Reply

  118. However, I think that such scammers are very difficult to be caught.And the pictures they dispay can be photoshopped and their real names can be hidden.

    Comment by Lisa | November 6, 2011 | Reply

  119. Another one to look out for ladies – Sgt. Major Bradley Lake serving in Kabul, Afghanistan. Divorced, one son boarding in Birmingham, UK. I only messaged him for 3 days before I began to smell a rat. Trouble is I still want to know who the photo belongs to because he does seem to be off a dating website. Guess I’ll never know. Always listen to your gut feeling and if it seems to be good to be true then it generally is. I did wonder how servicemen could so easily email, Skype and text without any security worries. Remember – they’re the one with the problem not you.

    Comment by Anne | November 25, 2011 | Reply

  120. I think I have another name for you to watch out for…john lighthouse edwards or capt.lighthouse@yahoo.com…seemed like a very nice man from texas that had a daughter and was deployed in iraq. We emailed back and forth for a few months and he would just disappear for days and then come back with an I miss you, its been very hard here with the things going on and we captured some terrorists. He also told me he trained in camp pendleton and it was in SC well it is in CA. He never asked for money or said anything about any of that. His letters contained many love poems and quotes that when i searched for them were found on internet sites. I am sure I will get an email back from him soon saying he missed me and was busy. He seems like the classic scammer as the others listed on this site. Sad, I really was beginning to like him alot.
    Deb

    Comment by deb | December 2, 2011 | Reply

  121. Beware of ‘American soldier’ scam – Internet Dating…

    Comment by Anna Siagian | December 6, 2011 | Reply

  122. Hello Ladies,My name is Norma,I’m 51..off of fb and yahoo.He got me off a dating site.I fell in love with this man for real,He goes by the name Ewin Collas, army guy,sexy as hell.I’ve been talking to him since July.Now he wants me to send him 400.00 for his internet.Sound strange(not)<so I'm playing him,making him think I"m going to send it then make up some reason why I can't.He's going by the name Edwin Collas,has many one head of him?

    Comment by edwincollas@yahoo.com | December 11, 2011 | Reply

  123. Anna please just leave the man alone. The profile picture you are seeing is not the man you are chatting to. They steal identities from poor unsuspecting male profiles. I haven`t heard the name but the 400.00 he has requested would see him disappear or ask you for more. Please don`t mess around with men because no matter how much you tell yourself you are playing them, it still goes in deep and hurts when it ends.

    Comment by Shadeylady | December 11, 2011 | Reply

    • Thank,There’s a guy thy is real that has ask me out,I think I’ll take him up on it.When I told him that he was scamming me he said the samethings the other lady’s on here are saying.You know when they say these thing you know its bull,but they pull you in fast before you know whats happened.Thank you again.

      Comment by edwincollas@yahoo.com | December 11, 2011 | Reply

  124. They have a knack of telling you what they know you want to hear. Always remember, as I have taught myself to realise, that any on line relationship is only virtual until you come face to face. Always go for someone accessible. Long distance is either never real or it can never work. after all if you come from different countries, whose going to relocate?

    Comment by Shadeylady | December 17, 2011 | Reply

  125. Here’s a update..I told him not about the money now here don’t email no more. But something strange is going on…there’s a new email address jsong68@yahoo.com that comes up when he’s online. This guy had emailed me once and nothing till now..I think these two are working together. Has anyone found out the guy’s name from the soldiers picture that say’s Dunn..his in the army?

    Comment by Norma | December 17, 2011 | Reply

  126. Hello Ladies, got something for yal, the Edwin Collas is a woman…I couldn’t leave it along until I knew who this was.She’s has gotting his pictures and information and is using it. Here’s how you can find out..go to your emails and go to compose message..when the box comes up put in just the name. I’m still trying to get a hold of him, he wasn’t the one on the dating service it was jsong68. So these two are probably working together.

    Comment by Norma | December 20, 2011 | Reply

  127. Organised scamming is done by groups of people. Have you ever had the feeling when you read email or chat by instant messenger/chatrooms that you are talking to someone different at times? That`s because you are!!!! one of mine kept changing the way he said things and then couldn`t remember the name of his own daughters. Don`t be blind ladies, these men are criminals and no decent man would ever ask someone they have never met for money. They use many email addresses.

    Comment by Shadeylady | December 21, 2011 | Reply

  128. Ladies, have any of you heard of a Gentlekevinssmile or Henri Esposito? OR maybe even a John Butterish?
    These names are linked to one person who you asked to transfer to. Valerie Spencer of 38 Oak Hill Road, Barton, New York. Please send this man nothing. Valerie is a real person whom either doesn`t know what she is involved with, thinks she is working for someone and deducting wages from the cash, or is a case of stolen identity. Please do not fall for this one. John Butterish claims to be Malaysian, Henri Esposito claims to be originally from Baltimore now living in New York. Take care this man is very intelligent.

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 10, 2012 | Reply

  129. Just to add more detail to the post I hastily added earlier regarding Henri Esposito. This man uses an agent to collect Western Union Payments. Valerie Spencer of 38 Oak Hill Road, Barton, New York 13734. This woman does exist and is registered as living at this address but traces on her phone number have proved that it is no longer used. Valerie is also connected with the following names: Captain Kevin Smith,(gentlekevinsmiles@yahoo.com, John Kelvin, John Butterish,(johnbutterish@yahoo.com) believed to be another Henri Esposito(espositohen62@yahoo.com) alias. Esposito uses a UK mobile number 07432267161. armyman2011@yahoo.com and kevinangell24@yahoo.com please have nothing to do with these people. You can find further information at scamwarners website. Having exposed Henri Esposito I have since experienced email containing a receipt for a Western Union money transfer which contained a virus from iceburg133002@yahoo.com

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 10, 2012 | Reply

    • I also google an address I was given..of where my person lived.. guess what.. ummmm no one lived there.. the house was up for sale.. phone no.. oh they smart..I had one try to call me.. on my cell.. I didn’t tell him cell was only for texting.. so then later i tried calling the no.. no such number.. came from computor!!.. lots of little tricks to watch for..Just never send any money under any heart breaking cirucmstances..

      Comment by Debbra | October 18, 2012 | Reply

  130. Just an Update on the Henri Esposito thing. he had the audacity to tell me his pictures were being used to scam an he is the real Henri. My senses tell me for all his claims that he has been to the necessary authorities to report this nothing has happened. I asked this man to sue me if I am spreading lies. This also a case of money laundering. Do not accept deposits into your bank account from this man or anyone connected to him. You could be hiding his dirty money and it will bring you legal trouble.

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 13, 2012 | Reply

    • Hi girls i am talking to a guy that says the sane thig to me he goes by John Sam Cook now and it is probley the same guy we have all been talking to . i just got done tallking to him and i have told him he was a scamer and he keep on talking to me so maybe this time he will be the one beeing played. lol

      Comment by missy cox | January 15, 2012 | Reply

  131. Best advice was given to me by an administrator oF scamwarners website. cut all contact, block his/her email and instant messages and move on. Do not get involved with money deposits into your account at any cost. If the money deposited is paid by cheque and that cheque bounces (made of rubber) then you are liable for all charges. DO NOT DO THIS!!!!
    If it was paid to you by another victim of this persons scams then it only takes the depositor to make a claim of fraud against you and I`m afraid you are implicated as being part of that scam. DO NOT DO THIS!!!!!

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 16, 2012 | Reply

    • Oh you dont have to worry about that because i have not sent any money to him he has asked for my address but would not give it to him . and i have noticed that when i was talking to him that my norton has been blocking him from getting my info off my computer . i have blocked him after i got to doing some diging around on the computer and seen all the post on this guy because the pics he sent me are the ones that have been posted else where. and thank you for your reply.

      Comment by missy cox | January 16, 2012 | Reply

  132. Missy Please be careful of these people. Their purpose is to sell you a dream, but then they want you to ether pay for dream or help them in order to pay for it. It`s difficult to know who is genuine and for that reason I will now stick to the rule that if any man asks me for financial help or asks me to transfer their dirty cash via western union or moneygram the answer must always be no. Strange that you say Norton blocked and intrusion attack on your computer. I have never known Henri, John or whoever he is to try that. Just watch for the signs because there always seem to be a pattern. They always have some sob story to tell. Either they`re divorced, widowed but all always seem to be sole parents of young children. If they tell you they are working away, or traveling away for any reason then the alarm bells must start ringing. I have learned this the hard way. Good luck.

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 18, 2012 | Reply

  133. Thank you Shadylady , and yes he is giving me the story of his daughter 10, is stuck in Nigera and needs me to wire money western union. and the reason norton picked up and blocked is because he has a virus on his computer. and he told me he was in Kubaul and sent me his passport and all that stuff . but my brother in law is in the army and i took the stuff to him and he done a check on everything and its all fake . so i stoped talking to him . And thank you for you advice . Missy

    Comment by missy cox | January 18, 2012 | Reply

    • Just an update on the Henri Esposito scammer. He has changed his email according to a friend of mine. M.henrie62@yahoo.com avoid him at all costs. He sounds so intelligent but is a scam of the worst kind.

      Comment by Shadeylady | February 3, 2012 | Reply

      • Another piece of information regarding the scammer I know as Henri Esposito. He is using another alias at the moment John Kelvin. Please note that this man has a profile on facebook by the name of John Kelvin Mark. he only has one friend at the moment whom I have contacted to warn about him. Have also reported him to Facebook Admin with information on where they can look for details about him to check my claim is true. He has sent email to a friend also using yet another profile picture of the same man, but one I have never seen before.

        Comment by Shadeylady | February 6, 2012

      • Hi Shadeylady, well John S.Cook is still trying to talk to me i have blocked him but he is getting around it some how . My brother in law told me to ask him for a copy of his dog tags because all military personal will have them on there person at all times . When i asked him for them his response was i dont like dogs so why would i have dog tags . (I responed with because if something happend to you they would shove them in between your teeth so you could be idinfide .) and his response to that was oh you mean my chain tags i said well in the U S we call them dog tags lol. he kepps telling me his daughter is stuck in nigera wth no money and needs me to help her get home . told him i was not going to send any money so stop asking. i have not heard from him in 3 days now . i have turned all the info over to my brother in law and he told me he could find out just who’s info these guys are using . and i also have a IP address thats from nigera from when he had his daughter email me and my brother in law ran it and come up wth where they are working from so hope this will help everyone .oh one more thing his email add is souljohn501@yahoo.com

        Comment by Missy Cox | February 7, 2012

    • Kabul? Load od Bull Missy just block him and stop contact. Take care. x

      Comment by Shadeylady | February 13, 2012 | Reply

  134. Got another name for you girls. Watch out for a johnsonsmith1932@yahoo.com I was chatting tot his one last night and he told me he was a engineering contractor. Really? then why does his profile have a bald man wearing a pilots unform? I told him I have been in contact with Nierian scammers before. He replied he would ask Lawyer to get any money back I had lost and if but it there would be a small amount of money to pay. I told him I would rather forget I had been so stupid but would make sure I didn`t get into financial dealings with men on line again. He has changed his name and profile on netlog since then and is now saying he comes from West Yorkshire I forgot the name he is using now but will alert you when I find it again. Just for now be careful he too full on too soon and nobody genuine can say that he is now your partner after two conversations as this guy this does. Take care ladies. x

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 24, 2012 | Reply

  135. johnsonsmith1932@yahoo.com yet another Yahoo boy. He is now saying he is from West Yorkshire in the UK which is where I told him I was and now using the name Leslie on twoo be careful girls.

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 24, 2012 | Reply

  136. I live in New Jersey. I was contacted by a SGT. RALPH EDWARDS, AGE 50. RETIRED AND CLAIMS TO LIVE IN COLORADO.
    HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS CAPT.EDWARDS61@YAHOO.COM ( that is capt dot edwards61@yahoo.com)
    Claims he lives Colorado. Has his own business in palm and crude oil. Has one son named Joshua.
    PLEASE REPUY IF THIS LINE SOUNDS FAMILIAR

    Comment by Bernardine Bedell | January 25, 2012 | Reply

  137. Just to add more about Johnsonsmith1932@yahoo.com this man also uses a dating site called Love intellects avoid him he is definitely a scammer. Also watch out for edwingnobile@yahoo.com also using the name Michael another scammer girls!

    Comment by Shadeylady | January 25, 2012 | Reply

  138. Edwin nobile Nobile of yahoo insists it costs £3000 for leave from the army. Of course it does, (not!) Peace keeping mission he says to Aghanistan. I said really why are you not using a .mil account? You`ll be askingme to pay for a satellite phone connection next by Western Union I suppose? He logged out. HaHa.

    Comment by Shadeylady | February 4, 2012 | Reply

  139. hi i just wondered if anyone had heard from an owen matt stevens?

    Comment by tammy | February 14, 2012 | Reply

  140. Hey ladies, I thank these scammers are using our photes and information just like use they have with the soldiers stuff. I was checking on my email status cause a friend of mine(male) ask me if I had emailed him the night before. I told him I hadn’t, so when I checked it had came from my email address but from a cell phone, I don’t have a cell phone (from UK), I don’t live there either. I have stopped all dating services and changed all my passwords. And if I don’t know you, you want get on my page. I don;t want someone using my information to hurt anyone the way they have hurt us. Thank you ladies and becareful.

    Comment by normaelledge | February 14, 2012 | Reply

  141. I am enquiring on how to trace the names if we get suspiciouse mineis captdonmeul@yahoo.com and its excactly like the others widow 2 girls wants to move here im his soul mate etc but needs my help to get here asking for money no I haven’t handed a penny over staioned at afganistan sounds desparate anyone else one a cross him pleases let me know

    Comment by morigan ross | February 18, 2012 | Reply

    • You can learn alot by entering the email address in Google.

      Comment by db | February 18, 2012 | Reply

  142. Ladies and Gents. If you think you have a scammer and want to find out if the profile pictures are stolen from someone try the website called tin eye they save thousands of pics scammers use regularly, If the picture you download matches anything they have ont heir data base it will let you know.

    Comment by Shadeylady | February 20, 2012 | Reply

    • thank you for a responses Its been enlightning what really bugs me is there are actually real men and women who would rather be at home with loved ones. I can see several things happening, 1 whenits all over these poor darlings are going to get sued for money they didnt get some may get criminal charges laid on total innocents, Servicemen whom have been through deep immensed trama are going to be ruined through battle fatigue are never the same then to have their IDs stolen and use my god that could be the last straw for many. I shudder to think, I am proud to say I am a Army sargents daughter,grand daughter,and foster sister two 9 wonderful service men so while I may not know alot on army protocal I know enough to smell a RAT, Luckily for me even if I did call the old man a few names I did a orio intation course through the local army cadets hated to admit ILOVED it I am so greatfull to my adopt parents for giving me that chance I saw through it, I feel for the women and men whom have been used.To us the scambusters how disgusting most of us are looking for real love this doesnt look good for it dont get disheartened please think of it as a strengthning step in confirming our own values with in love and marriage. we know what we want and lets not let rotten eggs like this take that dream away. without the dream we dont have a chance to make it real that means they won. I reckon something should be done to trace them how do we know the money isnt being use to harm our troops. so we owe it to them to be dilligent in screening these so called romeo’s and not think ourselves to be stupid or worse to take advantage of our need for love thats stupid cruel and a sin against every god we can worshipp so people I say we are the stronge ones the smartones because we know better than to do this nonsense or tolerated it that means our morals and values people are great. Lets support our service men and women by stamping this out not by punishing ourselves, The pain from the comments of our experiences lets use it to combat the damage its done. and if you ever get to meet one open the biggest bottle of champagne and celebrate for all of us

      Comment by morigan ross | February 20, 2012 | Reply

  143. ladies here is another name DAVID COWEN /DAVID H COWEN
    a Staff Sergeant serving in afghanistan sweet words total rat didnt lose any money not for want of his trying lost time just a reminder how gullibale i am please be careful when entering a conversation with this man

    Comment by justanotherloser | February 29, 2012 | Reply

  144. Anyone reading these blogs know anything about a Captain Marthin Burnett? He works for a marine company, is 43 years old and is based in London. He has profiles at Netlog, WAYN (Where are you now) and facebook. I have also traced a Marthin Burnett who is the same age from Lagos in Nigeria.
    I hate the name of that country and want nothing to do with military men,or anyone saying they are there for any reason, but this one is not claiming to be one and openly admits to being a Nigerian National. Are they one and the same? Is this man so stupid he has two profiles on the same network? Is it me being overly suspicious, or have I just lost my faith in finding a genuine partner on line?

    Comment by Shadeylady | March 2, 2012 | Reply

    • This Captain Marthin Burnett is real smooth. Last two days have had more contact with him via yahoo instant messenger. Allowed me access to his webcam. White causian male, early to mid fortys, doesn`t look anything like the photos I have had sent to me, stocky build short dark brown hair, brown eyes. A son call3d Jerry with Nanny in states but coming to the UK soon when Nanny hears from whether placement in a school here has been accepted. Non Military I might add. Works for a marine company and is currently at sea. I am confused by this one because scammers usually have some excuse not to allow access to webcam

      Comment by Shadeylady | March 11, 2012 | Reply

      • Hi.you may want to read some posts here. some of these scammers have collaborators who are not african by origin.

        Comment by alanprince | March 13, 2012

    • shadey,be careful.there are no US forces serving in Nigeria.maybe you should try to run an IP check on his emails.

      Comment by alanprince | March 13, 2012 | Reply

      • With regards to my post about Marthin Burnett. He is saying he works for the Atlantic Marine Company as a Captain of a ship. He isn`t saying he is in Nigeria. Just the fact he allowed me to see him on webcam shocked me because most scammers do not do that. I don`t how else I can verify he is genuine. I just go on my instinctt hat if if something seems to too good to be true, then it generally is. I would have believed all said but with caution if it hadn`t of been for him asking me to search for house where I live up to £350,000GBP. That made me realise this is sounding fake.

        Comment by Shadeylady | March 14, 2012

      • Just to add a little more about this Captain Marthin Burnett. He has been logging into Yahooinstant messenger but has remained on idle. He sent email today telling me he has had problems.”You cannot begin to know whathas happened to my ship and crew but please do not relay this new to my son when I give you number to call him as I do not want him worried.” Yes okay I am thinking. This is where he tells me some story and requests my my financial assistance. I`m waiting for him to ask but he will get no where because I shall just block and delete him from my contacts. Watch this space for conclusion.

        Comment by Shadeylady | March 16, 2012

  145. ladies im starting to think i attract them lol markseek48@yahoo.com micheal is on justparent dating site dad from uk
    mum colorado he is deployed in afghanistan working as a army agent lol i have reported him
    also have a seymour_scot@yahoo.com deployment in afghanistan but only for 6mths with the 170th division US NATO no less not sure about this one deffo on the other anyone else come across these ta

    Comment by Trudie | March 4, 2012 | Reply

  146. Oh…the stories…they are all alike regarding The Ts2 $450 to get telephone service because, “he just has to hear your voice” to the divorced or dead spouse and a child back at home living with a nanny. The scammers are definately professionals and care nothing of hurting inocent women who are actually caring compassionate women. The last straw for me was when I was asked to send $7440 for a transit fee….I mean come on. I already had an inkling something wasn’t right because of the “if it seems to good to be true..it probably is”. I’ve not met any men as good as this particular guy came across being. I also checked the airline flight schedule the supposed General sent me by calling the airline and they had no record of this CAPTAIN DREW THOMAS. I expect all names are ficticious. Fortunatley my loss was minimal and I can not believe people in this world are such heathens, liers, deceitful, etc.

    Comment by C Taylor | March 4, 2012 | Reply

  147. Look out for a guy going by the name Jason Harrington. He has used real pic’s and info from the real Jason and opened a facebook account. I started talking to him a month ago he is very smooth. I am ashamed to say I fell hard for him. He is supposed to be in the Army in Kandahar. He finally asked me for 400.00 and gave me a address which was in Lagos,Nigeria. I had gotten a bad feeling when i looked up the cell number and it was Nigeria. He said he was on a secret mission and needed money for food and soap. He also has a supposed daughter in Washington,DC who was texting me. I only lost 50.00 in phone calls but i feel so violated. Shame on him.

    Comment by Vicki Kingery | March 8, 2012 | Reply

    • Do you have a pic available?

      Comment by behindtheyellowtape | June 28, 2013 | Reply

    • Of this person you refer to that is lol. I would like to compare to photos I have. If a match ill let you know. Although just so I’m clear is it that the person with that name did this or this named person is a confirmed ID theft victim themselves?

      Comment by behindtheyellowtape | June 28, 2013 | Reply

  148. I wish i had visited this site late last year when this is all started happening to me.I he made me feel so good and saying he loved me and would be for the rest of my live.. Im ashamed as well as i fell for all this as well how stupid i was plus then he started asking for money and i felt for it but it when through his general by the name of General John McGuiness by email gen.john.mcg.us@gmal.com Talking to a andygibbs89@hotmail.com But we are still talking at the moment but asking for more money so he can leave camp.

    Comment by fiona | March 14, 2012 | Reply

  149. Hello there,
    I am wondring if anyone here has had any contact with a person who claims he was in the US army. A sargeant with the marines. At the time he emailed me he said he was in Kabul. The dating site is match.com or 1match.com. He went by the name SGT sanchez peter anderson. 42 yrs. A widower with a teenage daughter Kate. Anything that can happen has happened to him..We were in contact for almost 3 years..once the money ran out he disappeared. I have copies of all paperwork for money sent, I have all his emails, including photos but I don’t think it’s him. I believe this scammer is in Canada with connections in the States and in Nigeria. I have done some snooping around and have found some other names that he has gone by. Other name I believe he has gone by is Richard Muggy, with a daughter Lynn. If anyone out there has info to share maybe we could join forces and catch some of these creeps.

    Comment by Rosie | March 14, 2012 | Reply

  150. “Hey, thanks for the post post.Truly thank you! Want more.”

    Comment by Jamison Centers | March 24, 2012 | Reply

  151. hi all well here we go again been speaking to a john off uniform dating who is in america in the importing of coal well we got on a lot i have to say but today he has asked me to lend him
    6,000 dollars when i told him i had no money he got very angry and abusive i did wonder about this guy and would be thankful if anyone can shed some light his email is re_castro40@yahoo.com his profile doesnt show much just the name raul when i asked him about this he wouldnt ans so that says it all look forward to hearing from you xx and hey lets stay safe out there xx

    Comment by tj | March 25, 2012 | Reply

  152. just to add on last post John/Raul has yahoo messager and does go on webcam he sortof looks like the pic he has on messager but question the one on uniform dating he needs the 6,000 to complete a deal worth 400k lol yer im smelling a rat are you he is sweet charming and apperently was in the army but now importing coal in usa HOWEVER he did say he was british baby through n through that hooked me glad im still warey lol good luck ladies pls feel free to email me with any info i would love to break one of these scammers xxxxxx

    Comment by tj | March 25, 2012 | Reply

  153. I have a question pertaining to this crap of scammers. I have written police and let them know that I have receipts for monies sent, addresses and names…noone has ever contacted me. If this is a Nigerian scam – then someone should know something to help put some of these slimey sluggs behind bars. Almost 3 years of talking to this Sargeant where it has cost almost $40000.00 now when I think about it. 17000.00 went to people in the states, some thousands went to a yahoo in Nigeria, and almost $10,000.00 into English pounds to Zoe Poland in Scotland. not to mention SO CALLED gifts he wanted for his friends that served with him.
    His excuse for not coming to Canada even though he wanted to be with me, his paperwork is delayed, his daughter is sick with limes decease, the nanny abandoned his daughter, his “friend” is black mailing him and he needs more money, his dad was sick, his daughter was sick, his dad got sick again, he was in a car accident and now in hospital, his dad died, his daughter got busted, his daughter was in drug rehab, he is sick and crippled, and so on and on…

    Bottom line is, the minute someone asks about your job and your bank account – tell him to take a long walk on a short plank…

    Comment by Rosie | March 27, 2012 | Reply

    • I have had several fake email from Interpol asking me about men I have been in contact with. These on line scams are out the duresdiction of your local Police and Interpol would not contact you in such a way, all Military should be able to phone you without you spending any money. They can also email from .Mil accounts that are legitmate emails not from mobile phones or yahoo, gmail or where ever. I stick to one rule now no military, and any others I am careful of now. Just had one called Csey Williams asking me to send him white t-shirts, boxers and a contract phone. He didn`t tell me he was military because my profile states I will not entertain them. You do not pay for anyone tot ake leave from the army, also they get paid for serving so why would they need our help financially?

      Comment by Shadeylady | April 13, 2012 | Reply

  154. With regard to my posts about Captain Marthin Burnett. I found out this very definitely a scam. He tells you he has some box or parcel he wants you to take posession of for him and then tells you it contains money and personal documents. You are then contacted by someone who attaches a certficate stating you are the beneficiary of this delivery and they want photo proff of who you are. Avoid contact with this man and a Fay Richardson from mycargo@asia.com all of it a scam. You will be charged for something that does not exist. I asked advice from a contact of mine at scamwarners so avoided this mess.

    Comment by Shadeylady | March 29, 2012 | Reply

    • Ladies the email addresses you need to watch for are marthinburnett54@yahoo.com and also marthinb5400@live.co.uk he does not work for the company he says, they don`t know him. He has a profiles on facebook, twoo dating website, and also WAYN other wise known as Where Are You Now. Be careful. I have recently received a fake email from Interpol telling me they have arrested a woman carrying a box through customs containing large amount of money they have have been told is mine. Rubbish! Interpol will not contact you via a gmail address if they contact you by email at all. He has two known associates a Kay Richardson who cannot spell or use correct phrases and someone posing as a Redcross Agent who treated him and his crew for minor injuries after an incident at sea. All of it is a lie!!!

      Comment by Shadeylady | March 30, 2012 | Reply

    • Well ladies, the story about Captain Marthin Burnett has reached it`s end. FAKE! FAKE! FAKE!
      The photos I was seeing and the man Iknew and always thought of as Marthin Burnett turn out to be some poor guy called Larry Lane from USA. Poor guy had no idea his photos had been stolen to use in this manner. Do not accept anything whether it be money sent you, don`t you send money to them and do not take responsibility for packages sent to you. These people are becoming bolder every day and finding new ways to try steal from us.

      Comment by Shadeylady | March 31, 2012 | Reply

      • Final piece of the puzzle about Captain Marthin Burnett. He has stolen all the photos he is using from a man called Larry Lane also on facebook. If you use social networks and store photos there, please set your security high so no one can access your page fully without your permission.

        Comment by Shadeylady | April 4, 2012

  155. got another one lol harry stenfield on uniform dating as sten goes straight to msn right
    charmer has a 10yr old boy could of played along but to be honest was bored lol so watch out
    for this one xxx

    Comment by tj | March 29, 2012 | Reply

    • Got a Sgt Cole Anderson at the moment who hasn`t asked me for anything but sounds and feels very much like an old scammer from way back by the name of Bradford Vancole. Beware because these scammers change email addresses and names like changing underwear.

      Comment by Shadeylady | April 13, 2012 | Reply

  156. I’m talking with a guy right now who i can’t find out any info on. But he is linked to another guy who i found in an army scam. He has tried to talk me into taking a package for him but i refused and he is still trying to get me to do it. i can’t afford to pay to get him checked out but i’ve googled him and couldn’t find any info on him. He’s using sgtalexcoleman@yahoo.com. His friends email addy is sgtlouissmith2011@yahoo.com. If anyone has any information could you please help me. I would appreciate it.

    Comment by mgillis61 | April 1, 2012 | Reply

  157. ladies a little help here please capt glen witt email address glennwitt@live.com met on uniform dating
    he is apperently in england on transit to kabul leaves sunday but assures me when he gets there he is
    requesting leave to come here so we can meet ermm did sugest we met b4 he went but was told not possible
    im not sure about this one at all got photo’s would love anyone that has any dealings to let me know ta
    and hey lets be careful out there in cyba world lol

    Comment by tj | April 4, 2012 | Reply

  158. ok well that didnt take long capt witt arrived in kabul on monday 9th lol and tues 10th he needs less than a thousand to come here oh yerrrr like so after a heated exchange of words bye bye capt witt ladies do be careful he is a charmer

    Comment by tj | April 11, 2012 | Reply

  159. hi my nane is nancy and i please can you help meam talking to a american soldier in afganistan his name is sgt bryanlee103@yahoo.com and he has asked me to send money over for his granny who has cancer and cant afford her med how can i find out if he is a scammer or not

    Comment by nancy storey | June 23, 2012 | Reply

    • Anyone who asks you for money at any time.. is a scammer.. I got took for 1,000.. do NOT do the same!…is he asks for money.. he is not an american soldier..

      Comment by Deb | June 24, 2012 | Reply

  160. anyone hear anything about a soldier in Kabul msgt_nickkurtis@yahoo.com using the name kurtis wilson he to asked for money for leave to come home and would put in for retirement when he was on leave. he said he has been in the army for 25 years.

    Comment by dawn | July 8, 2012 | Reply

    • the name is not familiar but the story is… the military guys dont need our money to get leave or to buy phone deals or anything else. please dont send him your money.

      Comment by db | July 8, 2012 | Reply

  161. please take of my boyfriends name from here he is not a scammer or never will be it was not me who put this on this site some one else did and i no who it is my partner is an honourble man and he is not a lier or anything else he is honest andcaring person iand i do not want his name all over if i have to i will take this matter further

    Comment by nancy storey | July 19, 2012 | Reply

    • So what is your boyfriend’s name?

      Comment by Vicki Kingery | July 20, 2012 | Reply

  162. Is anyone else talking to a Presscot Mike, sgt. in Kabul? Presscotmike@yahoo.com. He asked me for money but I told him I did’t want to pay for his love. He got mad at first and I thought I would never hear from him again, but he is talking to me and still telling me he loves me. I have fallen madly in love with this guy but I just don’t trust alot! how can i find out if he is real? And how can I get addresses of REAL soilders, that I can write to?

    Comment by Derenda | August 9, 2012 | Reply

    • hes regained your trust. now he’s really dangerous. dont give your money away to someone you haven’t met. I found out about my scammer when I did an internet search on his email address.

      Comment by db | August 9, 2012 | Reply

      • yea, I already told him I’m not going to send him any money, what I don’t understand is why he keeps talking to me, does he think I will break and send money? thats not going to happen. I hate pos’s that do crap like this. I let my guard down for this guy only to get hurt

        Comment by Derenda | August 9, 2012

  163. wow, I just got off line with him, he said he will marry me when he gets out. A while back he told me he had less than a yr. before he retires. This is so hard, I don’t know what to think right now. I did check his e-mail address on line and all I got was he is on 79 networks, I don’t know what that means. but it really doesn’t sound good. I want him to be for real because I’ve fallen so hard for him. I feel like looking for someone else, but what if he is who he says he is? UGH!!!!!!!!

    Comment by Derenda | August 9, 2012 | Reply

    • yep! thats what they do… propose marriage, you accept and then he will come up with a some tragic story and needs money. wish I had listened to someone.

      79 networks, wow, he really gets around the internet, doesn’t he?

      Comment by db | August 9, 2012 | Reply

      • I am so glad I found this page. No matter what “tragedy” he comes up with, he’s not getting a penny from me. Yea, I wasn’t sure about all the networks, am not to computer savvy. next time we talk I’m gonna comfront him about that. I’ll probably get the” babe, you don’t trust me like you said you did,and you don’t love me like you said you did” then I’ll get “I’m fed up” wont hear from him for 2days then he’ll be back on. I’m gonna move on and try to find a real man, again thanks for the support. Don’t be suprised if I’m back on here though, he’s got a hold on my heart.

        Comment by Derenda | August 9, 2012

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    Comment by Mickey Brea | August 12, 2012 | Reply

  165. Hello again, well after he promised he wouldn’t ask for money again, ge did. I cut off all communation with him, Thank God I never sent him a penny. So ladys no matter what they promise you, if they are asking you for money, they are false, and no good will come from it. You will get your heart broke and lose money. I’m glad I found this site. I didn’t want to believe it, but “MY Guy” was a poser . and I it makes me sick that they are using decent military men to decieve women. Hope and pray they get cought

    Comment by Derenda | August 12, 2012 | Reply

  166. What about Turkish males – long term contacts – do these people ever get a surprise when they are visited in their home towm by the target – are there genuine ones who do meet up ?? and it all works ??

    Comment by ed selby | August 14, 2012 | Reply

  167. Anything about someone named Paul Nacker? Please?

    Comment by Debbie | August 26, 2012 | Reply

    • Haven’t heard that name. But if you are being asked for money, HE’S LYING

      Comment by Derenda | August 26, 2012 | Reply

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  169. Hi there ladies. I am sharing this for hope that there is a suspicious lady out there cross referencing with other ladies. Captain Sage Angelino. angelinosage@yahoo.com He contacted me on christine cafe.com so please be aware. His story way he was widowed, him and his wife adopted a son before she died. He has been in us army for 20 years. is retiring and wants a lady his co-pilot he refers to spend his reminder years with. He claims he has a house in pottstown penssalvanya. The love and emotional chats he went on and on how much He loved me. He been alone for years he was glad he waited to find the right women. After 4 weeks of chatting he finally sends me an email indicating his house is up for foreclosure. I ask him how was he not aware there were missed payments. he claimed he had a tenant who was making regular payments. Told me the bank sent mails. If the soilder saids mails. its a common grammar mistake African people make. He told me he finally got a last warning via email. he asked me to lend him money as he had no access to his accounts ??? red flag went up. and wanted me to send him 2000,4000 to cover the mortagage payments and he when he arrived to me on Sept. 18 would pay me back. i asked to flip me th email from the bank. refused. but quickly send me a name of a close family friend i could send the money to in Texas usa. Rose Lindberd her name was. I ran his behind and shamed him for using his handsome identify of this Angleino. Really so sad becaue I really fell for this man. BUt things just did n ot add up so I kicked him to the curb. These scammers are clever. Be aware. Becuse I did serioulsy consider sending money via western union or moneygram. That is another sign too. He would not provide me his mortagae account so that i could send funds through my bank to his.Well thats because there was no mortgage.

    Comment by almost fooled | September 4, 2012 | Reply

    • Good for you. You did the right thing. your story is similar to mine but I sent the money.

      Comment by db | September 4, 2012 | Reply

  170. Rich Ramos, a.k.a. Aaron (saw it on MY SPACE): Rich Mond is a scammer.. I met him on Match.com. First he said I was his only love, he wanted to marry me, his parents were dead and he had no sibs. His wife cheated on him and he didn’t have kids. He said he needed this for money to help a friend to complete 3 hospitals in Kuwait, he’d already financed about ½ million $’s, although he’s Afghanistan. He wooed me for a week, and then we celebrated his 50th on 9/20. he asked me for money. I did NOT give him any money, but he really messed with my head and heart. He was big on God, and so when I briefly said I knew who he was, I mentioned that he probably wasn’t going to heaven because of this. LOL! I’m so GRATEFUL for sites like this and my friends and family, so I could verify him before falling any more deeply.

    Comment by Carlene Strangeways | September 21, 2012 | Reply

    • UPDATE: Even though I told him I found the IDENTICAL pic on My Space, that he said was “my babe” it was someone else. He kept hounding me. I signed up for LifeLock IMMEDIATELY. he sent me 17 long stem roses and candy to my work and home. I rejected them both!~ He text’d me all day, until I told him to “read your email, Aaron”. He quieted right down. PS I alerted Match.com that he was out there, too. If I hadn’t overlayed the two pics, I never would have known for CERTAIN that he is a scammer.

      Comment by Carlene Strangeways | September 22, 2012 | Reply

      • Hi ladies, wow, I haven’t been on here for awhile as I got rid of my scammer a long time ago. I wish they would all get caught. It still makes me very angry. I didn’t send any money but got my heart broken. SEND NO MONEY, No matter what they say. It is so sad to see so many women getting hurt just because they are looking for love and a good man. Fricking lieing B’s.

        Comment by Derenda | October 19, 2012

  171. Do not send any money to anyone for any kind of leave.. !! I got scammed and after that.. I searched a lot of stuff.. and found a legitimate site.. and reported my scam. this officer told me.. all soldiers are entitled to their leaves.. no one can put in special requests for their leaves except them.. and they have money to get in and out.. and in most cases.. their way is covered by the army itself..so don’t fall for any garabage on the internet.. no matter how real the romance seems to you.. if it is a real romance.. they will never never ever request any kind of money from you.. not for transportation for leave, not to help poor sick gramma.. or to help out my family or mom.. most of these scammers he says are out of africa..and if you are finding these guys on dating sites..the dating sites are loaded with them.. they single you out and want you to converse with them in private email.. and is usually yahoo.cause it now has messenger inside it..ask them to do msn.. they can’t..lol.. and I have had several bites since then.. so i let them lead me on.. or let them think they r leading me on..play with them..then they will tell you how disppointed they are in you .. cause you cannot help them.. they will do the guilt trip.. the whole nine yards.. BUT DO NOT SEND MONEY.. EVER!! ASK HIM WHAT TIME IT IS IN AFRICA!!

    the emails.. will speak in broken up english.. not perfect english like we speak.. eg. I like to get to better know you.. not I would like to get to know you better..
    I got my heart torn out..now I can pick them up a mile away!!
    good luck.. wish you the best.. but NEVER send money

    Mine was a gorgeous looking Sargent in Uniform.. They hack into army sites and differant palces, and steal the identities of differant soldiers with all kinds of personal information about them.. and pictures of them ro them with family.. read between the lines and be cautious.. my mistakes may be typo’s.. but they do not talk in a perfect sentence like we do..they will play the role well! Took me awhile to recover.. then i found out the kid was 21.. who tried dooping me.. broke my heart.. so we emailed back and forth and chatted for couple of months.. found out his mom was very ill and needed surgery.. $1600 he needed.. not in his money.. in canadian..then i got letter.. his mom was dieing and he was gonna loose her and could i please find it in my heart to save her for him..God they play with your heart..lol.. I told him i never wanted another email from him like that asking.. so he wrote back and told me how disappointed he was in me.. and have never heard back from him since..lol.. asshole scammers!!..lol they like to lead you on for couple of months or more..they need to get your emotions in there.. then they hit you!
    Be careful everyone..SEND NO MONEY! its all scams..

    Comment by Debbra | October 18, 2012 | Reply

  172. I have been scammed by some evil people
    from Ghana on about 45 000 US dollars! Is
    thee any chance to get some money back?Probably Yes!..
    They used FAcebook and I was a little naive
    at first but they guarnateed and promised
    me to get money sent to me, but it was
    only empty words!
    I have been to Ghana and the scmmers have been jailed.Consult officials about scam: ghanapolice.info / info.ghanapolice@consultant.com

    Comment by robert muller | October 23, 2012 | Reply

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  174. well i moved back to australia and thought thats the end but this scammer found me again even with different emailadress he came up as matt villers in tagged so ladies be careful there are many scammers now tagged and matt villers come as a seniorengineer from dubai but lives in wisconson he said he is trapped in africa and want to go home then the other story is his son has a terrible illness and is dying.

    Comment by ingeborg fischer dvorsky | November 7, 2012 | Reply

  175. I wanted to ask anyone heard the name of alex wills he is on facebook too and is staioned in iraq with the peace corps he said he is falling in love with me and want to come home i should write for his realise and pay 1400 dollars us as he said he cant ring me there is calling me a general called adinkrah and he sounds ghanaian or nigerian anyone heard of general allen thats where they money should be send im not sending money then my gut says is aa scam
    please let me knew you heared this names

    Comment by ingeborg fischer dvorsky | January 15, 2013 | Reply

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    Comment by therapeutic massage | January 22, 2013 | Reply

  177. Ingeborg Fischer.. DO NOT GIVE IT..THAT SOUNDS LIKE SAME GUY THAT GOT ME!!
    or it is someone else using same story.. or same guy changed or using many names..
    Anyone who is in the Military, put in for their own leaves.. and no one ever has to pay to get them out on Leave!! Its all a SCAM. No soilder in the USA army.. does this.. DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY TO ANYONE EVER!!!!

    same story, and he got me.. 😦 and I reported it.. but usually they canot trace these guys and most I was told are origination from Africa..somehow they are able to have the money sent to a person in usa.. i googled the address on the info.. and the address I was to send the money too.. google said it was a house and it was up for sale.. in a real estate..lol.. so that was not an official office of or for gov.’t.

    its all a scam.. sorry.. but been there, done that.. and I lost money.. then had someone from army call me.. and set me strait..:( and the Person.. General whom I thought that I had fallen in Love with.. his identity had been stolen.. so someone hacked into gov site.. copied Pictures from his profile.. pretened to be him..and so I sat, $1,000 lost.. thank god that was all.. Hard Lesson learned!! Never Give away your heart on the internet, unless you have actually met them!!.. Oh yeah.. and all these scammers are using yahoo email?? cause chat messenger is inside there now.. so they can chat to you and mess with your head and emotions.. ask them to use MSN messenger? None of them do .. cause it has to be downloaded…Hmmmmmmm

    Hang onto your money Ladies..!! we are Lonely, and they are ASSHOLES!!!

    Comment by DCooper | January 23, 2013 | Reply

  178. i just got hit on that by a guy call crowney matt 4500.00 now he need 3000.00 moreim not sending got me once
    but really in love with this other guy says hes a american solider he got me for 4500.00 now says he need 3300.00for his past port and medcial
    i think he might be a fraud how do i know whos reall and who is not

    Comment by kathleen sprague | February 18, 2013 | Reply

    • HE IS A FRAUD.. a Scammer! Do not give anyone any money… if you go back and look for posts by Debbra.. you will see what a Sgt. told me.. No American soldier will ever ask for money.. these asses are ALL FRAUDS!

      Comment by Debbra | February 19, 2013 | Reply

  179. I was on a Dating site, OURTIME.com and the men that were emailing me were across the other side of the United States. The first said he lost luggage and laptop and needed me to buy him a laptop, phone, and several other items. I coldly stopped emailing him and ended it quick. The second says he is a Sargent in the Army and he can’t find a woman who really loves him for who he is and not what he has. It has been less than a week IM ing him and now has ask me to buy him a iphone so he can call me, shirts for his men, books to read and a few other items. I led him to believe I was purchasing everything for him. When asked where to ship it he gave me a Diplomat.com address. I did not purchase anything and he is still on my line. I don’t know what to do next. He claims he was born on a certain date and then wrote me and told me another date. lol Come on, does he really think I am brainless! I told him no once and he made me feel very guilty for not doing it. I did a search on his name and showed up no matches. Is there a way to find out if there is a Solder by the name he gave me?

    Comment by Deborah Coldit | March 20, 2013 | Reply

    • don’t even think of going there , i have seen the results of their carnage, how they manipulate and eventually destroy tour self worth, block immediately

      Comment by seawolf612009seawolf | March 20, 2013 | Reply

      • Thank you so much for the info. I have looked into this for almost week. It is sad to think that we do have solders fighting for assholes like him

        Comment by Deborah Coldit | March 20, 2013

  180. once they have your details they keep coming back as different persons my ex started with a poor medical student, he lost his inheritance and was going to be kicked out of university, he was a christian of course, he scammed two lot’s of fees for university, only $400 dollars, next came heike duffy paulson commander of a group in afganastan, naturally he was in a position of power and had procured two boxes of us dollars which were stained by ink, he was giving her the boxes to buy their love nest in australia, all she had to do was supply the money to wash the money with chemicals,$20,000 dollars later still no boxes,while this scam was going on another ,popped up, a nurse who tended a ,critical wounded soldier,who died and his dying wish was to give his millions to someone with the same surname as his ”you guessed it same as my ex,” the second scammer told her to ignore this person, as they could not be trusted, he wasn’t impressed by another scammer moving in on his target, paulson used the photographs of a colonel procured from a military website in alaska, the scam still goes on and she is still paying… on the net you dont know who you are dealing with could be anyone BEWARE

    Comment by seawolf612009seawolf | March 22, 2013 | Reply

  181. to me that they have tried. they have occurred as Vanessa Burke of the U.S. Army. what have searched and found what was going on. Now I’m sure they are scammers.

    Comment by Jimmy | April 8, 2013 | Reply

  182. I have just tried to be scammed by someone claiming to be General John R Allen so when he asked me so get some boxes of his over to Australia, all I had to do was claim them by sending an email to ggoldcoastsecuritieslimited@yahoo.com with my name and id to have these boxes sent to me. I at first thought it was ok and it was not until they requested $5000 in Australian money for the demur-rage accumulated from storage that I realized I was being scammed. I continued to chat with this general and he told me it would be worth it and we could have a good life together that the boxes contained 6 million American dollars. I went on to google and looked for the general and found out it was a scam and so I deleted them off my Skype only to have this Mr Mark Peters start to harass me for the money. It started at $5000 and eventually got to $2500. I got a call that very night from someone claiming to be FBI an was investigating the general scam she called it and was told not to contact them and do not under any circumstances send any money to someone over seas. This was from Ghana. I also had many friends request from people claiming to be general and friends with this general john r Allen. I deleted and blocked them all but I have other friends whom I talk to and wonder if they are part of the same scam. How can I check them out??? can anyone help me on this.

    Comment by Irene Smith | May 9, 2013 | Reply

    • gold coast securities was the company also in the scam the two boxes contained $ 12,000,000 us dollars which had to be washed by chemicals …. mr seth quaynor was the head of the company …i contacted the company as they had a site in ghana [bad start nothing good comes out of there] they were going to look into the matter i believe the whole company is corrupt , you can look up seth quaynor on Google…….” complaint section for more info” yes the 12 million was going to buy the love nest, an orphanage etc

      Comment by seawolf612009seawolf | May 10, 2013 | Reply

  183. if you get a photo look it up on Google images .com the site will tell you where the photo was obtained, it will be on the net somewhere ,the scam that got my ex wife in for approx $40,000 i think it’s finished now , we gave her so much hard evidence that it was all lies but they always had a come back, i last commented in march 22 and the sum was approx $20,000 they are very good at what they do, they used a photo of a young girl supposedly the daughter of heike duffy paulson ,only thing wrong was they left the photographers name at the bottom, i checked on this through the net and lo and behold she was the daughter of a photographer in the united states , then the daughter became part of the scam, and started communicating with my ex asking her would she adopt her ,when her father came to Australia to marry my ex i think i may write a book on the whole scam. Regarding friends you meet on the net be very aware, take friendship on the net with a grain of salt incidently you make note of general allen in your comment ” duffy paulson told my ex to have nothing to do with him” so the scammers are trying to scam the scammers mark………if you don’t know them personally ,met face to face they could be anybody….BEWARE…. they are out there

    Comment by seawolf612009seawolf | May 10, 2013 | Reply

  184. Captain Jason Cannon has just asked me for money, to help his sister in California (who is widowed and not able to work) look after his two daughters ….as he lost his wife 5 yrs ago. I always thought the Military looked after their own – needless to say i declined.

    Comment by Sylvia Brown | May 19, 2013 | Reply

  185. I was recently befriended by a man claiming to be Martins Hillary, seemed nice never asked for money. I had just tried to be scammed by A person claiming to be General John R Allan whom I wrote about earlier and this man said he could help me. I got another soldier claiming to be Allen Ramos who seem genuine until he asked me for money. My son became concerned about this person “Martins Hillary” so he did some research and found out who the real Martins Hillary was. These so called b… have been setting up their little syndicate to get information and scam unsuspecting women. He seemed genuine did not ask for money but got the information to get others to try and trap any one who was lonely and looking for a man in their life. He even is on face book. They use real photos of other peoples families and are a real menace. I have educated myself as not to fall into the same trap. I have learned how to tell a scammer pretty quick. We all need to be alert and warn people of these scammers. They are becoming very clever but we need to be smarter than them. I will never give money to anyone who claims to be a soldier. They and their families are well looked after.

    Comment by Irene Smith | May 19, 2013 | Reply

  186. Irene good to see you asked your son’s advice, sometimes money is not a factor till they have built up a good relationship,might be over six month period, then they slowly bring in the trogan horse looks good and sound’s innocent enough .all the time they have your attention they are building a data base for themselves or the next scammer who knows more about you than your family does…. And Sylvia the military DO look after their own spread the word ”BEWARE” of scammers especially military based ones their grammar is a dead giveaway

    Comment by seawolf612009 | May 20, 2013 | Reply

  187. Eu estou no Brasil, estive em um site de relacionamentos, amizades e um tal Ryan Brinkman veio falar comigo. Como gostei da foto e não entrava muito no site, deixei meu endereço de email pessoal para contato.
    Confesso que me deixei levar pelo romantismo, e acreditei que ele realmente fosse um soldado americano no afeganistão.
    Me disse trabalhar no exercito americano a 12 anos.. que iria se aposentar.
    Em uma semana eu notei ele repetir que me amava, que queria vir para o Brasil, que pensava muito em mim. Pedi fotos, e não achei que fosse mentira.. risos
    Até ele me pedir para assinar sua licença.. como se fôssemos noivos e eu deveria pagar 3000 mil dolares e depois ele me reembolsaria.
    Me esquivei educadamente e ele AINDA teve a cara de pau de dizer que eu deveria acreditar no sentimentos das pessoas. Conversamos normalmente ontem e não satisfeita pesquisei no google com o nome do Lt. Col. Robert Gonzalez cheguei até vocês.
    Eu bem queria um homem lindo e americano, mas não sacana. Risos

    seu email -> ryan-brinkman1@hotmail.com

    e quem quiser fotos, só pedir.

    Comment by Karen Silva | June 1, 2013 | Reply

  188. FROM DESK OF LT COL ROBERT GONZALEZ
    LEAVE PERMIT PROCESSING DEPT.
    NEW YORK,UNITED STATE.

    Hello Madam,

    Get back to us with an answer either YES or NO and fill the attached file and send back to us for further processing. Hope to hear from you soon…Lt. Col. Robert Gonzalez

    > Date: Fri, 14 Jun 2013 19:28:46 -0700
    > From:
    > Subject: Leave
    > To: usarmyconsultant@hotmail.com
    >
    >
    > Dear Sir,
    > Request for leave for JOHNSON LANCELOT with rank E8
    > Thank you
    >
    > Kind regards,
    >

    Comment by Bea Avila | June 16, 2013 | Reply

  189. Buenas tardes, pot todo lo que acabo de leer, les comparto que he sido contactada por una persona que dice llamarse Sgt. Alvarez Johnson insignia A137bt, fuerza de la OTAN cumpliendo en Libia, estoy segura que es un estafador porque tiene el mismo modus operandi que relatan las personas en este sitio. Quiero advertirles sobre este nombre Sgt. Alvarez Johnson, también me envió fotografias de militares que parecen reales. Su correo electronico es alvarezjohnson70@hotmail.com. Es miembro en badoo así que estar alertas chicas. Si alguien puede proporcionarme información sobre como realizar una denuncia a la armada de los estados unidos, porque estos estafadores estan utilizando nombres reales de militares, documentos al parecer oficiales y esto es ilegal y se debe hacer una denucnia a la policia pero no sé dónde y cómo. Yo he intendado contactar en la página oficial de la armada de EEUU y no he obtenido respuesta. Quiero decirles que esto es serio alguien de la policia debe hacer algo para detener a estos estafadores que utilizan las redes sociales para obtener dinero de mujeres de todo el mundo.Tengo información que puede serle util a la policia. Si alguien sabe algo por favor ayudemonos a parar esto.

    Saludos.

    Comment by MARINA A.L. | July 22, 2013 | Reply

  190. I’m being scammed right now by a guy named Jason Jarrod Nieves, we’ve been talking for about a month now. First, two weeks we talked about our likes and what we wanted out of life. The most things a relationship with a man you talk about usually. Then after about a week he told me he loved me and I needed to send money to the Nigeria address that they use. I seen his pic right by the address. He gave me number to text him and Facebook,pictures of his sons and of himself in uniform. We’ve been texting for awhile now his mom and son are in Nigeria to be closer to him, he’s stationed in Kabul,Afghanistan. He’s told me be lost his wife of lung cancer and his so Elmo in a car crash. I want it to true so much,dont want to find out I’ve been scammed by him he’s a smooth talker,haven’t sent no money. The address he gave me was ill give it to u the address is the one by his pic of scamners from Nigeria: AYO WALE, country: Nigeria, State: Lagos, City: Ikeja, Zip Code: 23401, text question colour and text answer blue, he’s evev called me supposedly from Kabul and the phone code numbers are plus 2347082030236. He’s also sent me an address from here in the united states got that address to Kevin Savage that his mom gave him, city Zanesville, Ohio Zip 43701. Some sorta grandpa to his mother. All I want is who is this guy and if he’s for real or a phony. If he’s a phony I want him prosecuted badly. He also has on his Facebook page he lives in Jacksonville Mississippi, gone to college in st Louis college there I’ve got pics of his dad and him together a pic of him and of his sons. I never sent a y money I’m on a fixed income on SSI he’s asked how much I get a month and luke an idiot i told him. He wanted me to send 600dollars for his sons bday. To help get playstation 3, games, and a teddy bear. I told him I could send a care package over there for his bday. He told me it had to be money. He asked today if udsrnt the money I had in me which was only 15 dollars. He told me to go ahead and send it not to happy. I told him when he asked if I had sent it I said yeah said what’s the 10 digit numbers for confirmation I told him they didn’t give me one and he wanted to know what kind of game I was pulling I told him I never done anything like this before so be patient with me. I even got his moms email address its tiffanyalice@yahoo.com we’ve talked on there just today. I’m hoping it helps other woman out there and hope you tell the guy if he’s real that someone out there is using there name and possibly their family to get to us. He sent me pics from Haleymantee.sendnow. I’ve fallen hard for him to find out he could possibly be a scanner. That’s uncalled for were good woman and were looking for true love not ppl like them. Thank you for listening to me can you give me some advice on how to get rid of this guy. I want to know why also and I want him to know I’m coming for him. I feel so stupid and vulnerable cause of it. Playing with my emotions I dont like it. I’ve never given all of my info to a man in my life that why I feel vulnerable. Have any of these guys come over here looking for anyone who didn’t do what they did to them. I hope not but if so ill be waiting. He even asked where I lived at I only told him emporia ks that’s all. No number so he wont be able to find me I hope. Thanks again for letting me vent.

    Comment by virginia priest | September 26, 2013 | Reply

  191. please do not send any money. I have been in this same situation and they are very clever, they have people all over the place and if you check their face book you will find only a few contacts and usually women or should I say models of women and maybe some men. Most people have lots of friends and family on their face book and they try to tell you they have only just started an account. This is a lie face book has been around for too long for that. They are only interested in your money and will continue to try to scam you. I get at least two each month from Skype and I am seeing their patterns. Please do not allow them to control your life. I have not had any try to contact me once I expose them, even after giving my details.

    Comment by Irene Smith | September 26, 2013 | Reply

  192. First of all I would like to say fantastic blog! I
    had a quick question which I’d like to ask if you do
    not mind. I was interested to find out how you center yourself and clear your thoughts prior to writing.
    I’ve had difficulty clearing my thoughts in getting my ideas
    out. I do enjoy writing but it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes
    are lost just trying to figure out how to begin.
    Any suggestions or hints? Many thanks!

    Comment by mayra veronica mamma mia | September 26, 2013 | Reply

    • I focus on the positive and never even consider the negative. I look at what is truth and what is a lie and go from there. I don’t pretend to know it all and only go with what I know or have researched and usually by focusing on these things it flows from there. hope this helps.

      Comment by Irene Smith | September 27, 2013 | Reply

    • hi veronica.you may want to search online for more on this.an amateur like me can;t fully answer this.try a google search.cheers

      Comment by alanprince | October 31, 2013 | Reply

  193. To whom it.may concern: My name is Virginia Priest, I started talking.to a guy named Jason Jarrod Nieves. We started talking on July 15, 2013. For about a week it was friendly conversation as friends. Then it seemed about after a week he’d fallen in love with me and wanted to marry me. He also told me about his sons one named Elmo that died in a car accident and the youngest is named Kelvin he’s 7 years old. Told me his mom is 75 years old and she’s taking care of him over in Nigeria. Gave me the address to.send money for Kelvin’s bday. I’ve got all of the information. He’s in Kabul Afghanistan, he’s a warrant officer 3, not sure what that is. Met on Facebook he requested friends request. I dont normally do that I just delete it and go on, I dont know what prompted me to respond.but I did. We have been corresponding now. He’s asked for money I keep stalling him to see what happens. He’s asked me to marry.him and he changed his Facebook page to engaged. Im a very educated woman and I want to really know if.he’s for real or not. And if.he’s really using a real soldiers name cause if he is I’m going to be very very upset. I can recover from this used to it, even a deceased soldiers name too. I can’t find anything on him he even gave me the address of.what the scammers use to get money to them. I just want to know mainly if he’s a scammer or not. Dont know for sure conflicted about it all. I was told that we don’t have any soldiers in Kabul,Afghanistan at all. Would like to know just where our soldiers really are stationed over there. He’s even called me,too. Thank you for listening to me. Would like feed back on this so I can call him on it. And vo on with my life and build the wall back up again. Thought I might.of found someone to be in my life and have a relationship with long term. Dont need the bs in my life. Thanks again be waiting for.a response.

    Comment by virginia priest | October 13, 2013 | Reply

    • Hi Virginia, This Man is a Scammer, he is clever and deceitful and will try anything to convince you he is a real soldier. I have friends who were in the forces over in Afghanistan and Nigeria who tell me that these men and women have access to money and family and internet all the time so why do they need our money. Any soldier who asks you for money is (I repeat) A Scammer. Check their face book, do they have family, lots of family, friends lots of friends, have they only just joined face book. Most of their photos are taken from Images and photo shot to make them a little different. Their have been woman who have lost their lives responding to these Scammers. He is using a real soldiers name but it is not HIS. He shows all the signs of a Scammer. I have at least one a week try to contact me and now I know how to identify them quickly. Please block this man immediately he is not a real soldier. The men and women in our services do-not take their children to Afghanistan. I don’t know where you live, but I live in Australia and we have a very good dating site which is monitored to keep scammers off the sight. Please listen I have nearly been caught by these scammers and I know how hard it is but he is not real and only wants your money.

      Comment by Annie | October 13, 2013 | Reply

    • hi.virginia.i will try and send you a message here and on facebook if i can locate you.but my advice is that you try and read as many of the posts here as you can.you will get the information you so much need here.many people like you have been in the same shoes as you are presently.hope you find the help you need.

      Comment by alanprince | October 31, 2013 | Reply

  194. have anyone check the FB profiles, heard of the MONROY, go in and type the words MONROY TRIBE, MONROY US ARMY, MONROY ARMY and anything ending with the word Monroy. There are 63 FB Profiles with this name and same pictures. Also can be found at badoo, meet me and other dating sites. Please be careful if you are contacted by one of these Monroy.

    Comment by Esther Choo | October 14, 2013 | Reply

  195. How if the man from the USA Army we also can find him at FB and seems clear that many military colleagues are active on his profile and so many picts of facts in Afghanistan show the real job of his. Please tell me how things indicate he is a scammer or not? Thanks.

    Comment by Mujidah | November 20, 2013 | Reply

    • I had a scammer who also had a face book page and the one thing I noted was even though he had lots of friends he had NO family or close friends, they were all photos from the internet which you can look up on google images. Most people do not have professional photos only on their face book page and they also have such things as games or aps of different sorts. But the main thing is family and school friends. Most scammers pretend to be new users. I am sorry but face book has been around for a long time and only a few have not been on face book before. Please be careful as I also have friends in the US who were in the service and they are able to video Skype you at anytime of day or night their face book page is full of family and friends and they have lots of support from schools and churches and especially family. so be careful who you ad to your face book, as these scammers use it for their advantage to scam other unsuspecting person. Irene

      Comment by Irene Smith | November 22, 2013 | Reply

  196. Hi, I’m new to this, my name is Isabel, I just met this guy in match.com that claimed to be a soldier in Afghanistan and not knowing any better I felt for it, is been 2 weeks and things got too serious too fast and I suspected it was too good to be true. he didn’t ask for money yet but he did mentioned the same story about being released and not having access to his account so I was suspecious. my friends looked him up and sure thing, he had different names in other dating sites and there is a post here that I think is him too. so I confronted him with copied and pasted information from the other sites and of course he disapeared inmediately, is there a way for me to report this? can i do something about this to avoid others to go through this? His name with me was David Zerio with email davidzerio@yahoo.com but last year he was also using Mark Zerio with email zeriomark@yahoo.com

    Comment by Isabel Martin | November 22, 2013 | Reply

    • you can try to report, but since you didn’t lose money, it might not be taken seriously.maybe you should just try and help others out.

      Comment by alanprince | December 30, 2013 | Reply

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    Comment by シャネル ヴィンテージ | November 26, 2013 | Reply

  198. Hi my name is Christina Anderson, I too have been scammed by a person proclaiming to be a soldier in Afghanistan, his name is SGT George Paul Reynold he says he is from Texas, has a son called Daniel and is divorced from his wife who is called Debbie,his says he is based at Eggers camp in Kabul,I have sent money for a phone connection and also vocational leave, I have been talking to him for 3 months I have photos of him,can you help ?

    Comment by Christina Anderosn | February 7, 2014 | Reply

    • Hi Christina, Please stop sending your money to this man. He is a scammer and will take everything you have and leave you empty and hurt. I have a good friend who was based over seas and she tells me that all service men and women have full access to all communications to family and friends. Money is not an option and all leave is paid for by the military. They have access to their bank accounts and get paid well regularly. He will try to tell you his son is over there with him and he needs to get him out or he wants him to come visit. All a scam as if he was over there as a soldier he would not want his children any where near the place. They operate by a syndicate and have many women and men going at one time. An when you stop sending money they will try with a new name and it never ends. PLEASE listen to me before you get hurt badly. They are very good at convincing you it is real but people have lost their lives. Please listen and cut off all communication with them. love Irene

      Comment by Irene Smith | February 8, 2014 | Reply

      • Thank you Irene for your advice, I know now that is to late, I have stopped sending money and Im trying to cut him off, but he is a control freak, Ive had others trying to con me but Ive have learnt alot about these evil people ,and just report and delete them,why can’t something be done and arrested and charged the Military say its out of their jurisdiction but surely if they are stealing people’s identities that’s a offence.Im trying very hard to put my life together again, but it’s the embarrassment and demoralisation that’s the worst.

        Comment by Christina Anderosn | February 8, 2014

      • Do not feel embarrassed as it has happened to many and all we can do is warn others not to fall into the same trap. I get a lot a scammers trying to contact me and it would be good if the authorities would do something to stop them. One thing I have tried is playing them at their own game. I have asked them for money and they delete me pretty quick. I have also pretended to send them money so they go to the western union in their country and hopefully the authorities will get sick of them harassing them. I don’t know why no one is doing anything to stop them as it has ruined a lot of lives. like I said we can only warn others.

        Comment by Irene Smith | February 12, 2014

      • Yes Irene I tried him at his own game on the last request, I lied and told him Id sent it even made up a false number, and he told me he had got into trouble with the military, which we all know is bull.Where are you from Irene ?Strangely enough I had a email from a girl in England who had seen my photo on his timeline, and she asked me how well I knew him, he’d asked her for money, but she never sent any, I told her to block and report him as he was a scammer and to be careful as they were dangerous individuals, she came off the dating site also.It doesn’t heal a broken heart but it helps to talk to people who know what they are on about,why is it so difficult to get these bastards arrested ?

        Comment by Christina Anderosn | February 12, 2014

      • Hi Christina, I am from Australia. I have had some contact me on a dating site and I reported them and they were blocked immediately from contacting others. The big problem is they are some form of syndicate and that is all they do all the time, search the net looking for unsuspecting men and women who are lonely and vulnerable. I even had one contact me with his own profile thinking I would fall in love with him and help him. The government is so corrupt in their country it is hard to stop them. My son and daughter in-law have set me up on a site here for dating and if they are not able to meet me personally in my own state then they get deleted quickly as I now recognise the signs of a scammer. Anyone asking for money or goods is a scammer. I wish the authorities would take this seriously as some have even lost their lives. I don’t know what we can do other than keep warning people and support each other.

        Comment by Irene Smith | February 12, 2014

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      Comment by alanprince | February 25, 2014 | Reply

  200. Can anyone tell me if there are any American troops left in Camp Eggers, in Kabul?

    Comment by Christina Anderosn | April 28, 2014 | Reply

  201. Is anyone feeling angry there is President Obama and the English Goverment sending special agents to Nigeria to find this missing school girls, yes it’s a terrible vile act that has happened.But he has intervened why can’t he send people to find these scammers why can’t the legislation be lifted and stopped as the situation is getting owrse

    Comment by Christina Anderson | May 9, 2014 | Reply

    • Correction.Obama and the other world leaders did not send troops to Nigeria.They sent military assistance by way of information and technical personnel.Scams are a police matter and it would infringe on National sovereignty. However, if citizens of affected countries can put pressure on their governments, more action will be taken.

      Comment by alanprince | July 17, 2014 | Reply

      • well the consequence when all victims of scammers go together then there wouldnt be any western union bank more then that bank would be shut why we dont put a petition up on the net for the goverments

        Comment by Ingeborg Fischer | July 17, 2014

      • I think a petition will not achieve much. What seems to be working is when foreign police offices put pressure on Nigerian police officers. Only then are arrests made.

        Comment by alanprince | July 18, 2014

      • Well what a great idea Alan Im all for that 100% let’s go for it !!M

        Comment by Christina Anderson | July 18, 2014

      • ok.how can we get more people involved? The authorities really need lots of pressure before they act at all.if you read the storeis of arrests here,you will discover that it was via official police co-operation.with many voices speaking at the same time, there will be action.

        Comment by alanprince | July 18, 2014

      • Well how about a advert on here or maybe Facebook ?

        Comment by Christina Anderson | July 18, 2014

      • you can try both ways.I’ll run the ad here. how do you suggest going about it on facebook?

        Comment by alanprince | July 18, 2014

      • Suppose that could prove a bit awkward as a lot of the scammers use FB to contact perspective prey, Suppose we could try emailing the White House and see what they say ?

        Comment by Christina Anderson | July 18, 2014

      • FB is still an option.at least,some people will be drawn to the warnings.white house?don’t think that will work.

        Comment by alanprince | July 24, 2014

      • we contacted the military they acknowledged that it was occurring , their main way of combating the issue was to warn the general public regarding the scam’s , we also went to western union who after much pressure stopped her from sending money through them . The scammer’s had other options to follow to get the money to them. The old saying if it sound’s too good to be true it is..safety net ..ask for photos then.google image search them. also their grammar is a dead give away.Unfortunately the scammer in this case also got our family photos at his disposal…and these images will not appear on image search…they are getting smarter..god help us if they go to uni and get a good education and converse with good grammar…in my ex wife’s case the scam still goes on…she has become aware of the main scammer being a fraud but the lure of the 12 million still goes on

        Comment by seawolf612009 | July 21, 2014

      • Ladies please be careful of the name of denis tobin the email is denistobin@yahoo.com he ask you in thsecond day when you chat with him for money to pay the fee for a buildingcontract he said he is spanish but when you hear his voice he sounds african and he acts in writing like a african says he lives in sydney australia

        Comment by Ingeborg Fischer | July 17, 2014

  202. DAVID ZERIO (Facebook has 3 profiles that are him… Zdavid David, Zdavid Dzerio, and David Zerio). Scammer with very convincing pictures of some brave soldier. He even provided a picture of him playing volleyball when I requested it. (How is that even possible?). DO NOT FRIEND HIM! DO NOT SEND HIM MONEY. I wish Facebook took these things seriously. Their site is being used to perpetrate fraud because they have no mechanism for us to report it or notify them to take profiles down when they have proven (FBI and Police verification) that they are fraudulently using photos of American soldiers to steal money from women. I have “reported” his profiles several times but FB still has not done a thing and I know the times he logs on and he is still logging on, working on his next victim(s), I’m guessing, since I know he is a fraud now & he won’t respond to me. Weird thing is….I would only western union the money, so someone in Virginia actually picked it up for him. Can’t the police track this person down? Don’t they have to show proof before they pick up finds from WU? Wish someone would help me but I’m having to do all the work myself. I can do without the money….his next victim may not be able to. So I am trying like heck to stop him, even if I’m the only one in America.

    Comment by Still Shocked | June 8, 2014 | Reply

    • getting the photos of the officer is relatively easy google image, the image..there you find the base where he is serving then just go through the photos,[ the military wish to show their personal in play also].the person in our scam started out as colonel heike duffy paulson serving in iraq..as the scam went on he became ..air vice marshal heike duffy paulson…after i investigated this ..and found that air vice marshal’s belong to the British military…he went back to being a colonel…after vigorous effort’s to unmask him .he even had the gall to start another Facebook identity which is still there but not being used as heiken duffy paulson..THE APPLE DOES NOT FALL FAR FROM THE TREE..

      Comment by seawolf612009 | July 21, 2014 | Reply

  203. It seems these scammers are targeting the West Midlands lately, we have had a lady in Warwick, one in Rugby and myself in Coventry, when are the Authorities going to do something about it.

    Comment by Christina Anderson | June 8, 2014 | Reply

  204. Edword David is either another Facebook Alias or David Zerio or another scammer who is associated with him. Do not friend him. All he posts are obviously commercialized military photos.

    Comment by Still Shocked | June 8, 2014 | Reply

  205. Can you tell me who found out Edword David was a scammer ,I know he has David Zerio as a friend and David Zerio has got him as a friend, I have been talking to him for about 3 weeks but very rarely and he hasn’t asked me for anything , I am quite shocked, although his English is extremely bad.All he says is are you okay etc, but never asked requested nothing off me .

    Comment by Christina Anderson | June 8, 2014 | Reply

    • ask for photos, and then put on google photo search to find out the true identity of the photo .that’s the first starting point..have done this on many occasions and caught about 10 scammers out.

      Comment by seawolf612009 | June 9, 2014 | Reply

  206. Can you email Still Shocked so we can exchange information that’s if you don’t mind?

    Comment by Christina Anderson | June 8, 2014 | Reply

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    Comment by J. M. | September 24, 2016 | Reply

  228. Hi. Just to warn you. I met this guy in meet me name Sgt. David Thompson. He said his was assigned in Las Vegas. Then after several chatting with him he requested me to file a leave request so we can meet personally. But I need to pay for certain amount. He also send the copy of leave policy signed by Lt. Col. Robert Friedman. Good thing that a friend of mine did a research with this Robert Friedman and the email they provide usmilitarycommander1@usa.com. After several research we were shocked that this is a scam.

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  230. How do I find out if I’m talking to a real military soldier??

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